at the bottom of the home page it usually says the number of staff, members, and guests. right now it has 1 invisible users. i have never seen it before. whats up with the invisible user thing?
If you go into your preferences/profile, you can set it so that you're "invisible" when you sign in. As you noticed, you won't be listed, but the board does list the invisible members signed in at any given time.
Everyone experiences music differently.To say that something is subjectively wrong with live music is to also say that you are more than just your credentials or experience. It says that you are above whatever it is that you see as being the standard. Breaking everything down critically to the point where you are above every matter looking down on it only isolates you and makes you look foolish.