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I saw Uncle Drew tonight. I ate a pint of ice cream twenty minutes ago. I saw a Seattle Storm game this afternoon. I joined Instagram a couple months ago and I forget about it every single day.
I'm not a super big Hardwick fan, but I've enjoyed his podcast and interview style off and on, and have felt a connection with him because of his past issues with alcohol. Maybe it's possible the accusations against him don't have substance?
I'm not a super big Hardwick fan, but I've enjoyed his podcast and interview style off and on, and have felt a connection with him because of his past issues with alcohol. Maybe it's possible the accusations against him don't have substance?
Is the accusation that he didn't want his girlfriend to have male friends and he wanted her to have sex with him when he got home from work? If so, that's asshole behavior, but it's definitely not sexual assault? Is there something I'm not seeing? Just seems like he was a bad boyfriend, they broke up, and now #metoo has run out of people so now let's go after every person who was ever a bad person in a relationship.
I'm not a super big Hardwick fan, but I've enjoyed his podcast and interview style off and on, and have felt a connection with him because of his past issues with alcohol. Maybe it's possible the accusations against him don't have substance?
Is the accusation that he didn't want his girlfriend to have male friends and he wanted her to have sex with him when he got home from work? If so, that's asshole behavior, but it's definitely not sexual assault? Is there something I'm not seeing? Just seems like he was a bad boyfriend, they broke up, and now #metoo has run out of people so now let's go after every person who was ever a bad person in a relationship.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
Is the accusation that he didn't want his girlfriend to have male friends and he wanted her to have sex with him when he got home from work? If so, that's asshole behavior, but it's definitely not sexual assault? Is there something I'm not seeing? Just seems like he was a bad boyfriend, they broke up, and now #metoo has run out of people so now let's go after every person who was ever a bad person in a relationship.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
I mean does it specifically say that? I read that he didn't like her having male friends. I think it's dangerous putting all these behaviors on the same level.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
I mean does it specifically say that? I read that he didn't like her having male friends. I think it's dangerous putting all these behaviors on the same level.
I mean does it specifically say that? I read that he didn't like her having male friends. I think it's dangerous putting all these behaviors on the same level.
I was going by what you typed
You're right. My bad.
I'm trying to get a hold on all of this stuff, seems someone new with something different every day.
As a woman it sadly doesn’t surprise me. It might sound extreme but I’d say at least 20-30% of men have done something shitty enough to make the #metoo list, most just don’t realize how awful their behavior is.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
I mean does it specifically say that? I read that he didn't like her having male friends. I think it's dangerous putting all these behaviors on the same level.
You should just read the post. It's not that long and it's better than speculation or trying to piece everything together from other sources.
The post does not detail textbook sexual assault like in the case of Billy Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, etc. But is shows that Hardwick is a classic abusive partner who manipulated and isolated Chloe for months. It should be considered as part of a larger conversation about consent, respect, and what type of people we want to put on the celebrity pedestal.
Another big issue that I would add that does not look good for Hardwick is Chloe said he tanked her career after they broke up.
I mean does it specifically say that? I read that he didn't like her having male friends. I think it's dangerous putting all these behaviors on the same level.
You should just read the post. It's not that long and it's better than speculation or trying to piece everything together from other sources.
The post does not detail textbook sexual assault like in the case of Billy Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, etc. But is shows that Hardwick is a classic abusive partner who manipulated and isolated Chloe for months. It should be considered as part of a larger conversation about consent, respect, and what type of people we want to put on the celebrity pedestal.
Another big issue that I would add that does not look good for Hardwick is Chloe said he tanked her career after they broke up.
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Will read later. I didn't know where it originated. So, thank you.
Is the accusation that he didn't want his girlfriend to have male friends and he wanted her to have sex with him when he got home from work? If so, that's asshole behavior, but it's definitely not sexual assault? Is there something I'm not seeing? Just seems like he was a bad boyfriend, they broke up, and now #metoo has run out of people so now let's go after every person who was ever a bad person in a relationship.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
i 100% agree that if these things are true, he is an abuser. it's the truth of the accusations that i'm curious about.
so i guess my point in casting a seed of doubt about the truth of the accusations is that it seems exceedingly unlikely he would have acted this way in just one relationship. if he is an abuser, then he almost certainly must have abused other women, right?
and so here we have at least a few past girlfriends standing up for Hardwick and saying he wasn't that way at all in their relationships.
Dictating who your sig other can be friends with is classic abusive behavior, as it dictating when you have sex or expecting it at s certain time every day. If those things are true, he’s not a shitty boyfriend, he’s an abusive one.
i 100% agree that if these things are true, he is an abuser. it's the truth of the accusations that i'm curious about.
so i guess my point in casting a seed of doubt about the truth of the accusations is that it seems exceedingly unlikely he would have acted this way in just one relationship. if he is an abuser, then he almost certainly must have abused other women, right?
and so here we have at least a few past girlfriends standing up for Hardwick and saying he wasn't that way at all in their relationships.
Lots of women said they had great working relationships with Matt Lauer. Female members of the cast of The Cosby Show defended him after multiple complaints were lodged against him.
If there are other women who were abused by Hardwick they may not feel like they can speak publicly about their experience for any number of reasons. Those who have been abused are often manipulated into defending their abusers to friends and family so it's possible other victims may not register their experience as abuse.
I'd call the list of defenders and absence of other accusations inconclusive. Probably still best to just consider what Chloe and Hardwick have personally said.
i 100% agree that if these things are true, he is an abuser. it's the truth of the accusations that i'm curious about.
so i guess my point in casting a seed of doubt about the truth of the accusations is that it seems exceedingly unlikely he would have acted this way in just one relationship. if he is an abuser, then he almost certainly must have abused other women, right?
and so here we have at least a few past girlfriends standing up for Hardwick and saying he wasn't that way at all in their relationships.
Lots of women said they had great working relationships with Matt Lauer. Female members of the cast of The Cosby Show defended him after multiple complaints were lodged against him.
If there are other women who were abused by Hardwick they may not feel like they can speak publicly about their experience for any number of reasons. Those who have been abused are often manipulated into defending their abusers to friends and family so it's possible other victims may not register their experience as abuse.
I'd call the list of defenders and absence of other accusations inconclusive. Probably still best to just consider what Chloe and Hardwick have personally said.
your points are good. to be clear i'm not even really defending Hardwick, just trying to suss out the situation as best i can given the information we have.
In the case of Cosby, while some defended him, he had multiple accusers, so it became pretty clear that the accusations were valid. Lauer also had multiple accusers.
All I'm saying with Hardwick is we just have one allegation right now, and multiple defenders, so I think it is enough to at least cast doubt.
Lots of women said they had great working relationships with Matt Lauer. Female members of the cast of The Cosby Show defended him after multiple complaints were lodged against him.
If there are other women who were abused by Hardwick they may not feel like they can speak publicly about their experience for any number of reasons. Those who have been abused are often manipulated into defending their abusers to friends and family so it's possible other victims may not register their experience as abuse.
I'd call the list of defenders and absence of other accusations inconclusive. Probably still best to just consider what Chloe and Hardwick have personally said.
your points are good. to be clear i'm not even really defending Hardwick, just trying to suss out the situation as best i can given the information we have.
In the case of Cosby, while some defended him, he had multiple accusers, so it became pretty clear that the accusations were valid. Lauer also had multiple accusers.
All I'm saying with Hardwick is we just have one allegation right now, and multiple defenders, so I think it is enough to at least cast doubt.
I definitely didn't think you were defending CH. And you're totally right that the affair story is hearsay right now. Just that it was worth noting so that others wouldn't dismiss the accusations entirely.
Today is supposed to be the worst for us. Heat index is at 105 degrees or higher for most of the area. I'm praying we avoid any brown outs.
I walked to the coffee shop 4 blocks away and the ice in my iced coffee melted before I got back home.
It’s muggy as shit right now but also about 82 and partly drizzly on Pensacola Beach. Nice breeze blowing too.
It is currently 96 (feels like 103) with 50% humidity, according to my weather app. No clouds. In the NY capital region. The high isn't supposed to hit until 4-5pm.
Dinner Plate sized royal red shrimp from Florida gulf waters. We don’t get them in Louisiana so while at Joe Patti’s [tm] we had to get that shit. Doing a beurre blanc