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all right here's a question hopefully more interesting than "do blowjobs count as sex": for some reason I've been getting a lot of recommended posts on Instagram form the more insane side of the personal fitness/hustle mindset side of the internet but because I can't stop clicking them I keep getting more. Got a really ridiculous one today encouraging men to go "monk mode": focusing on your money, career, fitness, and knowledge at the expense of anything fun as the "ultimate form of reclaiming your MASCULINITY." Monk mode entails a lot of stuff, including no partying, no video games, no junk food, "unfollowing all women", and most crucially, "semen retention", including no sex, no fap, and no porn. I sent this to a friend and she asked the following question: does dry humping count as not masturbating/semen retention under this framework?
all right here's a question hopefully more interesting than "do blowjobs count as sex": for some reason I've been getting a lot of recommended posts on Instagram form the more insane side of the personal fitness/hustle mindset side of the internet but because I can't stop clicking them I keep getting more. Got a really ridiculous one today encouraging men to go "monk mode": focusing on your money, career, fitness, and knowledge at the expense of anything fun as the "ultimate form of reclaiming your MASCULINITY." Monk mode entails a lot of stuff, including no partying, no video games, no junk food, "unfollowing all women", and most crucially, "semen retention", including no sex, no fap, and no porn. I sent this to a friend and she asked the following question: does dry humping count as not masturbating/semen retention under this framework?
I wouldn't think dry humping counts in that framework. Also WHY? This sounds ridiculous.
all right here's a question hopefully more interesting than "do blowjobs count as sex": for some reason I've been getting a lot of recommended posts on Instagram form the more insane side of the personal fitness/hustle mindset side of the internet but because I can't stop clicking them I keep getting more. Got a really ridiculous one today encouraging men to go "monk mode": focusing on your money, career, fitness, and knowledge at the expense of anything fun as the "ultimate form of reclaiming your MASCULINITY." Monk mode entails a lot of stuff, including no partying, no video games, no junk food, "unfollowing all women", and most crucially, "semen retention", including no sex, no fap, and no porn. I sent this to a friend and she asked the following question: does dry humping count as not masturbating/semen retention under this framework?
I would imagine even kissing would be off limits. There's even "no simp November" where people don't even jerk off. It's so weird.
all right here's a question hopefully more interesting than "do blowjobs count as sex": for some reason I've been getting a lot of recommended posts on Instagram form the more insane side of the personal fitness/hustle mindset side of the internet but because I can't stop clicking them I keep getting more. Got a really ridiculous one today encouraging men to go "monk mode": focusing on your money, career, fitness, and knowledge at the expense of anything fun as the "ultimate form of reclaiming your MASCULINITY." Monk mode entails a lot of stuff, including no partying, no video games, no junk food, "unfollowing all women", and most crucially, "semen retention", including no sex, no fap, and no porn. I sent this to a friend and she asked the following question: does dry humping count as not masturbating/semen retention under this framework?
I would imagine even kissing would be off limits. There's even "no simp November" where people don't even jerk off. It's so weird.
to be clear, her insinuation was dry humping, like, a pillow as a solo act. I argued no because there's some sexual stimulation involved but wanted to hear if anyone wanted to argue the opposite.
I would imagine even kissing would be off limits. There's even "no simp November" where people don't even jerk off. It's so weird.
to be clear, her insinuation was dry humping, like, a pillow as a solo act. I argued no because there's some sexual stimulation involved but wanted to hear if anyone wanted to argue the opposite.
you can def cum humping a pillow.
Also, sounds like the Illuminati has you in its sights.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Post by jorgeandthekraken on Apr 15, 2022 22:35:17 GMT -5
Has any dude post-puberty climaxed from dry humping alone? It’s not like jeans are made of God’s sheerest fabric…not to mention the zipper is right there.
Has any dude post-puberty climaxed from dry humping alone? It’s not like jeans are made of God’s sheerest fabric…not to mention the zipper is right there.
Has any dude post-puberty climaxed from dry humping alone? It’s not like jeans are made of God’s sheerest fabric…not to mention the zipper is right there.
Yes. PE is a real thing.
EDIT: sorry. I know you know that. But in all reality. PE and ED and other sexual dysfunction like low libido, related to anxiety, and medication etc are fairly common.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Has any dude post-puberty climaxed from dry humping alone? It’s not like jeans are made of God’s sheerest fabric…not to mention the zipper is right there.
Yes. PE is a real thing.
EDIT: sorry. I know you know that. But in all reality. PE and ED and other sexual disfunction like low libido, related to anxiety, and medication etc are fairly common.
Absolutely fair point, and insensitive of me not to take that into account. I blame the sleep deprivation for me not thinking before I click post.
So, I like my personality. I'm smart, funny, have tons of adventures, have varied interests. There's plenty I like about myself, and there's plenty that people should like about me.
Now this flesh prison in which I inhabit, it's meh. But, that's a discussion for another day.
We will fight over this, but your flesh person means a lot less than your personality if you use bonzai's strategy of more contact and putting yourself out there. And finding your stride and ease, what works for you does matter.
Being stuck in a mind prison is a bitch. Because it involves finding validation for your state of being, and Vieux knows that my problem is that I do not like myself.
Just for the record, I don't blame my appearance for success or lack thereof with women.
EDIT: sorry. I know you know that. But in all reality. PE and ED and other sexual disfunction like low libido, related to anxiety, and medication etc are fairly common.
Absolutely fair point, and insensitive of me not to take that into account. I blame the sleep deprivation for me not thinking before I click post.
I hope I didn’t sound confrontational there. You are always so great at introspecting. That is why I edited and said that I know you that. I didn’t want to sound like I was trying to “school” you on a reality that you know.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
all right here's a question hopefully more interesting than "do blowjobs count as sex": for some reason I've been getting a lot of recommended posts on Instagram form the more insane side of the personal fitness/hustle mindset side of the internet but because I can't stop clicking them I keep getting more. Got a really ridiculous one today encouraging men to go "monk mode": focusing on your money, career, fitness, and knowledge at the expense of anything fun as the "ultimate form of reclaiming your MASCULINITY." Monk mode entails a lot of stuff, including no partying, no video games, no junk food, "unfollowing all women", and most crucially, "semen retention", including no sex, no fap, and no porn. I sent this to a friend and she asked the following question: does dry humping count as not masturbating/semen retention under this framework?
I would imagine even kissing would be off limits. There's even "no simp November" where people don't even jerk off. It's so weird.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
While I do find it easy to get on dates via apps, it never really results into a second one let alone sex. I've noticed I'm probably either to friendly and not to flirty and I'm not to sure how to get better at that since I just seem to stay on the same level and not progress. Stuff like Tinder is great and easy but I also quite long for some spontaneous shit in a bar or in a club though it never seems to happen or 'don't get the cues' as someone mentioned a few pages back. So I feel like I've been a bit stuck the past couple years. Before covid there was a period I'd date once a week, someone from Tinder or whatever, then covid really slowed things down and now with every rejection I find it hard to pick myself up and go through the process of it all again. Maybe I lay to much weight on that first date or do I not know if I'd rather have hook ups or long for a relationship.
The stuff Jaz and Jake Jortles have said have been very insightful tho, so thanks for that.
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Ghosting is the norm with dating apps. It fucking sucks and I've gotten in more than one argument with friends about the ethics of ghosting, but it's just how it is. Just part of dating culture now.
Post by man1cpixiedreamgirl on Apr 16, 2022 17:21:36 GMT -5
My GF uses apps still (well one app now that she's not dating for romantic partners anymore) and holy cow it's a crazy town out there. I'm pretty satisfied with my pace right now and the people I already see - because it's all fairly communal and VERY communicative, there's not as much bad behavior tolerated in those spaces. But my GF encounters a lot more crap because she likes to poach new partners out in the wild. She's got way more bandwidth than I do.
Ghosting is the norm with dating apps. It fucking sucks and I've gotten in more than one argument with friends about the ethics of ghosting, but it's just how it is. Just part of dating culture now.
So M, the girl I saw a few times with the locked up husband - I told her that I didn't wish to pursue a relationship. The whole it's not you, it's me line. But I thought lying was better than ghosting.
Ghosting is the norm with dating apps. It fucking sucks and I've gotten in more than one argument with friends about the ethics of ghosting, but it's just how it is. Just part of dating culture now.
So M, the girl I saw a few times with the locked up husband - I told her that I didn't wish to pursue a relationship. The whole it's not you, it's me line. But I thought lying was better than ghosting.
I've always made an effort to never ghost. A girl I used to work with made a somewhat reasonable argument for why sometimes ghosting is okay (safety against people with danger vibes), but I never thought it difficult to at the very least send a straightforward text providing closure. It literally only takes a minute or two to come up with polite words in ending something. After one or a few dates there isn't really much more that is needed.
Now if said person doesn't take it well and starts off with the verbal abuse. Block, block, BLOCK.
Never ghosted. I think it's shitty. Like sometimes convo peters out (or never gets anywhere in the first place) and that's fine, but if I go on a date with you I'm gonna let you know if I don't want to see you again.
Never ghosted. I think it's shitty. Like sometimes convo peters out (or never gets anywhere in the first place) and that's fine, but if I go on a date with you I'm gonna let you know if I don't want to see you again.
You continue to be the King of the thread. (Guessing your gender here - feel free to correct me!)
Never ghosted. I think it's shitty. Like sometimes convo peters out (or never gets anywhere in the first place) and that's fine, but if I go on a date with you I'm gonna let you know if I don't want to see you again.
You continue to be the King of the thread. (Guessing your gender here - feel free to correct me!)
Haha continually unpacking that - feel free to refer to me as you wish.
There's been a couple times now where I go on a date, she gives me her number, and then ghosts 2-3 days later.
I can't remember if I've told this story here before. I once went on a bumble date and it seemed to go really well and we made plans for a second date. Then a few days later when I tried to set up date two, she just ghosted on me. At the time I was doing food delivery and like 2 weeks later I delivered her dinner. She insisted she had just been busy with work and wanted to go out again. So we started texting again for a few days. Then she ghosted me again.