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lost my virginity right after 18th bday but had been doing manual/oral sex things since 16 (idk, penetration just sorta scared me for those first couple years of sexual exploration haha so i stuck to the other bases for a while).
now are you asking about first time orgasming from g-spot/vaginally or just at any point during the sex? because if the latter, then honestly pretty soon after that first time because i know how to use my own hand lmao
if asking about like orgasm FROM the penetration itself, uhh literally years later. honestly, think it literally happened once ever in my first almost-5 years of having sex. around 23ish, discovered some kink things that got me into a different headspace and boom. my orgasm journey has been a little wild haha, given the things i can cum from now if within the right dynamic/connection.
Do you think the G-spot is real? I don't. I think maybe the clitoral bulbs are stimulated internally or even the deeper insertion, that it requires, is stimulating other tissues, including the labia minora, while also providing internal pressure.
As far as the question when did you have an orgasm from penetrative sex, it was years after I started having sex and was certainly because of stimulation, during the penetration, of the clitoral structures. The grind is divine
I definitely think the g-spot is misunderstood haha. Like you, I don't believe it to be this totally separate thing from the clitoris but instead it is that the vaginal walls press up against the clitoral bulbs in varying proximity/closeness, female to female. It makes sense to me that the closer one's vaginal wall is to those internal bulbs, the more likely that female is to be able to cum from vaginal penetration. Just as I believe the closer a female's anal wall is to those bulbs, the easier they can cum from anal.
But that's just the physical side of it, of course. I presume the location of all these internal spots haven't shifted within me over the years, yet my ability to orgasm in ways beyond just clitorally has definitely shifted/expanded greatly over the years. And I chalk that up to psychological/mental shifts and developments, and things I've discovered that have deepened my understand of my sexual self.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Would anybody be interested in a thread where people could ask questions about sex?
seems to be this thread, but yes!
I love talking about this stuff not because "I'm so horny" but because sexual psychology and sociology fascinates me. I've waffled for years now on whether to go back to school to get the credentials for becoming a sex therapist.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Would anybody be interested in a thread where people could ask questions about sex?
seems to be this thread, but yes!
I love talking about this stuff not because "I'm so horny" but because sexual psychology and sociology fascinates me. I've waffled for years now on whether to go back to school to get the credentials for becoming a sex therapist.
If you do will you be mine? I'm so tired of everybody I talk to about my issues just saying "just keeping trying"
I love talking about this stuff not because "I'm so horny" but because sexual psychology and sociology fascinates me. I've waffled for years now on whether to go back to school to get the credentials for becoming a sex therapist.
If you do will you be mine? I'm so tired of everybody I talk to about my issues just saying "just keeping trying"
of course
do you have any specific questions on your mind right now?
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
If you do will you be mine? I'm so tired of everybody I talk to about my issues just saying "just keeping trying"
of course
do you have any specific questions on your mind right now?
Not so much a question as I'm 32 cis female with a cis male partner and I've never had an orgasm and all I ever get it, just keep trying...and I obviously am like "what do you think I've been doing half my life?" most of the time it doesn't bother me so much but I worry about it affecting my current relationship eventually like it has my past relationships, where its fine at the start but overtime they get frustrated, or start feeling like there's something wrong with them.
do you have any specific questions on your mind right now?
Not so much a question as I'm 32 cis female with a cis male partner and I've never had an orgasm and all I ever get it, just keep trying...and I obviously am like "what do you think I've been doing half my life?" most of the time it doesn't bother me so much but I worry about it affecting my current relationship eventually like it has my past relationships, where its fine at the start but overtime they get frustrated, or start feeling like there's something wrong with them.
From a man who has to deal with medicated sex issues. This is all ego. And if your partner feels that love towards you, they will let you introduce new things into the scheme. It's a challenge to instill that isn't about their inability but MY want to achieve the same level of happiness as you are receiving. I learned the hard way, lost my ex during/over this type of shit so I feel like I have some understanding.
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do you have any specific questions on your mind right now?
Not so much a question as I'm 32 cis female with a cis male partner and I've never had an orgasm and all I ever get it, just keep trying...and I obviously am like "what do you think I've been doing half my life?" most of the time it doesn't bother me so much but I worry about it affecting my current relationship eventually like it has my past relationships, where its fine at the start but overtime they get frustrated, or start feeling like there's something wrong with them.
I know that must be frustrating :/ Although there is *nothing whatsoever wrong with you* and a loving partner ought to accept & desire you regardless of your ability to orgasm, I can also imagine that you'd like to break through to make it happen if you can.
Are there some things you notice generate more arousal than others - even if not resulting in orgasm?
And what kind of sex toys have you tried?
(we can also take this to PM if that would feel more comfortable for you)
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Would anybody be interested in a thread where people could ask questions about sex?
seems to be this thread, but yes!
I love talking about this stuff not because "I'm so horny" but because sexual psychology and sociology fascinates me. I've waffled for years now on whether to go back to school to get the credentials for becoming a sex therapist.
Pro: you can help people in an important and seldomly discussed topic
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
3) I guess I have no community here in Brooklyn? I kinda moved into this house hoping to gain that group, but the main person I know decided their farm upstate is more relevant. (Yes there are huge discrepancies of wealth and ability here). But nonetheless, I'm actually really sad I've never been invited to a sex party.
If you're not opposed to apps I'll recommend joining Feeld. It's a good way to get your foot in the door with the kink/sex party/poly community, and is pretty active in Brooklyn
There are definitely other avenues to getting invited to parties and such but its an easy way to get to know some of those people
3) I guess I have no community here in Brooklyn? I kinda moved into this house hoping to gain that group, but the main person I know decided their farm upstate is more relevant. (Yes there are huge discrepancies of wealth and ability here). But nonetheless, I'm actually really sad I've never been invited to a sex party.
If you're not opposed to apps I'll recommend joining Feeld. It's a good way to get your foot in the door with the kink/sex party/poly community, and is pretty active in Brooklyn
There are definitely other avenues to getting invited to parties and such but its an easy way to get to know some of those people
Feeld is prob fine to navigate as a hetero-leaning dude but omg as a queer/bi poly girl, it was a nightmare for the brief period I tried. so many unicorn hunters and pushy couples looking for threesomes. i had no luck on that app, sadly.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
If you're not opposed to apps I'll recommend joining Feeld. It's a good way to get your foot in the door with the kink/sex party/poly community, and is pretty active in Brooklyn
There are definitely other avenues to getting invited to parties and such but its an easy way to get to know some of those people
Feeld is prob fine to navigate as a hetero-leaning dude but omg as a queer/bi poly girl, it was a nightmare for the brief period I tried. so many unicorn hunters and pushy couples looking for threesomes. i had no luck on that app, sadly.
This is pretty much exactly what I've heard about this app
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
If you're not opposed to apps I'll recommend joining Feeld. It's a good way to get your foot in the door with the kink/sex party/poly community, and is pretty active in Brooklyn
There are definitely other avenues to getting invited to parties and such but its an easy way to get to know some of those people
Feeld is prob fine to navigate as a hetero-leaning dude but omg as a queer/bi poly girl, it was a nightmare for the brief period I tried. so many unicorn hunters and pushy couples looking for threesomes. i had no luck on that app, sadly.
Yeah that's definitely an issue I haven't had to deal with (as a male-presenting person in a hetero-presenting relationship) and the app itself is glitchy af, but the connections I've made there have all been great or else they were immediate no-gos
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