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We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
So I've tried to make an about me on two sites and I'm afraid now that I'm just boring as shit. Question is was I always this boring or did the last two years suck the life out of me?
It's important to note that I'm trying to work on polyamory that I've felt since I was in college but was relegated to monogamous relationships, and... a feeling that I'm a bit queer but not queer enough at all to be in the representative sample. I find myself angry at myself now for not having an expanded view on attractiveness because of my encultured views of what's beauty
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So I've tried to make an about me on two sites and I'm afraid now that I'm just boring as shit. Question is was I always this boring or did the last two years suck the life out of me?
It's important to note that I'm trying to work on polyamory that I've felt since I was in college but was relegated to monogamous relationships, and... a feeling that I'm a bit queer but not queer enough at all to be in the representative sample. I find myself angry at myself now for not having an expanded view on attractiveness because of my encultured views of what's beauty
Getting angry at yourself does you no favors, and isn’t attractive to others. Just do your best.
So I've tried to make an about me on two sites and I'm afraid now that I'm just boring as shit. Question is was I always this boring or did the last two years suck the life out of me?
It's important to note that I'm trying to work on polyamory that I've felt since I was in college but was relegated to monogamous relationships, and... a feeling that I'm a bit queer but not queer enough at all to be in the representative sample. I find myself angry at myself now for not having an expanded view on attractiveness because of my encultured views of what's beauty
Relatable thoughts here. Maybe you're boring sometimes. Maybe you don't have perfectly enlightened ideas on attraction and you're not queer enough to fit in some places but too queer to fit in others.
Can you love those parts of yourself? That's what I've been working on. A big hug to my flawed self.
So I've tried to make an about me on two sites and I'm afraid now that I'm just boring as shit. Question is was I always this boring or did the last two years suck the life out of me?
It's important to note that I'm trying to work on polyamory that I've felt since I was in college but was relegated to monogamous relationships, and... a feeling that I'm a bit queer but not queer enough at all to be in the representative sample. I find myself angry at myself now for not having an expanded view on attractiveness because of my encultured views of what's beauty
Relatable thoughts here. Maybe you're boring sometimes. Maybe you don't have perfectly enlightened ideas on attraction and you're not queer enough to fit in some places but too queer to fit in others.
Can you love those parts of yourself? That's what I've been working on. A big hug to my flawed self.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
So I've tried to make an about me on two sites and I'm afraid now that I'm just boring as shit. Question is was I always this boring or did the last two years suck the life out of me?
It's important to note that I'm trying to work on polyamory that I've felt since I was in college but was relegated to monogamous relationships, and... a feeling that I'm a bit queer but not queer enough at all to be in the representative sample. I find myself angry at myself now for not having an expanded view on attractiveness because of my encultured views of what's beauty
Getting angry at yourself does you no favors, and isn’t attractive to others. Just do your best.
Just being honest with myself. I feel actual discomfort in the fact I was raised around homophobia and since I was 16 was called a girl for having long hair by random people - and I always felt weird and awkward about it. So now at 35+ I don't know what to do with myself?
Getting angry at yourself does you no favors, and isn’t attractive to others. Just do your best.
Just being honest with myself. I feel actual discomfort in the fact I was raised around homophobia and since I was 16 was called a girl for having long hair by random people - and I always felt weird and awkward about it. So now at 35+ I don't know what to do with myself?
There’s a podcast called “man enough” that talks about this. Also listen to / read things by queer educators. It’s pride so it’s easy to find them! I mean shit even Queer Eye or Pose helps
Getting angry at yourself does you no favors, and isn’t attractive to others. Just do your best.
Just being honest with myself. I feel actual discomfort in the fact I was raised around homophobia and since I was 16 was called a girl for having long hair by random people - and I always felt weird and awkward about it. So now at 35+ I don't know what to do with myself?
I feel you. I went through the same raised in a Mexican American family and not buying into the machismo bs at all. I got made fun of my entire life (still do at age 41) for doing my own thing whether it was dying/ having long hair, wearing non baggy clothes, liking punk or edm, even going to college. I stopped giving a fuck in jr high and haven’t looked back since. I love my family but I won’t compromise who I am for them. Ever.
Just being honest with myself. I feel actual discomfort in the fact I was raised around homophobia and since I was 16 was called a girl for having long hair by random people - and I always felt weird and awkward about it. So now at 35+ I don't know what to do with myself?
I feel you. I went through the same raised in a Mexican American family and not buying into the machismo bs at all. I got made fun of my entire life (still do at age 41) for doing my own thing whether it was dying/ having long hair, wearing non baggy clothes, liking punk or edm, even going to college. I stopped giving a fuck in jr high and haven’t looked back since. I love my family but I won’t compromise who I am for them. Ever.
As much as people will tell you confidence is sexy. Some of us have trauma that destroys that confidence in ways that are not describable to most listeners. I know the struggles that exist in BIPOC groups around all of this, and am 5 years younger too so maybe my growth hasn't gotten to that point, but strength is not personal self-confidence. I know people who will yell at me through the screen, but it is what it is. Accepting it was a whole stage for me. I don't know, this time period is fraught with understanding the past but not fully ingesting yet, if you hear me?
Absolutely. You can be ace and have romantic relationships that aren’t sexual.
*The More You Know rainbow here*
Basically, some people (like myself) consider romantic and sexual attraction to be two different things.
My lived experience is that I would want to be in an romantic relationship with a woman, but the sexual attraction isn't there. Therefore, ace lesbian.
It's a little controversial in the ace community, but that's how I roll.
I feel you. I went through the same raised in a Mexican American family and not buying into the machismo bs at all. I got made fun of my entire life (still do at age 41) for doing my own thing whether it was dying/ having long hair, wearing non baggy clothes, liking punk or edm, even going to college. I stopped giving a fuck in jr high and haven’t looked back since. I love my family but I won’t compromise who I am for them. Ever.
As much as people will tell you confidence is sexy. Some of us have trauma that destroys that confidence in ways that are not describable to most listeners. I know the struggles that exist in BIPOC groups around all of this, and am 5 years younger too so maybe my growth hasn't gotten to that point, but strength is not personal self-confidence. I know people who will yell at me through the screen, but it is what it is. Accepting it was a whole stage for me. I don't know, this time period is fraught with understanding the past but not fully ingesting yet, if you hear me?
Self confidence can be a fleeting thing, I've found. Somedays I'm the king of the world other days I'm the fool.
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