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Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 15:23:28 GMT -5
i understand man..
All you can ask them to do is be honest, because the worst is catching a female in a lie. They panic like a rolly polly, and that just makes you not want to trust them any more than you do allready.
p.s. i dont think iv'e been dating the RIGHT girls. I am just accustomed to looking for the obvious things. How stupid of me.
Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 15:32:46 GMT -5
lol. yes, you are correct i guess, at least most girls, after they feel so terrible about lying will eventually tell you the truth. (as will some guys) but ya, ive been guilty of just digging myself halfway to china before.
If you work too hard, there is never any time for her. If you don't work enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum. If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, it's exploitation. If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your ass and find something better. If you get a promotion ahead of her, it's favoritism. If she gets a job ahead of you, it's equal opportunity. If you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment. If you keep quiet, it's male indifference. If you cry, you're a wimp. If you don't, you're insensitive. If you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist pig, you bastard. If she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman. If you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain. If you don't, you're a slob. If you buy her flowers, you're after something. If you don't, you're not thoughtful. If you're proud of your achievements, you're an egotist. If you're not, you're not ambitious. If she has a headache, she's tired. If you have a headache, you don't love her anymore, and you must be sleeping around.
Sounds like ya'll men are finding the bad of the bunch; we're not all like that.
And honestly, smite me if you wish but women act that way because they get away with it. I remember when I started dating my now husband. We got in a fight and I slammed around and said , "I hate you, take me home!" and pouted. Well he went into the kitchen, came back and stared at me. I asked him what he was doing. "Waiting for you to get your coat so I can take you home." Well of course I didn't WANT to go home, I wanted him to apologize and grovel. Well since he stood up to me I realized he wasn't a puss and well... we've been happily married for 3 years.
He doesn't lie to me, i don't lie to him, when I get bitchy, he lets me know. When I have PMS I give him a heads up. When he wants space he says, "I love you, but I just need to breathe" and I leave him alone because I know it's not me, he just wants space in life.
It takes two to play a game
But yeah, women can be a PITA; not until my 30s could I find awesome female friends that didn't play games.
unfortunatly, i must admit that if you ask the majority of my friends they will admit to it. and then when you ask them why, its a simple answer of... "its just kinda fun." girls are never satisfied. no matter what. and thus, play games so that they never allow themselves to become satisfied with whatever situation they get themselves into. they play games to keep you wondering. and to keep their interest. otherwise, they get bored and move on.
Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 17:38:20 GMT -5
if the girl doesnt sleep with me on the first date, that equals another date for me. I dont like the straight up sluts. Had enough of those in my day. I'm ready for something meaningful.
if the girl doesnt sleep with me on the first date, that equals another date for me. I dont like the straight up sluts. Had enough of those in my day. I'm ready for something meaningful.
Well....do you attempt to sleep with her on the first date? I mean....you know...that would be kind of a double standard there dude...I mean...it takes two ya know...
"Oh...I'm sorry..I can't date you anymore...you failed the test...I didn't REALLY want you to sleep with me...I was just testing you! But thanks for playing..." And you say WE play games.... ;D
Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 17:53:40 GMT -5
lol no no no, not like that. You took it way wrong. I'm saying if the girls like come on inside blah blah... and i say no and she doesnt give me a look like, "dude, wtf are you thinking" then she will def. get another date. I cant say that ive been big enough to say no everytime. but sometimes i have and the girl just gives me some weird black stare
Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 18:03:23 GMT -5
I know exactly what you mean man. I just need to not think about things so much when they happen, and go with the flow. But its a lot easier said than done. Especially in the heat of the relationship
lol no no no, not like that. You took it way wrong. I'm saying if the girls like come on inside blah blah... and i say no and she doesnt give me a look like, "dude, wtf are you thinking" then she will def. get another date. I cant say that ive been big enough to say no everytime. but sometimes i have and the girl just gives me some weird black stare
LOL! OK...that's diff then...
Yeah...can't imagine being THAT forward....esp on a first date... Where ARE you meeting these girls???
Cheer up guys....we aren't ALL like the ones you guys have apparently been...um...."hooking" up with...LOL! You just need to hang in better places...
Post by mulcherry0420 on Jan 26, 2008 18:13:36 GMT -5
well i met one in history class. and its ironic because her ex's thought it necissary to inform me on her personal history and it kinda ruined it for me. ='/Lame!
i usually dont go looking for a gf/relationship. its not my style. lol.
If I didn't go out with a woman because of what her ex's said I would almost never have had a date. Don't ever let that be the reason why you don't like a woman. Form your own opinion.
If you work too hard, there is never any time for her. If you don't work enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum. If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, it's exploitation. If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your ass and find something better. If you get a promotion ahead of her, it's favoritism. If she gets a job ahead of you, it's equal opportunity. If you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment. If you keep quiet, it's male indifference. If you cry, you're a wimp. If you don't, you're insensitive. If you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist pig, you bastard. If she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman. If you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain. If you don't, you're a slob. If you buy her flowers, you're after something. If you don't, you're not thoughtful. If you're proud of your achievements, you're an egotist. If you're not, you're not ambitious. If she has a headache, she's tired. If you have a headache, you don't love her anymore, and you must be sleeping around.
Where ARE you meeting these girls??? 
