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This is so weird i was just going to post a similar thread. I'm not married but I too returned home from Bonnaroo with my girlfriend of 9 years telling me she wasnt in love with me anymore. I'm absolultely heartbroken and ever since i came home i have been in such heartache. I've never felt so hurt in my life and I can't seem to stop crying. I love her so much and would do anything to make things better, but for some reason, she doesn't want to try. I'm 25 years old and met her when I was 16. I will miss her dearly. Why does this sh!t have to happen?? ??? I'm seriously bummed.
I've never been married, but this is essentially what happened to me with my ex-girlfriend. We had only been dating for a year, nowhere near nine years, but I loved her and really thought we would probably get married eventually. One day she essentially decided that it wasn't going to work anymore, basically notified me via text message, and refused to consider otherwise no matter what I promised to do or change. This was nine months ago and I still get depressed when I think about it. I cried for a long time. Why do (some) girls have to be so crazy and insensitive? Anyway, I've finally moved on to the extent that I can, but I feel for you guys. Keep your chin up, who knows what'll happen right?
Post by pixiestix21 on Jun 20, 2009 17:48:09 GMT -5
don't worry, just because many women are crazy doesn't mean that ALL of us are....although we might get overlooked sometimes because we aren't out there causing drama wishing you both the best of luck in finding the non-crazies out there! sending you the best of vibes in the meantime...
This is so weird i was just going to post a similar thread. I'm not married but I too returned home from Bonnaroo with my girlfriend of 9 years telling me she wasnt in love with me anymore. I'm absolultely heartbroken and ever since i came home i have been in such heartache. I've never felt so hurt in my life and I can't seem to stop crying. I love her so much and would do anything to make things better, but for some reason, she doesn't want to try. I'm 25 years old and met her when I was 16. I will miss her dearly. Why does this sh!t have to happen?? ??? I'm seriously bummed.
I've never been married, but this is essentially what happened to me with my ex-girlfriend. We had only been dating for a year, nowhere near nine years, but I loved her and really thought we would probably get married eventually. One day she essentially decided that it wasn't going to work anymore, basically notified me via text message, and refused to consider otherwise no matter what I promised to do or change. This was nine months ago and I still get depressed when I think about it. I cried for a long time. Why do (some) girls have to be so crazy and insensitive? Anyway, I've finally moved on to the extent that I can, but I feel for you guys. Keep your chin up, who knows what'll happen right?
Brother, don't ever change for anyone besides yourself (unless you're quacked up and your family has an intervention, that's about the only exception). Don't ever say you'll change to stay with a woman, she'll only respect you less for it. Direct the inevitable change in your life yourself, positively, on your own terms, and your love life will take care of itself. That's a promise.
It would have ruined your Roo if she told you beforehand. I know from similar experience...
Just think of the opportunities at your next show/festy, once you're in the right frame of mind.
Best of luck with everything.
Yeah I know what you're saying but even single I think I would still concentrate on seeing the shows. Unless something "dropped in my lap". Like three single hotties borrowing my tent stakes and going to shows with me. Sigh.
Thanks for the well wishes.
where were you camped?? my group could have been classified as three single hotties, and we were borrowing tent stakes left right and center... just wondering if we could have crossed paths!!
Yeah I know what you're saying but even single I think I would still concentrate on seeing the shows. Unless something "dropped in my lap". Like three single hotties borrowing my tent stakes and going to shows with me. Sigh.
Thanks for the well wishes.
where were you camped?? my group could have been classified as three single hotties, and we were borrowing tent stakes left right and center... just wondering if we could have crossed paths!!
I was camped at Axel Foley. I had an inflatable Tweety Bird for a flag. One of the girls was from Atlanta and one was from Boston, not sure where the third was from. They were all too cute for words. They left while I was sleeping and returned my tent stakes tied up with a note that said "Thanks, The Girls Next Door."
don't worry, just because many women are crazy doesn't mean that ALL of us are....although we might get overlooked sometimes because we aren't out there causing drama wishing you both the best of luck in finding the non-crazies out there! sending you the best of vibes in the meantime...
^^^This about the drama...no shiz...some women seem to thrive on it...and men play into it...
Not sure whether to congrat you on the make-up sex..that being said. Sounds incredibly hard....
don't worry, just because many women are crazy doesn't mean that ALL of us are....although we might get overlooked sometimes because we aren't out there causing drama wishing you both the best of luck in finding the non-crazies out there! sending you the best of vibes in the meantime...
^^^This about the drama...no shiz...some women seem to thrive on it...and men play into it...
Not sure whether to congrat you on the make-up sex..that being said. Sounds incredibly hard....
heh..there's a punn there somwhere...
Yeah I'm not sure whether congrats are in order or not. I think I may have been reduced to "friends with benefits" status. I feel used and I'm not sure whether I like it or not.
^Hmmm test it out by bringing home a hot chick to watch a movie with you tonight. Afterwards you should have a good idea of where she stands emotionally.
I've never been married, but this is essentially what happened to me with my ex-girlfriend. We had only been dating for a year, nowhere near nine years, but I loved her and really thought we would probably get married eventually. One day she essentially decided that it wasn't going to work anymore, basically notified me via text message, and refused to consider otherwise no matter what I promised to do or change. This was nine months ago and I still get depressed when I think about it. I cried for a long time. Why do (some) girls have to be so crazy and insensitive? Anyway, I've finally moved on to the extent that I can, but I feel for you guys. Keep your chin up, who knows what'll happen right?
Brother, don't ever change for anyone besides yourself (unless you're quacked up and your family has an intervention, that's about the only exception). Don't ever say you'll change to stay with a woman, she'll only respect you less for it. Direct the inevitable change in your life yourself, positively, on your own terms, and your love life will take care of itself. That's a promise.
don't worry, just because many women are crazy doesn't mean that ALL of us are....although we might get overlooked sometimes because we aren't out there causing drama wishing you both the best of luck in finding the non-crazies out there! sending you the best of vibes in the meantime...
I would like to have faith in that pixie but sometimes I just feel like a "crazy woman magnet". I attract them. My first wife was way worse.
John: We don't even understand our own music Spider: It doesn't, does it matter whether we understand it? At least it'll give us . . . strength John: I know but maybe we could get into it more if we understood it
Okay so I had the most awesome Bonnaroo ever. So I get home and two days after I return my wife tells me that we should end our marriage. This didn't come right out of the blue as we have been having problems for a while.
But the b!tch of it is: Why didn't she tell me BEFORE I went to Bonnaroo. I was camped next to 3 beautiful women around my own age who were camping alone with no men. I helped them set up their tent and went to a show with them. Of course I wore my wedding ring and was a good boy the whole time.
Talk about sh!t timing.
sorry to hear that happened to you. get this though. This woman I know who brought her daughter to roo broke the news that she was divoricing her father. SHE BROKE TE NEWS AT ROO. WTF?
Okay so I had the most awesome Bonnaroo ever. So I get home and two days after I return my wife tells me that we should end our marriage. This didn't come right out of the blue as we have been having problems for a while.
But the b!tch of it is: Why didn't she tell me BEFORE I went to Bonnaroo. I was camped next to 3 beautiful women around my own age who were camping alone with no men. I helped them set up their tent and went to a show with them. Of course I wore my wedding ring and was a good boy the whole time.
Talk about sh!t timing.
sorry to hear that happened to you. get this though. This woman I know who brought her daughter to roo broke the news that she was divoricing her father. SHE BROKE TE NEWS AT ROO. WTF?
"It's hard to say whether seeing Kellz backed by Jim James and his lion's mane hairdo or Billy Idol rocking out next to John Oates and his soul patch was weirder to watch. Let's just say both were beautifully bizarre sights to behold."
For the same reason someone once broke up with me on my birthday? It's called being incredibly self-involved.
I don't want to agree with you...but I kind of do. And to top it all off, he's an Inforooster so it breaks my heart to even log in and participate now. I don't even want to look at my Roo pictures or tell my Roo stories any longer. I *really* hope that phase passes because I'd like to visit the farm again next year. With a new camping partner, of course.
For the same reason someone once broke up with me on my birthday? It's called being incredibly self-involved.
And for the same reason that my ex showed up in my office on Valentine's Day to sign divorce papers - handed me a cared, said Happy Valentine's Day, where are the papers so I can sign them.
Some people are just idiots and think only of themselves.
insidejoke - I agree with jhointn - log in all you want - stay here - hang around - we like you and want you here
^^ insidejoke, log in anytime... I look forward to your posts! And boys are stupid, plain and simple.
Oi I am nice and respectful and all that stuff, also I rarely if ever pee on the carpets these days . Insidejoke stick around there is no reason to run off because of a relationship. If that happened we would lose 20% of the board after every Bonnaroo.
For the same reason someone once broke up with me on my birthday? It's called being incredibly self-involved.
I don't want to agree with you...but I kind of do. And to top it all off, he's an Inforooster so it breaks my heart to even log in and participate now. I don't even want to look at my Roo pictures or tell my Roo stories any longer. I *really* hope that phase passes because I'd like to visit the farm again next year. With a new camping partner, of course.
If I remember correctly he was going to make you drive home from Bonnaroo alone in the middle of the night until he got shamed out of it from posts on here, right? Eh. Obviously it hurts, and I won't belittle that, but you should be with someone that puts you first.
Post by insidejoke on Jun 24, 2009 12:15:24 GMT -5
To all you supportive Inforooers, thank you. I know what you say is true but it's still a hard pill to swallow. And Hipster Doofus, you hit the nail on the head there. It was shame that made him change his mind, not concern for me. I should have noticed all these little red flags over the past six months but all I saw was his sweet bearded face instead.