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On a random note I would like to say I am the best boyfriend ever for six months. I think I am just gonna go with six month relationships and just start walking away after for awhile.
You should set an alarm on your phone calendar.
I am really thinking about just having a six month relationship to see how I feel when I walk away.
Post by Adultishgambino on Apr 27, 2012 5:22:33 GMT -5
two weeks seems to be my average. a girl actually asked me if i was gonna leave her after two weeks before we started dating and i said no. we broke up and i realized it had been two weeks later exactly. im getting better about it tho... i think ahaha
I am really thinking about just having a six month relationship to see how I feel when I walk away.
That's actually a pretty good timeline PB. I don't know if this term is used or not in other places, but I have a key rule of thumb- that's proven true. It's called the Six Bliss. The first six months are always awesome.. you start learning about each other, you do a bunch of fun stuff, and thennn.. 6 months seems to hit and it starts to go down hilll, and you start noticing things..
Anyway- 6 months is perfect! ;D lol you can get out before it gets too crazy.
Absolutely correct. The trick it seems is to find the right amount of crazy to balance out and work well with my amount of crazy. We all gots a bit of crazy hanging out somewhere.
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Amen!! When Quacker was getting ready to move in... and mind you we'd known each other through work for 20+ years.. I said .. " Dont ever think about it unless you get your passport, and btw.. I've lived alone post 15 yr marriage for ten years now. I burp, I fart, I do this in the living room, will still stay excuse me, but dont really mean it. It's a fact of life. "
He walked into the living room, burped, farted, turned on sport center and said i think i am finally home. on demand even( the Bing and Fing.)! and got his passport. Hold out for THAT person.
^ THIS. I'm smiling because that's exactly how y'all still are. It's adorable. You+Quacker and Abra+Dave are two of my relationship role models. I love all of you crazy fools!!! ;D
I am really thinking about just having a six month relationship to see how I feel when I walk away.
That's actually a pretty good timeline PB. I don't know if this term is used or not in other places, but I have a key rule of thumb- that's proven true. It's called the Six Bliss. The first six months are always awesome.. you start learning about each other, you do a bunch of fun stuff, and thennn.. 6 months seems to hit and it starts to go down hilll, and you start noticing things..
Anyway- 6 months is perfect! ;D lol you can get out before it gets too crazy.
~All the accumulated knowledge, experience, and suffering of mankind is inside you. You must build a huge bonfire within you. Then you will become an individual. There is no other way.
~~~U.G. Krishnamurti
"I don't know whose water this is, but I'm drinkin it so F you."~~~Dale
"He is a wook in sheep's clothing."~~~Popsicle Sarah
"You know the feeling when you're in too deep, and when you make it out, the taste - so sweet." ~~DMB
Post by pondo ROCKS on Apr 30, 2012 12:56:28 GMT -5
So my GF continues to ride me about going to Bonnaroo and "trusting" me. I tell her that I wear Viking Horns and a Clock and nothing will happen. I asked her if she wants to go. She says no because its too hot. I cannot win.
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So my GF continues to ride me about going to Bonnaroo and "trusting" me. I tell her that I wear Viking Horns and a Clock and nothing will happen. I asked her if she wants to go. She says no because its too hot. I cannot win.
I posted way back about this on page 4. We got married the summer after my first roo. This will be my 6th, and while she still does not love it and will probably never go, she has learned to live with it.
I can't even get past the third date before I lose interest. What is wrong with me?!
Hmmm...maybe you're part cat? Don't cats lose interest in a toy after a while, preferring instead to nap in the sunshine? Maybe you should change your screen name to SunCAT78? (FWIW, this one was cute, but the one from New Year's seemed like more of a whole package.)
The right one for you is out there; when you find him, you'll know. Besides, the best ones are worth waiting for. Love you, sweetie!
FWIW, this one was cute, but the one from New Year's seemed like more of a whole package.)
I know he totally was, but for some reason that didn't feel right either, and I think I really tried. I'm just starting to wonder if I'm incapable of being happy with anyone....maybe I'm looking for something that doesn't exist.
~All the accumulated knowledge, experience, and suffering of mankind is inside you. You must build a huge bonfire within you. Then you will become an individual. There is no other way.
~~~U.G. Krishnamurti
"I don't know whose water this is, but I'm drinkin it so F you."~~~Dale
"He is a wook in sheep's clothing."~~~Popsicle Sarah
"You know the feeling when you're in too deep, and when you make it out, the taste - so sweet." ~~DMB
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Dearly Beloved, We are Gathered Here Today to Get Through This Thing Called Life
FWIW, this one was cute, but the one from New Year's seemed like more of a whole package.)
I know he totally was, but for some reason that didn't feel right either, and I think I really tried. I'm just starting to wonder if I'm incapable of being happy with anyone....maybe I'm looking for something that doesn't exist.
Ok, so this is coming from me, the worst person to give relationship advice ever, so you can take it or leave it.
But, since I know you personally, I will say, you're an awesome lady and beautiful, and there are lots of duds out there (no, not dudes, DUDS). I've met many of them! Even dated a few.
If it doesn't feel right, then it doesn't feel right. Don't feel bad about it! And I won't say the whole "Oh, it'll happen when it's meant to happen" because I get so tired of people saying that to me, too. You ARE capable of being happy, but you're probably worn out from dating the duds. Just take a break, breath a little, and come hang out with me!
Seriously though if you ever need to talk to a fellow single lady who will probably never find Mr. Right (because I'm too picky and weird), let me know. ;D
Just don't let things not clicking with someone make you think it's somehow your fault. I've forced a relationship to work before, and it worked for about 18 months, but eventually it unravels.
Think of it like this: if Bonnaroo was every 2 years, instead of every year, you'd still wait that extra year because you knew it'd be worth it. This is the same thing. The wait might be a bit longer, but in the end you know it'll be worth it so you'll sift through the rubble that is the American dating scene until you find something worthwhile. But just know, it'll happen eventually. Someone looking for the same things, with similar goals, compatible personality and so on will find you, or you'll find them, or your friend will find you both. But it'll happen, one way or another, so don't lose faith.
And this is coming from someone who has been F***ed over in my last 3 relationships. Badly. So if I can stay positive about this stuff, anyone can.
EVERY time I break wind in front of my fiance she laughs and smiles, thats how I know she's a keeper. She out-burps me on a regular basis, though, kinda jealous.
FWIW, this one was cute, but the one from New Year's seemed like more of a whole package.)
I know he totally was, but for some reason that didn't feel right either, and I think I really tried. I'm just starting to wonder if I'm incapable of being happy with anyone....maybe I'm looking for something that doesn't exist.
You are good looking, and a great person, don't settle for something that is not what you want.
~All the accumulated knowledge, experience, and suffering of mankind is inside you. You must build a huge bonfire within you. Then you will become an individual. There is no other way.
~~~U.G. Krishnamurti
"I don't know whose water this is, but I'm drinkin it so F you."~~~Dale
"He is a wook in sheep's clothing."~~~Popsicle Sarah
"You know the feeling when you're in too deep, and when you make it out, the taste - so sweet." ~~DMB
I'm gonna do it, but how? I don't wanna see her again, but I got like 8 beers at her apt. And a spare Shpongle ticket. Ugh.
Go in person; get the ticket first, then have the talk. You can either leave the beer as a consolation prize, or drink 'em during the talk. Just don't leave without the ticket!!!
The approach is up to you. You can honestly claim your heart is solely focused on #Occupy at the moment (since that's the truth) and that it's not fair to her that you can't give her the attention she deserves (also true). Those aren't lies, and they'll maybe cushion the blow a little better than admitting you're just not into her. Those kinds of statements always sting and take a lonnnnnnnng time to forget.
(FWIW, this one was cute, but the one from New Year's seemed like more of a whole package.) 
