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Aren't jealousy and possessiveness major roadblocks for the poly lifestyle? Poly intrigues me, but I just don't see myself getting past the jealousy. The openness and honesty are very appealing though.
Since when do you have to be in a poly-relationship to be open and honest with another person?
Noted. That was poorly worded on my part. You don't.
Luna, I think you guys got it People say "oh what about jealousy?" "oh what about posessiveness?"
Well what about just not feeling those things and being SECURE with yourself, and your partner? I'm totally down for this. A meet-up, chat, whatever. ;D I believe every couple should experience something like this. relationships are so boring anymore..
Plus- what does that say about you, when your significant other goes out to be with someone else, and COMES BACK TO YOU? Obviously, you're doing something right! Obviously he/she loves you! Obviously it IS possible for people to be honestly in love with someone even if they are going out with others. It all comes back to, where do you sleep at night. By your husband, because you guys love each other.
I just want to be respected in the morning by a couple of people and one to critique my performance and another to demand more enthusiasm (or spike my drink spanish fly)
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Do any of y'all who are in Poly relationships have families/children? How does that work?
A lot of people do. We do not. The guy I'm dating on a regular basis and his wife have a kid. She's 3, so they haven't had to do a lot of explaining to her just yet. They don't hide anything from her and they make sure she understands that it's okay. She's a cute kid.
For me, I may not be able to have kids, so getting to hang with his kid is nice for me. The dating and the fun biological responses that come from the newness of a relationship are a great distraction from the fact that I haven't been able to get pregnant. I no longer have my monthly cry over it. I can envision my life as fulfilling and fun without children and with unrestricted romantic relationships.
Okay, so when is a good time for the poly meetup? I'm open to suggestions...
hmmm.... this is hard.... What about Saturday morning? It's not super early in the weekend or anything, but honestly, I'm probably not looking to spend a lot of time with someone I meet on the Farm. Just some nice discussion and new friendly faces would be good enough for me. If sparks fly, well, you've got two days to convince someone to take off their pants. :-P
I like 11 on Saturday... somewhere in Centeroo, so we are already there if there's something you want to see at noon. Now, a shady location would be good... how about that State Farm tent near the Cinema Tent last year? We'll need some way to recognize each other... anyone have an infinite heart banner? <83
Okay... sweet deal! 11 am on Saturday in Centeroo under the State Farm tent (remaining aware that it may have a different sponsor this year... the one near the Cinema Tent)
Should we make a list of people we expect to attend? (Only those who wish to be mentioned, of course, I've had a few PMs about it) We still need a reliable way to recognize the group. I can just see the blank stares as I walk around the shade tent asking random people, "Are you poly? Are you here for the poly meet-up?"
im interested not poly but into the swinging lifestyle with my boyfriend(we are very mature and serious about it). I imagine being at a 4day festival it would just be "playing" I am very curious as to the logistics. how and where.....especially the where!!!!!