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I had a very bad breakup with my ex 3 years ago. At the end of it, I realized that my drinking contributed to it and that I'd have to completely stop before I started dating again. I didn't want to make another girl into a babysitter, which was what I essentially needed when I drank. Thus, I haven't dated anyone.
Well, it's day 100 and I just got done with my first fest, Hulaween, completely sober.
Little under a month ago, I PM'D this chick on fb that custom makes festival clothing and inquired if she was bring any w/ her to sell. It evolved from us planning to catch a sci show to her and a few of her friends meeting up and setting up camp with my buddy & I. It feels like I've reconnected with an old friend and we just picked up where we left off.
It went so well that her and her best friend stayed at my place close to SOSMP and we hit up the beach & other areas before they headed back home to TENN. All 3 of us came down with the hulabug, but it easily was one of the best weeks of my life. No drama, stress and only good positive vibes.
I live alone in a pretty nice 2/2. The 3 of us have talked extensively and both of them want to move down. The girl I originally pm'd on fb wants to date, which I'm definitely down for. Both of the girls are sweethearts and I want the best for them. Just man, I'm nervous lol. I think the most daunting thing is that she's 21 & an absolute knockout. I'm not big on looks, but I'm 34 and at best a 6 lol. I know I'm not in her league physically. Luckily, she finds someone being there for her and not to sound sexiest, but doing man stuff like checking her car fluids and not treating her like shit attractive.
Mentally I feel connected with her. She actually waits and listens rather then waiting to respond. It's so nice having a meaningful conversation over dinner again! Also, neither of them are addicted to their phones =)
Anywho, I just had to tell someone that I feel like the luckiest person on the planet =)
This sounds great, man! Good for you for setting a goal (not dating until getting sober) and reaching it!
When others catch feels and post about it here I kinda live through you vicariously. FYI.
I really need to figure out how to be happy by myself before I can be happy with any of these countless women I keep dating and hanging out with. I'm seeing multiple women at a time and getting a whole lot of temporary happiness, only to feel empty at the end of the day.
When I'm going on no dates and seeing no one, I feel anxious, bored, depressed, lonely, and disconnected. When I'm going on dates, I generally have a lot of fun when I'm with them, but then later feel empty, ashamed, embarrassed, aimless, and a little like an asshole. Every time things even remotely start getting close to serious, I get turned off by the whole thing and end it.
And it doesn't help when I have multiple nightmares last night involving my ex wife. There isn't much worse in this world than reliving the feelings of going through a divorce over and over again while you're trying to sleep.
It's a goddamn roller coaster that is getting old, and I'm basically just afraid that I may never be able to get close to someone again. Vent over.
Have you seen a professional before, during, or after your divorce? It sounds like you're in a painful loop. Sometimes it takes a professional ear to help redirect you.
Post by umphlovecincy on Nov 11, 2015 2:14:52 GMT -5
Time to vent to strangers on the internet...
I've known this girl, we will call her M, for at least five years now. We've been good friends ever since we met. I've always really liked M but as long as I have known her she has had a boyfriend. So I put my crush on the back burner. So last weekend her and I went to Hulaween with another friend of mine and M & I were inseparable, as usual at any fests we go to. We have always clicked. She has told me many times that her favorites times ever have been spent with me. I could feel my feelings for her bubbling up all weekend. But she still has a boyfriend right? Welp, low and behold she tells me they broke up a couple months ago (she lives in Louisville, I live in cincy, so we don't talk on a regular basis unfortunately). So we get back from Hulaween and I'm really feelin good. I mean I have got the biggest crush on this girl and now is my chance to say something, finally! Chance has it that I had to go to Louisville today, tuesday, for work. So I hit her up and say we should hang out and get some beers. So we meet up at a mutual friends and have some drinks and get some dinner and things are going well and we are all having a good time. Then she turns to me, showing me a picture and says "this is my new man friend"...
I guess its time to put my crush back in the closet.
I'm so fucking disappointed. Waiting this long and still not being able to say something fucking sucks. I've never told my other friends about my feelings for her because she is an amazing friend and I don't want my feelings to mess that up.
Needless to say, it was a long drive home from Louisville tonight...
I've known this girl, we will call her M, for at least five years now. We've been good friends ever since we met. I've always really liked M but as long as I have known her she has had a boyfriend. So I put my crush on the back burner. So last weekend her and I went to Hulaween with another friend of mine and M & I were inseparable, as usual at any fests we go to. We have always clicked. She has told me many times that her favorites times ever have been spent with me. I could feel my feelings for her bubbling up all weekend. But she still has a boyfriend right? Welp, low and behold she tells me they broke up a couple months ago (she lives in Louisville, I live in cincy, so we don't talk on a regular basis unfortunately). So we get back from Hulaween and I'm really feelin good. I mean I have got the biggest crush on this girl and now is my chance to say something, finally! Chance has it that I had to go to Louisville today, tuesday, for work. So I hit her up and say we should hang out and get some beers. So we meet up at a mutual friends and have some drinks and get some dinner and things are going well and we are all having a good time. Then she turns to me, showing me a picture and says "this is my new man friend"...
I guess its time to put my crush back in the closet.
I'm so fucking disappointed. Waiting this long and still not being able to say something fucking sucks. I've never told my other friends about my feelings for her because she is an amazing friend and I don't want my feelings to mess that up.
Needless to say, it was a long drive home from Louisville tonight...
Ryan Adams kept me company.
Don't let another 5 years slip past you, take the chance! Y'all just came off having an amazing time at hulaween together. She was waiting on the Mack Daddy moves at hula from you and that's why she didn't mention this new guy at the fest. She said her favorite times have been spent with you. Writing is all over the wall!
I really need to figure out how to be happy by myself before I can be happy with any of these countless women I keep dating and hanging out with. I'm seeing multiple women at a time and getting a whole lot of temporary happiness, only to feel empty at the end of the day.
When I'm going on no dates and seeing no one, I feel anxious, bored, depressed, lonely, and disconnected. When I'm going on dates, I generally have a lot of fun when I'm with them, but then later feel empty, ashamed, embarrassed, aimless, and a little like an asshole. Every time things even remotely start getting close to serious, I get turned off by the whole thing and end it.
And it doesn't help when I have multiple nightmares last night involving my ex wife. There isn't much worse in this world than reliving the feelings of going through a divorce over and over again while you're trying to sleep.
It's a goddamn roller coaster that is getting old, and I'm basically just afraid that I may never be able to get close to someone again. Vent over.
Have you seen a professional before, during, or after your divorce? It sounds like you're in a painful loop. Sometimes it takes a professional ear to help redirect you.
The irony is my ex-wife is a professional psychologist. But yes, I saw a counselor during our initial separation and he was helpful. Unfortunately, I quickly could not afford him on just my salary, so I have not been able to go back. I currently do not have insurance benefits because I was dropped from her health insurance when the divorce became final. Therapy does help, for sure, but it's also expensive and not always covered by insurance.
I think I've narrowed down my issues. I need to spend more time alone or with friends to really figure myself out. I need to allow someone to come into my life naturally instead of devoting so much energy into finding dates (Tinder, Bumble, Match, bars, set up by friends/coworkers). I need to stop dating more than one person at a time.
And strangely enough, I think I need to become celibate for a while. It seems like everything goes to shit as soon as I have sex with someone. They almost always become more attached and emotionally invested, whereas I typically lose all interest in the person afterwards.
Last night, I went out with the woman I met at the bar a few weeks back (let's call her MS). This is the woman that I commented on catching some feels for. I click really well with her when it is just the two of us. We have been extremely affectionate, but entirely with clothes on. I'm talking about high school couch make-up sessions. Honestly, it was really awesome and I always left the situation wanting to see her again. However, we had sex last night. Now, I can tell that she is very much into me and the situation. She is now emotionally invested. I would like to see her again, but I'm not sure the best way to inform her that I don't think we should have any more sex right now.
If anyone remembers my posts from weeks ago about SR and SG, there are updates to that, also. Reminder: SR was who I was hardcore crushing on but she has a boyfriend. SG is SR's friend that I was interested in having a friend's with benefits situation with. We both separately talked to SR, and although she wasn't that excited about it she said she wanted us to be happy and gave her approval. Long story short, I slept with SG this past weekend and stayed with her Friday night. She now wants to take me out on a date for her birthday Friday. Since this weekend, I've had zero interest in her whatsoever.
These mistakes I keep making are made out of loneliness, but I always feel like total shit afterwards. The combination of knowing I'm going to disappoint them and being ashamed in myself make me no longer want to spend time with them. Plus there is truth to the idea that once the "chase" is over, people can definitely lose interest.
So, I think I should be celibate. I feel like if I wouldn't have slept with SG, then we could've remained just friends (she is a great person to chill with). If I wouldn't have slept with MS, I would probably still have feels for her. Those feels would develop and maybe, just maybe, if we had sex in a few months that I wouldn't immediately lose interest.
If you would've told me nine months ago when I was depressed and lonely that my biggest problem was too many dates, too much sex, and having too many plans every night, I would've thought you were crazy.
Have you seen a professional before, during, or after your divorce? It sounds like you're in a painful loop. Sometimes it takes a professional ear to help redirect you.
The irony is my ex-wife is a professional psychologist. But yes, I saw a counselor during our initial separation and he was helpful. Unfortunately, I quickly could not afford him on just my salary, so I have not been able to go back. I currently do not have insurance benefits because I was dropped from her health insurance when the divorce became final. Therapy does help, for sure, but it's also expensive and not always covered by insurance.
I think I've narrowed down my issues. I need to spend more time alone or with friends to really figure myself out. I need to allow someone to come into my life naturally instead of devoting so much energy into finding dates (Tinder, Bumble, Match, bars, set up by friends/coworkers). I need to stop dating more than one person at a time.
And strangely enough, I think I need to become celibate for a while. It seems like everything goes to shit as soon as I have sex with someone. They almost always become more attached and emotionally invested, whereas I typically lose all interest in the person afterwards.
Last night, I went out with the woman I met at the bar a few weeks back (let's call her MS). This is the woman that I commented on catching some feels for. I click really well with her when it is just the two of us. We have been extremely affectionate, but entirely with clothes on. I'm talking about high school couch make-up sessions. Honestly, it was really awesome and I always left the situation wanting to see her again. However, we had sex last night. Now, I can tell that she is very much into me and the situation. She is now emotionally invested. I would like to see her again, but I'm not sure the best way to inform her that I don't think we should have any more sex right now.
If anyone remembers my posts from weeks ago about SR and SG, there are updates to that, also. Reminder: SR was who I was hardcore crushing on but she has a boyfriend. SG is SR's friend that I was interested in having a friend's with benefits situation with. We both separately talked to SR, and although she wasn't that excited about it she said she wanted us to be happy and gave her approval. Long story short, I slept with SG this past weekend and stayed with her Friday night. She now wants to take me out on a date for her birthday Friday. Since this weekend, I've had zero interest in her whatsoever.
These mistakes I keep making are made out of loneliness, but I always feel like total shit afterwards. The combination of knowing I'm going to disappoint them and being ashamed in myself make me no longer want to spend time with them. Plus there is truth to the idea that once the "chase" is over, people can definitely lose interest.
So, I think I should be celibate. I feel like if I wouldn't have slept with SG, then we could've remained just friends (she is a great person to chill with). If I wouldn't have slept with MS, I would probably still have feels for her. Those feels would develop and maybe, just maybe, if we had sex in a few months that I wouldn't immediately lose interest.
If you would've told me nine months ago when I was depressed and lonely that my biggest problem was too many dates, too much sex, and having too many plans every night, I would've thought you were crazy.
Are you putting yourself out in a way that these women expect a relationship after sleeping with you? I haven't kept up with your dating history as well as other,s but it seems like it might be a good thing to at least say upfront "I only want X" or even admitting that you seem to lose interest after becoming intimate with people. Seems to me like you have an emotional block where you want to be close but not that close...intimate (physically)but not too intimate(emotionally). Sorry if this has been mentioned before.
I don't think it's so much a sex issue, but more that you're not up front with what you're looking for out of them. If you want to be fwb, they should be fully aware before you proceed into whatever.
To LD's point, I'm not even sure I want to be friend's with benefits with these women, either. For example, I went into the SG situation with friends with benefits intentions and I thought that she did, as well. However, I never stated that specifically and now that she is wanting to go on dates I end up distancing myself. At the same time, I'm not that attracted to her. She has a great body and we had a good time physically, but she isn't my type. I'm not romantically attracted to her, I guess you would say. And she is great to hang out with: we smoke together (honestly, she smokes WAY more than I do), go to concerts, go to bars, hang out with mutual friends, and play video games. If she was completely on board with just hooking up and literally nothing else, I may still hook up with her. But in the end, I'm just not that into her that way.
With MS, I like hanging out with her a lot, but I don't think we are compatible enough for things to get overly serious. As of this weekend, we had both said that we have commitment issues (for me this is a new development as I was committed to my marriage). Neither of us treated things as anything more than having fun, hanging out, and making out. But yesterday we probably got too caught up in feels, had sex, and things are now suddenly too real. Of course, it may be early and I may be overthinking things.
I think you're both right. I should be more up front about my intentions, if for no other reason than to not seem like the bad guy when they possibly want more later.
To LD's point, I'm not even sure I want to be friend's with benefits with these women, either. For example, I went into the SG situation with friends with benefits intentions and I thought that she did, as well. However, I never stated that specifically and now that she is wanting to go on dates I end up distancing myself. At the same time, I'm not that attracted to her. She has a great body and we had a good time physically, but she isn't my type. I'm not romantically attracted to her, I guess you would say. And she is great to hang out with: we smoke together (honestly, she smokes WAY more than I do), go to concerts, go to bars, hang out with mutual friends, and play video games. If she was completely on board with just hooking up and literally nothing else, I may still hook up with her. But in the end, I'm just not that into her that way.
With MS, I like hanging out with her a lot, but I don't think we are compatible enough for things to get overly serious. As of this weekend, we had both said that we have commitment issues (for me this is a new development as I was committed to my marriage). Neither of us treated things as anything more than having fun, hanging out, and making out. But yesterday we probably got too caught up in feels, had sex, and things are now suddenly too real. Of course, it may be early and I may be overthinking things.
I think you're both right. I should be more up front about my intentions, if for no other reason than to not seem like the bad guy when they possibly want more later.
Maybe I'm just old but friends with benefits means friends you fuck. With my friends, I go out on dates. We go to movies, dinner, shows. Are you sure she wants to exclusively date you or she's just planning on you following through with the friends part of the fwb?
To LD's point, I'm not even sure I want to be friend's with benefits with these women, either. For example, I went into the SG situation with friends with benefits intentions and I thought that she did, as well. However, I never stated that specifically and now that she is wanting to go on dates I end up distancing myself. At the same time, I'm not that attracted to her. She has a great body and we had a good time physically, but she isn't my type. I'm not romantically attracted to her, I guess you would say. And she is great to hang out with: we smoke together (honestly, she smokes WAY more than I do), go to concerts, go to bars, hang out with mutual friends, and play video games. If she was completely on board with just hooking up and literally nothing else, I may still hook up with her. But in the end, I'm just not that into her that way.
With MS, I like hanging out with her a lot, but I don't think we are compatible enough for things to get overly serious. As of this weekend, we had both said that we have commitment issues (for me this is a new development as I was committed to my marriage). Neither of us treated things as anything more than having fun, hanging out, and making out. But yesterday we probably got too caught up in feels, had sex, and things are now suddenly too real. Of course, it may be early and I may be overthinking things.
I think you're both right. I should be more up front about my intentions, if for no other reason than to not seem like the bad guy when they possibly want more later.
Maybe I'm just old but friends with benefits means friends you fuck. With my friends, I go out on dates. We go to movies, dinner, shows. Are you sure she wants to exclusively date you or she's just planning on you following through with the friends part of the fwb?
Agreed. There is a difference between FWB and random hook ups; I really enjoy the set up of the former, much less so with the latter. I have friends who I am attracted to and have hooked up with - it is a great dynamic because we know each other well, trust is well established, and comfort level is high too. Random hook ups, with people I hardly know, don't do much for me.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Maybe I'm just old but friends with benefits means friends you fuck. With my friends, I go out on dates. We go to movies, dinner, shows. Are you sure she wants to exclusively date you or she's just planning on you following through with the friends part of the fwb?
Agreed. There is a difference between FWB and random hook ups; I really enjoy the set up of the former, much less so with the latter. I have friends who I am attracted to and have hooked up with - it is a great dynamic because we know each other well, trust is well established, and comfort level is high too. Random hook ups, with people I hardly know, don't do much for me.
Maybe I was the one confused on a friends with benefits situation and how it compares to casual dating. I guess when I think friends with benefits it is a friend that you hang out with whether one on one or with a group that you may or may not end up hooking up with at the end of the night. I didn't think you actually went on dates with a FWB. Conversely, I would rarely just go hang out with someone I'm casually dating.
In my mind, I suppose what I was looking for with SG was my definition of a FWB. We would still hang out together or with friends and sometimes we may decide to hook up, but nothing considered a date to where there is any romance involved. Her telling me that she wanted to go out on a date with me for her birthday was a big red flag, so instead of dinner or a movie, etc. I asked her to go to one of those giant warehouse places with all the trampolines and obstacle courses. Fun friend birthday thing.
For MS, I like the idea of casual dating, where we would go out roughly once a week. This may still be what happens here because things so far haven't turned more serious after her spending the night. I might have over-reacted.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Okay so things seem to be getting slightly more legitimate with the girl I met on that bar crawl a month ago. I'm not at the point of seeking monogamy, but I'm at least considering it.
I decided to find a newer pic on her Facebook to send my buddies to show her off. She looks just like Olivia Munn. So I find her on Facebook and her picture freaks me out. It's a picture of me kissing her cheek! Or so I thought.. The background is some room I've never been in. I don't own a belt that color? Holy shit! That's not a picture of me!
So, in the matter of seconds, I go from trying to decide hoe I feel about her putting me in her profile pic, to relief that it's not me, to thinking "then who is this dude?" The date of the pic was ten days ago. She claims he is just a friend and she just really likes how she looks in it, but I'm creeped out by the whole thing. I mean, I've slowed my dating around, but I'm still dating other people, so I'm not that upset about that part. I'm more concerned that he is in the profile pic and is my fucking twin. Plus, I wish she would just be honest about whoever it is.
Bottom line is I'm weirded out by the whole thing and don't know how to react to it. There is a chance its just a friend but I'm also not a complete idiot.
Okay so things seem to be getting slightly more legitimate with the girl I met on that bar crawl a month ago. I'm not at the point of seeking monogamy, but I'm at least considering it.
I decided to find a newer pic on her Facebook to send my buddies to show her off. She looks just like Olivia Munn. So I find her on Facebook and her picture freaks me out. It's a picture of me kissing her cheek! Or so I thought.. The background is some room I've never been in. I don't own a belt that color? Holy shit! That's not a picture of me!
So, in the matter of seconds, I go from trying to decide hoe I feel about her putting me in her profile pic, to relief that it's not me, to thinking "then who is this dude?" The date of the pic was ten days ago. She claims he is just a friend and she just really likes how she looks in it, but I'm creeped out by the whole thing. I mean, I've slowed my dating around, but I'm still dating other people, so I'm not that upset about that part. I'm more concerned that he is in the profile pic and is my fucking twin. Plus, I wish she would just be honest about whoever it is.
Bottom line is I'm weirded out by the whole thing and don't know how to react to it. There is a chance its just a friend but I'm also not a complete idiot.
As you state multiple times, you guys aren't monogamous as of now. You're still dating around, she likely is too - and if you two aren't heading towards an open/poly type situation, then being fully communicative and upfront about the other people you're seeing might feel kinda awkward/unnecessary in her opinion.
Also...it really could be just a friend.
My advice? Let it go. Pressing her on it will likely annoy her/make her feel smothered/incite some other negative reaction, and until you guys have a talk about not seeing other people - if you do ever have that talk - you gotta know that she might be dating other people. And might not want to talk to you about that; if that part bothers you, the non-openness, then tell her specifically that. "Hey I know we might both be seeing other people right now, and that's fine, but I would prefer us to be open and talk about it rather than don't ask don't tell." But don't pry further about this picture/this dude.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Okay so things seem to be getting slightly more legitimate with the girl I met on that bar crawl a month ago. I'm not at the point of seeking monogamy, but I'm at least considering it.
I decided to find a newer pic on her Facebook to send my buddies to show her off. She looks just like Olivia Munn. So I find her on Facebook and her picture freaks me out. It's a picture of me kissing her cheek! Or so I thought.. The background is some room I've never been in. I don't own a belt that color? Holy shit! That's not a picture of me!
So, in the matter of seconds, I go from trying to decide hoe I feel about her putting me in her profile pic, to relief that it's not me, to thinking "then who is this dude?" The date of the pic was ten days ago. She claims he is just a friend and she just really likes how she looks in it, but I'm creeped out by the whole thing. I mean, I've slowed my dating around, but I'm still dating other people, so I'm not that upset about that part. I'm more concerned that he is in the profile pic and is my fucking twin. Plus, I wish she would just be honest about whoever it is.
Bottom line is I'm weirded out by the whole thing and don't know how to react to it. There is a chance its just a friend but I'm also not a complete idiot.
As you state multiple times, you guys aren't monogamous as of now. You're still dating around, she likely is too - and if you two aren't heading towards an open/poly type situation, then being fully communicative and upfront about the other people you're seeing might feel kinda awkward/unnecessary in her opinion.
Also...it really could be just a friend.
My advice? Let it go. Pressing her on it will likely annoy her/make her feel smothered/incite some other negative reaction, and until you guys have a talk about not seeing other people - if you do ever have that talk - you gotta know that she might be dating other people. And might not want to talk to you about that; if that part bothers you, the non-openness, then tell her specifically that. "Hey I know we might both be seeing other people right now, and that's fine, but I would prefer us to be open and talk about it rather than don't ask don't tell." But don't pry further about this picture/this dude.
As you state multiple times, you guys aren't monogamous as of now. You're still dating around, she likely is too - and if you two aren't heading towards an open/poly type situation, then being fully communicative and upfront about the other people you're seeing might feel kinda awkward/unnecessary in her opinion.
Also...it really could be just a friend.
My advice? Let it go. Pressing her on it will likely annoy her/make her feel smothered/incite some other negative reaction, and until you guys have a talk about not seeing other people - if you do ever have that talk - you gotta know that she might be dating other people. And might not want to talk to you about that; if that part bothers you, the non-openness, then tell her specifically that. "Hey I know we might both be seeing other people right now, and that's fine, but I would prefer us to be open and talk about it rather than don't ask don't tell." But don't pry further about this picture/this dude.
That's really great advice. Thank you.
Still weirded out by the doppelgängery
Oh yeah, I certainly understand you feeling a little weird about it - even jealous. And that's okay; you shouldn't feel bad about having whatever personal reaction to it that you do, but you just have to be careful how you present it to her. Never apologize for your feelings but also maintain awareness of how expressing them in certain ways might come off to the other person.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Last night I was going to propose to the gf. Took her out to a nice dinner*, had some great little note written up when she got home. When she finished reading it, I was supposed to do it then. But of course things went wrong and I held off.
For the third time in less than a week, I need to think of a new plan. Anyone got any good ideas?
* - I also left my work badge at the restaurant... d'oh.
Last night I was going to propose to the gf. Took her out to a nice dinner*, had some great little note written up when she got home. When she finished reading it, I was supposed to do it then. But of course things went wrong and I held off.
For the third time in less than a week, I need to think of a new plan. Anyone got any good ideas?
* - I also left my work badge at the restaurant... d'oh.
How did things go wrong?
For me, I just kept the ring handy and waited for the moment that felt right. My brother ended up doing something similar. He had a couple of good ideas for the perfect time to do it, but something always came up that thwarted the idea, i.e. logistic issues, him getting too nervous, etc. Finally, he just surprised her in their apartment one night when it was just the two of them.
Last night I was going to propose to the gf. Took her out to a nice dinner*, had some great little note written up when she got home. When she finished reading it, I was supposed to do it then. But of course things went wrong and I held off.
For the third time in less than a week, I need to think of a new plan. Anyone got any good ideas?
* - I also left my work badge at the restaurant... d'oh.
How did things go wrong?
When I shown her the note, I told her I was writing something to post on Inforoo and wanted her to look over it first.
She actually took it as if I wanted her to proofread it. So when she finished reading, she was like 'it was good, but can you change this one line here?' and I got thrown off by the response.
When I shown her the note, I told her I was writing something to post on Inforoo and wanted her to look over it first.
She actually took it as if I wanted her to proofread it. So when she finished reading, she was like 'it was good, but can you change this one line here?' and I got thrown off by the response.
Haha nice. I still vote to just do it when the moment feels right.
And many more. 
