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Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
I was referring to choosing to be single vs. wanting to date someone and just not having found the right person for a potential relationship yet.
I get what you're saying, but the cobwebs and dust are about sex, which may or may not involve the choice to be single or luck in finding the S.O.
True.
I was extrapolating personal preferences into the conversation as a whole, which may not be applicable to the preferences of everyone else in the discussion.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
So I'm putting the cart way before the horse here, but I'm excited about a Bumble date I have next week. When I matched with her, I was excited because physically she was my type and she had a lot of pictures at shows. She also works for a local music venue. The part that really got me excited was that her first statement to me (girls have to message first) was "So what are the last three songs/artists you've listened to?" My response: Frank Ocean, Ray LaMontagne, and Angel Olsen. I asked her and her response was Bon Iver, Angel Olsen, and Childish Gambino. Her favorite recent shows were Jim James and Willie Nelson. I kinda feel like this is fate? Cart................................................................................Horse
Also, as far as I can tell she doesn't have a husband or boyfriend. So that's a step in the right direction.
So, in typical me fashion, my latest cold streak ended and my newest hot streak has begun. As has been the trend this past almost two years, I'll go a few months alone without any luck in the dating department and then I'll go a few months with too many dating options.
You can read above to see when the hot streak started. She is 31 and we are going out probably on Wednesday. She seems really sweet, has great musical tastes, and is only 5'1. I couldn't be more excited that she is that short.
On Saturday, we had our Mardi Gras krewe's annual ball. If you're Facebook friends with me, I'm sure you saw me spamming your newsfeed about it. It was above and beyond the best one we've had yet. All our performances went smoothly. My parts in the performances went as perfect as I could have imagained. The crowd was super into everything and the party went deep into the night.
I also met a really cute girl and we ended up making out. She's coming down to hang out with me again this Saturday. Catch is, she is only 20. I don't have an issue with this (I'm 31), but it does limit where we can actually go now. I can't just up and take her to certain bars.
Realistically, I don't think the 20 year old and I have a real future together. Nothing against her as a person - she is hot, cool, smart, funny - but I mean the age difference is significant. If she was 21, maybe not as much. I do have hopes for the 31 year old. Obviously if things work out with either one, I'll end it with the other. This isn't a bad problem to have.
Oh, and I also had a threesome after the party was over Saturday.
We just got done hanging out for the third night in a row.
We've been dating for 6 weeks now.
We celebrated 4 months together last weekend by me giving her my patented tour of Pittsburgh, and seeing the Pittsburgh Symphony playing the music of Prince. It's been a good four months but the best is yet to come, I think.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Maizy and JR I think you guys owe us a few more details of your love story!
I was 18 years old. I moved out when I was 16. Spent my last year of high school working and paying rent, etc. Partying was not my scene. I just went through a break up and wanted nothing to do with relationships, and a friend of mine who went to frat parties all the time begged me to go with her for the 100th time. I said fine. I met JR there. He was also there with a friend (however I was sober and he drank a pitcher and then some of long island iced tea). He also just went through a nasty break up and wasn't looking for a relationship. We talked and kissed all night. He was the first person in my life I saw drink who just got funny instead of violent or crying. We got together everyday after that. Things weren't looking promising in MI (no jobs, the college up there wouldn't accept half of JR's credits from the Navy, etc), so we came to SC where his parents were at the time. We are from a VERY small area in MI, so I knew he came from a good family (don't all serial killers)? I asked him what would happen if it didn't work out and he said he would bring me home. Biggest risk I ever took in life by far, but also by far the best thing I have ever done.
of course as i'm preparing to move back i meet a girl who i'm really into and have a good thing with
life suuuucks y'all
edit: i wish my woes weren't top of the page
JR did this. He just brought me back with him when he moved. We knew each other for 2 weeks. Here we are 12 years later.
I wish! Bit difficult with visa situations to deal with though. Especially given the current political climate. But it is something we've talked about. Not getting my hopes up till she knows if she could get a visa though.
Maizy and JR I think you guys owe us a few more details of your love story!
I was 18 years old. I moved out when I was 16. Spent my last year of high school working and paying rent, etc. Partying was not my scene. I just went through a break up and wanted nothing to do with relationships, and a friend of mine who went to frat parties all the time begged me to go with her for the 100th time. I said fine. I met JR there. He was also there with a friend (however I was sober and he drank a pitcher and then some of long island iced tea). He also just went through a nasty break up and wasn't looking for a relationship. We talked and kissed all night. He was the first person in my life I saw drink who just got funny instead of violent or crying. We got together everyday after that. Things weren't looking promising in MI (no jobs, the college up there wouldn't accept half of JR's credits from the Navy, etc), so we came to SC where his parents were at the time. We are from a VERY small area in MI, so I knew he came from a good family (don't all serial killers)? I asked him what would happen if it didn't work out and he said he would bring me home. Biggest risk I ever took in life by far, but also by far the best thing I have ever done.
We celebrated 4 months together last weekend by me giving her my patented tour of Pittsburgh, and seeing the Pittsburgh Symphony playing the music of Prince. It's been a good four months but the best is yet to come, I think.
Celebrating 9 months together now! I'm going to marry this gal.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Post by actually @fortyfive33 now on Sept 25, 2017 9:41:03 GMT -5
So. There's this girl I've been thinking of asking out for a while. We share a journalism class. Immediately after I walked into class today, she stared at me until she got my attention and we started talking. Granted, I was the first person in our little section of the room to come in after she did but even after other people came in, we continued talking.
This is not the only time she's done this! Even in the middle of the super-formal Pitch DayTMshe'll smile at me or something and I'll smile back. On even-more-formal Deadline DayTM we'll look at each other's projects, give each other tips and find out information about parties and shit.
We'll say hi to each other and will stop each other on campus and and talk when we're walking around.
I just don't know what to do, partially because SPOILER AND TRIGGER WARNING: