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The way y’all wanna sweep this under the rug, I hope you don’t let bullying and aggressive behavior off so easily when you see it happen IRL.
This is so funny to me, bc multiple people have told me they think you are aggressive and abrasive as well. But I dig this savior crusader thing ya got going on. 😂😂
extremely low blow. Katy is speaking from her personal observations and feelings, using "I" statements - and you're bringing in "well, people talk behind your back and say ____!"
@mods, do you not see the difference in approach here? Shut this down if you want but this kind of shit has popped up semi consistently over the years on Inforoo, and I don't think that just locking a thread gets at the larger issue here. I think it would be helpful to discuss (elsewhere, not this thread) being a bit more proactive about how to address this kind of behavior from a bigger picture perspective.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
This is so funny to me, bc multiple people have told me they think you are aggressive and abrasive as well. But I dig this savior crusader thing ya got going on. 😂😂
extremely low blow. Katy is speaking from her personal observations and feelings, using "I" statements - and you're bringing in "well, people talk behind your back and say ____!"
@mods, do you not see the difference in approach here? Shut this down if you want but this kind of shit has popped up semi consistently over the years on Inforoo, and I don't think that just locking a thread gets at the larger issue here. I think it would be helpful to discuss (elsewhere, not this thread) being a bit more proactive about how to address this kind of shit from a bigger picture perspective.
Once again, you refuse to leave me alone. Get off your high horse.
This is so funny to me, bc multiple people have told me they think you are aggressive and abrasive as well. But I dig this savior crusader thing ya got going on. 😂😂
extremely low blow. Katy is speaking from her personal observations and feelings, using "I" statements - and you're bringing in "well, people talk behind your back and say ____!"
@mods, do you not see the difference in approach here? Shut this down if you want but this kind of shit has popped up semi consistently over the years on Inforoo, and I don't think that just locking a thread gets at the larger issue here. I think it would be helpful to discuss (elsewhere, not this thread) being a bit more proactive about how to address this kind of behavior from a bigger picture perspective.
Post by Jake Jortles on Apr 18, 2022 10:34:52 GMT -5
Wait don't shut the thread down. Some of us still want to get back to topics like what counts as sex and what the most effective ways of increasing your number are. Dont let this ruin it for everyone.
Is a girl acting extremely slutty a turn on to you? In every scenario? Like lets say on a scale from dead fish to unrealistic porn star, do you hit a point where you are like "damn this is corny." Or is it "the more the merrier idc how cheesy it is I buy into it"?
Oh I'm all aware that just locking the thread won't stop/change anything. It will spill out over into the other threads.
But how exactly do we be a bit more proactive about addressing this kind of thing on a bigger perspective? Are we to be the judge and jury here?
I have some thoughts on it. Would be happy to take this to sidebar and chat with the mods - and to be clear, I don't expect (or want) y'all to be tone policing basic well-intentioned debates and little spats here and there. I don't think anyone wants Inforoo to become that. Rather than delving into further ideas about the nuances of it, I'm just gonna talk to y'all outside of this space.
As my stone-hearted-but-still-lovable friend Jake Jortles said, no need to shut down this thread - we'll get it back on topic, and take the other convo elsewhere.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
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Is a girl acting extremely slutty a turn on to you? In every scenario? Like lets say on a scale from dead fish to unrealistic porn star, do you hit a point where you are like "damn this is corny." Or is it "the more the merrier idc how cheesy it is I buy into it"?
it depends on the context
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
Is a girl acting extremely slutty a turn on to you? In every scenario? Like lets say on a scale from dead fish to unrealistic porn star, do you hit a point where you are like "damn this is corny." Or is it "the more the merrier idc how cheesy it is I buy into it"?
it depends on the context
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
Were you wearing your high hefner robe?
the robe was actually one of the few good decisions I made that night
Is a girl acting extremely slutty a turn on to you? In every scenario? Like lets say on a scale from dead fish to unrealistic porn star, do you hit a point where you are like "damn this is corny." Or is it "the more the merrier idc how cheesy it is I buy into it"?
it depends on the context
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
im thinking about the actions once naked. Like level of dirty talk and willingness to just get absolutely primal
Is a girl acting extremely slutty a turn on to you? In every scenario? Like lets say on a scale from dead fish to unrealistic porn star, do you hit a point where you are like "damn this is corny." Or is it "the more the merrier idc how cheesy it is I buy into it"?
And somehow that’s enough for me to bow out of this thread! What an intense 24 hours here. See ya on the others!
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
im thinking about the actions once naked. Like level of dirty talk and willingness to just get absolutely primal
oh at that point I don’t care. I think a girl taking extra steps to be confident and enjoy herself in bed is cool.
I once had a girl go full send at a bar once and that was her “opening line”. I was only like two drinks in so that was a turn off. She looked at my friend right after and said “what about you?”
im thinking about the actions once naked. Like level of dirty talk and willingness to just get absolutely primal
across both genders, success of dirty talk/playing up the eroticism depends so much on how it is posed and how naturally it comes off.
also comfort level. dirty talk, especially with possessive connotation ("you're my ____" kind of stuff), isn't something i really dig with a more casual hookup typically. once more comfortable and sexually familiar with each other, i'm often into it.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
im thinking about the actions once naked. Like level of dirty talk and willingness to just get absolutely primal
oh at that point I don’t care. I think a girl taking extra steps to be confident and enjoy herself in bed is cool.
gotcha. I think sometimes if like a girl wants to be slapped in the face or even spit on in the face… if I’m not right there in that zone yet it can kinda make me pause and I’d chalk it up as a negative. Or sometimes I feel like I can tell if A girl is just doing insane shit because she thinks it’s what I would want. Those are pretty unusual situations tho and I’m mostly like “the more filthy the better”
oh at that point I don’t care. I think a girl taking extra steps to be confident and enjoy herself in bed is cool.
gotcha. I think sometimes if like a girl wants to be slapped in the face or even spit on in the face… if I’m not right there in that zone yet it can kinda make me pause and I’d chalk it up as a negative. Or sometimes I feel like I can tell if A girl is just doing insane shit because she thinks it’s what I would want. Those are pretty unusual situations tho and I’m mostly like “the more filthy the better”
oh if it’s something I don’t think she particularly enjoys, I’ll tone it down. But if she wants it, there are times I’ve just been like “whatever, why not”.
If I'm dirty talking someone I dont know well or just hooking up with casually I try my best to not go overboard or use derogatory terms and it usually just ends up being me narrating what's happening like David Attenborough. I can't imagine it's too sexy for them.
I think communication is the best form of foreplay, and maybe it’s cause I mostly hook up with folks who are already versed in kink, but I always have the “what are your hard no’s” talk before sex. It tends to help in those moments of passion where you ask yourself “is this person gonna be cool with this?”
oh at that point I don’t care. I think a girl taking extra steps to be confident and enjoy herself in bed is cool.
gotcha. I think sometimes if like a girl wants to be slapped in the face or even spit on in the face… if I’m not right there in that zone yet it can kinda make me pause and I’d chalk it up as a negative. Or sometimes I feel like I can tell if A girl is just doing insane shit because she thinks it’s what I would want. Those are pretty unusual situations tho and I’m mostly like “the more filthy the better”
both of those are things that with a trusted partner, i can be a "hell yes" on but eeeeek incorporating that into a first-time/random hookup without prior discussion and instead from a heat-of-the-moment dirty talk request can go wrong in 101 ways.
but at this point in my sex life, i do try to at least briefly discuss/negotiate things before im in the moment of fucking someone new.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
I think communication is the best form of foreplay, and maybe it’s cause I mostly hook up with folks who are already versed in kink, but I always have the “what are your hard no’s” talk before sex. It tends to help in those moments of passion where you ask yourself “is this person gonna be cool with this?”
Interesting. I usually try to let the girl set the tone and don't take many risks.
I think communication is the best form of foreplay, and maybe it’s cause I mostly hook up with folks who are already versed in kink, but I always have the “what are your hard no’s” talk before sex. It tends to help in those moments of passion where you ask yourself “is this person gonna be cool with this?”
lol basically jinx to this ^^ posted something very similar just now before seeing yours
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
gotcha. I think sometimes if like a girl wants to be slapped in the face or even spit on in the face… if I’m not right there in that zone yet it can kinda make me pause and I’d chalk it up as a negative. Or sometimes I feel like I can tell if A girl is just doing insane shit because she thinks it’s what I would want. Those are pretty unusual situations tho and I’m mostly like “the more filthy the better”
both of those are things that with a trusted partner, i can be a "hell yes" on but eeeeek incorporating that into a first-time/random hookup without prior discussion and instead from a heat-of-the-moment dirty talk request can go wrong in 101 ways.
but at this point in my sex life, i do try to at least briefly discuss/negotiate things before im in the moment of fucking someone new.
yeah if a girl requests something like that I can't lie it can either be a major turn on or a turn off based on my read of her sincerity in the moment and sanity outside of the bedroom. This isnt fair but I may even question how healthy of a life she's currently living if she's too interested in me basically treating her like a ragdoll right away. I recognize that isn't fair.
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