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We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
I’m dating a married couple right now and it’s fucking awesome
That’s all, that’s the post
Ohhhh. I can't wait for the update on this.
The wife got him to surprise me with Japanese Breakfast tickets and she’s going to babysit the kids that night, and he’s going to watch them later in the week so she and I can get pedicures, and then we’re all doing an escape room. This is real life apparently.
The wife got him to surprise me with Japanese Breakfast tickets and she’s going to babysit the kids that night, and he’s going to watch them later in the week so she and I can get pedicures, and then we’re all doing an escape room. This is real life apparently.
well im being boring in my NRE with just one partner even though ive been poly for years and years, whereas you out there getttttting it done (and are more newly poly). but both are happy, which is obv the most important thing!
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
well im being boring in my NRE with just one partner even though ive been poly for years and years, whereas you out there getttttting it done (and are more newly poly). but both are happy, which is obv the most important thing!
Your NRE is anything but boring 😂 but yay for happiness!!!
So, my ex keeps telling me all her deal breakers for what she's looking for in a partner. Turns out there's several I don't meet, and several more which I barely do. She's gonna be super picky, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I wish she didn't tell me a bunch of stuff with her search, or play 20 questions about women I'm talking to.
There's one I've been talking to for a month now, and hope to meet this weekend. She's vegan and has a cat - both of which happen to be deal breakers for my ex.
So, my ex keeps telling me all her deal breakers for what she's looking for in a partner. Turns out there's several I don't meet, and several more which I barely do. She's gonna be super picky, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I wish she didn't tell me a bunch of stuff with her search, or play 20 questions about women I'm talking to.
There's one I've been talking to for a month now, and hope to meet this weekend. She's vegan and has a cat - both of which happen to be deal breakers for my ex.
but vegan chicks with cats are literally the best of all......
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
So, my ex keeps telling me all her deal breakers for what she's looking for in a partner. Turns out there's several I don't meet, and several more which I barely do. She's gonna be super picky, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I wish she didn't tell me a bunch of stuff with her search, or play 20 questions about women I'm talking to.
There's one I've been talking to for a month now, and hope to meet this weekend. She's vegan and has a cat - both of which happen to be deal breakers for my ex.
People need to learn to be honest from the jump or let their partner know when something changes
So, my ex keeps telling me all her deal breakers for what she's looking for in a partner. Turns out there's several I don't meet, and several more which I barely do. She's gonna be super picky, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I wish she didn't tell me a bunch of stuff with her search, or play 20 questions about women I'm talking to.
There's one I've been talking to for a month now, and hope to meet this weekend. She's vegan and has a cat - both of which happen to be deal breakers for my ex.
People need to learn to be honest from the jump or let their partner know when something changes
That'd be nice
In reality, it was really just blame me for everything
People need to learn to be honest from the jump or let their partner know when something changes
That'd be nice
In reality, it was really just blame me for everything
Trying to ask this delicately, but is there a reason you still talk to your ex? The way you talk about her in here, and that's all I know about it, seems toxic for you.
Seriouly though, I’m sorry. Hoping you’ve rounded the corner and it won’t be long.
LOL oh yes thankfully I'm isolating in my own apartment so I can use all the, erm, instruments I have now that I'm feeling better. My girlfriend is now upstate, and hopefully I'll test negative tomorrow and she can stop crashing at other people's houses.
In reality, it was really just blame me for everything
Trying to ask this delicately, but is there a reason you still talk to your ex? The way you talk about her in here, and that's all I know about it, seems toxic for you.
It started because we both refused to move out, for economic reasons.
Then we got to a point of co-existence. Or codependent.
It's odd, I know.
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Trying to ask this delicately, but is there a reason you still talk to your ex? The way you talk about her in here, and that's all I know about it, seems toxic for you.
It started because we both refused to move out, for economic reasons.
Then we got to a point of co-existence. Or codependent.
It's odd, I know.
If you want to be friends with her, you are going to need to set up boundaries and accept that you might have urges and feelings, but need to move on. I love you dude. I dont think your ex is toxic but I think holding onto that connection is going to hold you back.
It started because we both refused to move out, for economic reasons.
Then we got to a point of co-existence. Or codependent.
It's odd, I know.
If you want to be friends with her, you are going to need to set up boundaries and accept that you might have urges and feelings, but need to move on. I love you dude. I dont think your ex is toxic but I think holding onto that connection is going to hold you back.
It's weird
Sometimes I don't mind spending time with her. There's also been some occasions where I invite her out to functions on my family's side so they can deal with her instead of me. But increasingly, I just want to move on and be left alone. Meanwhile she's trying to be all besties with me, asks me a bunch of questions about the dating scene, and tells me a bunch about this guy she's been on 3-4 dates with now. (This is weird, right?)
Yesterday I met up with the vegan cat girl. H calls me afterwards asking how it went, and saying she's happy for me because it didn't go badly.
Meanwhile, I have no idea how/when to explain my situation with H to vegan cat girl.
As I try to do Feeld and FetLife for the first time... I find that I can't conjure the right words for a bio and don't expect after years of Okcupid to not have a real bio. I can't be upset if I get no responses when my shit is so basic.
But here is what I realized, I need someone to help me into the community, and I kinda lost that with a roommate who bought a farm and is never here? I expected to be around my trans and poly friend for more of this year and it just didn't happen out of, how life rolls. I'm really afraid that only my cis friends are *only going to be involved in my life here in nyc because I'm not queer enough to just jump into a club. I'm queer enough to identify as not the norm.
So how do I even start? or restart
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As I try to do Feeld and FetLife for the first time... I find that I can't conjure the right words for a bio and don't expect after years of Okcupid to not have a real bio. I can't be upset if I get no responses when my shit is so basic.
But here is what I realized, I need someone to help me into the community, and I kinda lost that with a roommate who bought a farm and is never here? I expected to be around my trans and poly friend for more of this year and it just didn't happen out of, how life rolls. I'm really afraid that only my cis friends are *only going to be involved in my life here in nyc because I'm not queer enough to just jump into a club. I'm queer enough to identify as not the norm.
So how do I even start? or restart
I can't speak for Feeld as I've never used it, but with FetLife...the fact that you are putting any thought at all into your bio already puts you a step above most male-presenting people on that site.
I think one thing to remember is that Feeld and FL are two different animals - the former a dating/hookup thing, and the latter more a social network for kinky people. So, with FL, don't worry about attempting to appeal to anyone in what you write. Just be yourself. Honestly, "I'm not queer enough to just jump into a club, but I'm queer enough to identify as not the norm" is a great start. From there...why are you on FL? With what kind of people are you trying to connect? That's always good bio fodder.
A lot of folks also, for fun and information purposes, will include their BDSM Test results in their bio. YMMV on that, but it's something to flesh things out.
Also/finally, you can always edit your bio. Get on there, poke around other people's profiles, and see if anything anyone else does sparks any inspiration for you, and then come back to it.
As I try to do Feeld and FetLife for the first time... I find that I can't conjure the right words for a bio and don't expect after years of Okcupid to not have a real bio. I can't be upset if I get no responses when my shit is so basic.
But here is what I realized, I need someone to help me into the community, and I kinda lost that with a roommate who bought a farm and is never here? I expected to be around my trans and poly friend for more of this year and it just didn't happen out of, how life rolls. I'm really afraid that only my cis friends are *only going to be involved in my life here in nyc because I'm not queer enough to just jump into a club. I'm queer enough to identify as not the norm.
So how do I even start? or restart
Hey if you wanna DM me what you want to say, I can help. I do it all the time. Shoot me a rough draft.
As I try to do Feeld and FetLife for the first time... I find that I can't conjure the right words for a bio and don't expect after years of Okcupid to not have a real bio. I can't be upset if I get no responses when my shit is so basic.
But here is what I realized, I need someone to help me into the community, and I kinda lost that with a roommate who bought a farm and is never here? I expected to be around my trans and poly friend for more of this year and it just didn't happen out of, how life rolls. I'm really afraid that only my cis friends are *only going to be involved in my life here in nyc because I'm not queer enough to just jump into a club. I'm queer enough to identify as not the norm.
So how do I even start? or restart
Hey if you wanna DM me what you want to say, I can help. I do it all the time. Shoot me a rough draft.
I'm honestly intimidated even though you are younger than me, I feel like I'm stepping into an arena I know nothing about.
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