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I've never heard it called that, it's hilarious though......maybe it's also the place for knocked-up strippers?? Seriously the chick I saw had the breasts and abs of someone who just gave birth (ya know how nursing dog's teats look? Yeah...kind of like that, eewwww). On a brighter note, I hear the Pony on Sunday night is the place to be for that kind of thing. I wish I could be cool and take my boyfriend, but I think I might be too jealous
Sorry I know the above is off topic so I'll say this about sex at roo: Thank goodness we have the RV. I plan on doing it on the way there, and as much as I can once we arrive...good music is such a turn on!!!
Don't get jealous. Take him. It will make your sex that much better when you get home that night w/ him. ;D
I have never gotten jealous over a strip club. If they want to leave me for the stripper they are more then welcome, and I would not be offended.
Post by GratefulHippie on Apr 14, 2009 13:19:36 GMT -5
strip clubs can be great for your sex life. it's a look don't touch policy there(well, some places ), so your man is getting all riled up with no outlet(except for you at the end of the night). let him buy you a lap dance, and i promise he'll enjoy watching you get touched and rubbed on by another woman. hell, you might actually enjoy it yourself
Yeah, his brother's gf is a waitress at a club by us and I know the two of them go as a couple all the time. I'm not afraid to admit that I know my jealousy stems from my insecurity (not to mention I was raised with the most mixed messages about sex growing up and it totally quacked me up, sexually). It's hard to imagine having good sex afterward because in my mind he wouldn't be thinking of me he'd just be using my body to live out his fantasy of another woman. The logical part of my mind says that's crazy, and I'm the one thinking of those things, not him...sometimes I hate my strong emotions. Maybe we can go to the club some time and I can get super wasted and just watch for a night...I think that might help ease me into it. And I will say this, he is so super amazing and while I know he would like something like this, he has never, ever, in any way made me feel pressured or obligated to do anything I wasn't completely comfortable with.
Anyhoo...sorry this was so long, but thank you for the advice ladies and cheers to everyone who plans to get it on at bonnaroo ( or on the way, like me )
Yeah, his brother's gf is a waitress at a club by us and I know the two of them go as a couple all the time. I'm not afraid to admit that I know my jealousy stems from my insecurity (not to mention I was raised with the most mixed messages about sex growing up and it totally quacked me up, sexually). It's hard to imagine having good sex afterward because in my mind he wouldn't be thinking of me he'd just be using my body to live out his fantasy of another woman. The logical part of my mind says that's crazy, and I'm the one thinking of those things, not him...sometimes I hate my strong emotions. Maybe we can go to the club some time and I can get super wasted and just watch for a night...I think that might help ease me into it. And I will say this, he is so super amazing and while I know he would like something like this, he has never, ever, in any way made me feel pressured or obligated to do anything I wasn't completely comfortable with.
Anyhoo...sorry this was so long, but thank you for the advice ladies and cheers to everyone who plans to get it on at bonnaroo ( or on the way, like me )
Your best bet might be to not go. I don't want you to get upset and hurt over nothing. I am glad you have found such an amazing guy, you are lucky!! ;D
This thread had been terribly slow lately. Is everyone else out there in inforooland too busy gettin' that sweet lovin' to post about it here so I can live vicariously through ya'll?
Post by GratefulHippie on Apr 17, 2009 21:15:33 GMT -5
haha...me too. the older i get, the less casual sex appeals to me. quality over quantity these days. bad/meaningless sex just feels like you never had sex at all.
I would like to have a one night stand at some point in my life. Like where you just have sex, and never talk to them again or even know their name. I would feel so used though. So I doubt it will ever happen.
My friends from school can do it, and they are like well I got mine. I just look at it like you got totally used.
yeah. i have always somewhat been like that, it just goes through cycles i think. like sometimes i dont want any sex unless it really means something to me, and others i just feel like whatever. i guess is less of a wanting sex thing and more of a lonely thing.
Post by GratefulHippie on Apr 17, 2009 21:27:15 GMT -5
meh...i don't think it's being "used" if both parties are aware of the situation. some people are just capable of separating certain emotions from sex. but it's good that you are aware you can't. it's not worth getting your heart/ego/emotions hurt because you just wanted to know what it felt like.
hahaha. i had a girl say that one time. then she went into detail on some of the things she had tried twice to make sure she didnt like them, and i ran screaming into the night. and i agree kel, i would probably cry the next morning. i have enough trouble havin random dirty deeds with people i do know.
I would like to have a one night stand at some point in my life. Like where you just have sex, and never talk to them again or even know their name. I would feel so used though. So I doubt it will ever happen.
My friends from school can do it, and they are like well I got mine. I just look at it like you got totally used.
Yeah, believe me, it's happened to me, and I didn't even know what was going on. I went home with him, we did it, he took me home, and I never heard from him again. I felt dirty and used up. Like a hollow person.
So back in 06 I proposed to my girlfriend at Bonnaroo during the day. Waaayyy later thet night(the sun was coming up actually) we were walking back to our campsite when she looked at me and gave me "the Look" so we decided that we should find a place in the woods since we were camping with a bunch of people that were probably still up and roaming around our campsite. So off we go trying to find a perfect spot to make love. After looking for a good spot for 15 minutes we stumble onto a spot that looked like a walking "vendor" spent a bit getting his wares together. There were over a hundred ziplock baggies with the corners cut out. Laying right on top of the cut out baggies was the prettiest christmas tree looking piece of corn about the size of a dollar bill. We look around and realize there is no one around that could have dropped it . We took it as a sign from the Bonnaroo gods that it was ours. The sun was getting up there and people were stirring in tents now so we decided to head back to camp where luckily everyone was still asleep. We decided to enjoy our find and then went to the air conditioned SUV to continue what started us on the journey. So moral of the story, If the opportunity presents itself try to make some loving, you never know what you will find.
Having random sex with a guy I liked a long time ago lead me to become a band mate and finally realize that yes, i do have a good voice. haha
), so your man is getting all riled up with no outlet(except for you at the end of the night). let him buy you a lap dance, and i promise he'll enjoy watching you get touched and rubbed on by another woman. hell, you might actually enjoy it yourself 
and cheers to everyone who plans to get it on at bonnaroo ( or on the way, like me 
