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This is sort of trivial when you all are talking pandemic depression and shit. It's also pretty personal and maybe TMI so apologies.
My wife and I are having trouble conceiving, but she always thought she'd have a tough time with her health issues. She got blood work done last week and I had my bullets tested Monday. Got the results this morning and it looks like I am the problem. It was a real punch to the gut. I did not expect it.
More like impotentpotables, amiright?
I took a second test, and it wasn't much better than the first (but was a little better). My wife had her testing done, and it also was not great. Basically, she doesn't ovulate. Our doctor told us today that we probably should do some intervention to make it happen. She is not taking it well, and I tried to console and it didn't work.
We will definitely adopt, that's not an issue. Just sucks to have a hard time doing something others do so easily. And it's one of those times when everyone around us is having babies.
Should have stuck to the ass eating thread.
As I mentioned before, I can sympathize some. All of our friends are also havin’ kids, but some should be careful of their language ‘round my wife. One of our friends was complainin’ to her ‘bout her second pregnancy when she knows we’re havin’ a rough go at it. Needless to say my wife was not in a great mood the rest of that day.
I took a second test, and it wasn't much better than the first (but was a little better). My wife had her testing done, and it also was not great. Basically, she doesn't ovulate. Our doctor told us today that we probably should do some intervention to make it happen. She is not taking it well, and I tried to console and it didn't work.
We will definitely adopt, that's not an issue. Just sucks to have a hard time doing something others do so easily. And it's one of those times when everyone around us is having babies.
Should have stuck to the ass eating thread.
As I mentioned before, I can sympathize some. All of our friends are also havin’ kids, but some should be careful of their language ‘round my wife. One of our friends was complainin’ to her ‘bout her second pregnancy when she knows we’re havin’ a rough go at it. Needless to say my wife was not in a great mood the rest of that day.
This is sort of trivial when you all are talking pandemic depression and shit. It's also pretty personal and maybe TMI so apologies.
My wife and I are having trouble conceiving, but she always thought she'd have a tough time with her health issues. She got blood work done last week and I had my bullets tested Monday. Got the results this morning and it looks like I am the problem. It was a real punch to the gut. I did not expect it.
More like impotentpotables, amiright?
I took a second test, and it wasn't much better than the first (but was a little better). My wife had her testing done, and it also was not great. Basically, she doesn't ovulate. Our doctor told us today that we probably should do some intervention to make it happen. She is not taking it well, and I tried to console and it didn't work.
We will definitely adopt, that's not an issue. Just sucks to have a hard time doing something others do so easily. And it's one of those times when everyone around us is having babies.
Should have stuck to the ass eating thread.
I’m sorry to hear and I hope that you are processing this situation as well as it seems like you are. As others have said, the line between biological family and who you treat as family is pretty much just a construct we have created. Best of luck on your journey through the adoption process!
This is sort of trivial when you all are talking pandemic depression and shit. It's also pretty personal and maybe TMI so apologies.
My wife and I are having trouble conceiving, but she always thought she'd have a tough time with her health issues. She got blood work done last week and I had my bullets tested Monday. Got the results this morning and it looks like I am the problem. It was a real punch to the gut. I did not expect it.
More like impotentpotables, amiright?
I took a second test, and it wasn't much better than the first (but was a little better). My wife had her testing done, and it also was not great. Basically, she doesn't ovulate. Our doctor told us today that we probably should do some intervention to make it happen. She is not taking it well, and I tried to console and it didn't work.
We will definitely adopt, that's not an issue. Just sucks to have a hard time doing something others do so easily. And it's one of those times when everyone around us is having babies.
Should have stuck to the ass eating thread.
I am sorry you guys are going through this. There are a lot of medical interventions that can help. When I worked close to a fertility clinic, I sold a lot of meds and got to watch as the hopeful parents became parents. It does not always work, and it can be expensive. So you and your wife will have to make those difficult decisions. And there are a lot or children out there waiting for a good home. Just take some time and look at all the possibilities. I am sure one day you two will be wonderful parents.
Another thing to keep in mind, my best friend is adopted along with his younger sister. Shortly after his parents adopted his sister, they were surprised to get pregnant with his little brother. And the youngest brother looks exactly like his dad so there’s no funny business going on that would have caused that. Things change all the time and they were able to have an even bigger family than they planned because of that
Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken as well as absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
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Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken and absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
*all the hugs* and gonna shoot you a private message xoxo
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken and absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
I'm so sorry, boo. Hugs. I wish I had any other advise, but if you ever need to talk I'm here.
Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken and absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry to hear that buddy.
My wife and I are contemplating moving to Philly and I will need people to meet at shows, if that means anything to you.
Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken and absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry to hear that buddy.
My wife and I are contemplating moving to Philly and I will need people to meet at shows, if that means anything to you.
Thanks y’all.
And yes Potent that’d be awesome. I need concert buddies!
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Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken as well as absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
I'm so sorry. 5 years is long relationship to end especially if you decide to end it. Take longer walks. Enjoy more sunny days sitting at a cafe. Travel to see people you haven't seen in forever. Those were always on my list. If you need to get away, my door is always open.
One thing that helped me was just leaving. I'd find someone who needed a new roommate or had a spare closet, move my shit in my parents basement and just go. It's kinda running from your feelings, I agree, but it was good not to have to see or think about them. You can always put your feelings in check when you're ready.
Just broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Two months left on the lease. It's gonna be rough. I'm appropriately heartbroken as well as absolutely devastated to lose my dog (it was agreed before we got him that she would keep him in the event we broke up), but I know it's for the best. Any tips on making the next two months bearable and/or finding a place to live while unemployed would be greatly appreciated.
Sorry to hear that, buddy. Always available to talk about things.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
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The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
Sorry, Theo. That's fucking brutal. Either of those, individually, would make for a fucking awful 48 hours. Sending some love your way this afternoon.
The last 48 hours or so have just been fucking awful. I got news yesterday morning that someone I know overdosed, and managed to survive but has been in a coma until recently. Then just a couple hours ago I got news that another person I knew was killed. He was 18.
I am just now seeing this—I am so so sorry Theo. Sending a hug your way.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
to clarify: was it an inspection contingency like you were just asking for the time necessary to complete an inspection—or you were asking for due diligence $$ returned if the inspection raised serious issues??
Because with how the housing market is right now, I think having a contingency of expecting DD $$ back if inspection shows things that make the house no longer worth buying, is unfortunately not gonna be a strong enough offer up against those that are giving a certain amount in DD, that they’ll lose if they back out from anything found in the inspection
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
to clarify: was it an inspection contingency like you were just asking for the time necessary to complete an inspection—or you were asking for due diligence $$ returned if the inspection raised serious issues??
Because with how the housing market is right now, I think having a contingency of expecting DD $$ back if inspection shows things that make the house no longer worth buying, is unfortunately not gonna be a strong enough offer up against those that are giving a certain amount in DD, that they’ll lose if they back out from anything found in the inspection
from what I'm gathering from my realtor, they got an offer that included absolutely no inspection whatsoever
Corporations are buying up huge amounts of the available real estate to use as rental properties, preventing regular folks from being able to buy homes.
to clarify: was it an inspection contingency like you were just asking for the time necessary to complete an inspection—or you were asking for due diligence $$ returned if the inspection raised serious issues??
Because with how the housing market is right now, I think having a contingency of expecting DD $$ back if inspection shows things that make the house no longer worth buying, is unfortunately not gonna be a strong enough offer up against those that are giving a certain amount in DD, that they’ll lose if they back out from anything found in the inspection
from what I'm gathering from my realtor, they got an offer that included absolutely no inspection whatsoever
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Post by Teddy Flair on May 2, 2021 21:54:17 GMT -5
What's really frustrating is that my apartment gave us the notice last week that we need to announce if we're renewing by May 7. So we've got less than a week to either get an offer accepted or stick it out for another year
What's really frustrating is that my apartment gave us the notice last week that we need to announce if we're renewing by May 7. So we've got less than a week to either get an offer accepted or stick it out for another year
What's really frustrating is that my apartment gave us the notice last week that we need to announce if we're renewing by May 7. So we've got less than a week to either get an offer accepted or stick it out for another year
Do you not have the option of doing a month-to-month at all? It’s usually a ridiculous hike in the rent, but might be better than renewing for a full year if you can afford it. You also might want to check out what your lease says about breaking the lease. If it’s a bigger owner, they sometimes have relatively light options for breaking a lease. I actually had a property manager at one of my old apartments just tell me that my best bet was to renew for a year and then break the lease when I was able to move. I was waiting on a transfer from my job when my lease term was up, and I didn’t know how long it would take to go through. Month-to-month was exorbitantly high, and even renewing for a shorter lease like three or six months would have ended up costing us a lot more than breaking our lease ultimately did.
Even if it’s a smaller owner, you might try talking to the landlord or property manager. We rented a house that we hated living in, so we wanted to leave early. There wasn’t a provision in our lease for early termination, but I talked to the owner. I didn’t tell him we hated living in his house, just said we were buying a house and had found something that we wanted to move forward on. He basically said that we would have to pay as agreed, but that he’d let us out of whatever was left if he found another tenant. We only ended up paying like one month of overlapping rent. Of course, we were taking a chance there that we’d get stuck paying both for a lot longer, and I know paying a rent and a mortgage at the same time is not an option for everyone, but my point is that maybe if you talk to your landlord before you renew, you can work something out that would let you stay in the apartment but keep looking for a house if the landlord turns out to be willing to let you break the lease.