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Post by bojangles22 on Apr 13, 2009 16:04:32 GMT -5
man, that is a bummer man. He mest up, but be understanding and encouraging, going through the legal system is a total downer. But first smack him upside the noggin and say, "Get yer head in the game, son!"
Post by kaleidoscope kristen on Apr 13, 2009 18:29:43 GMT -5
aw thanks guys! yeah, I know it's stressful for him but seriously, this is the 3rd time he's been arrested and been in jail. I mean how many wake up calls does someone need before they look around and realize their actions have pushed people who care about them away?
I know people mess up and I'm not saying I'm anywhere from perfect, but I just want more of a sense of responsibility from him.
We got into a fight on the phone and some stupid things were said, so idk what's going to happen when he gets back.
I don't know what to say really, expect we all say stuff we don't mean when we are upset. And guys are stubborn, you can tell them over and over, but they have to learn on their own!
Post by kaleidoscope kristen on Apr 14, 2009 0:28:38 GMT -5
^^ aw thanks ladies! The both of you rock I talked to Jacob and I'm not so mad now, but we still have a bunch of stuff to talk about in person rather than on the phone.
aw thanks guys! yeah, I know it's stressful for him but seriously, this is the 3rd time he's been arrested and been in jail. I mean how many wake up calls does someone need before they look around and realize their actions have pushed people who care about them away?
I know people mess up and I'm not saying I'm anywhere from perfect, but I just want more of a sense of responsibility from him.
We got into a fight on the phone and some stupid things were said, so idk what's going to happen when he gets back.
ugh
That is such a hard thing to deal with, on both sides of the coin. He's probably going to have to deal with some oncoming hard times so you need to be there and be strong for him. But you still need to let him know you and your child can't depend on him if he can't be responsible enough to take care of himself. I hope everything works out for the both of you, just keep that chin up!
be there for your man, tell him how you feel... and he is gonna have to want to staighten up for himself... remember he is male and we all know us men mature alot slower than wonderful women... and remind him he has a child to think of now... and tell him Green County Correctional center is no fun for a young man...
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I'm sooooo tired of being used, lied too, and manipulated. I suppose at some point the later is my fault for being so blind. I don't want to change who I am. So I suppose I have to make a decision at some point. I guess it's a run of bad luck because it's not the same person over and over. WTF! Do I have it written on my forehead?
I'm sooooo tired of being used, lied too, and manipulated. I suppose at some point the later is my fault for being so blind. I don't want to change who I am. So I suppose I have to make a decision at some point. I guess it's a run of bad luck because it's not the same person over and over. WTF! Do I have it written on my forehead?
maybe it's because you are a nice, trusting person that wants to believe in the good of all people?
Post by NothingButFlowers on Apr 14, 2009 10:54:47 GMT -5
I just spent the last 20 minutes filling out an online application for a judiciary position, which can't be saved at any point. You just have to fill it out online and print it out. I opened another tab because I had to look something up, and my browser window just closed for no reason, losing all of the stuff I just typed in. I really don't want to fill all that out again, but it's a really good job that I'm really qualified for, and it would be really wrong of me not to apply for it.
Generally yes. But this latest instance is especially hurtful. Turns out it was just a well executed plan to use me to get back on their feet. Now that they are there it is obvious she cared nothing for me at all and has no further use. I don't want to become cynical or distrusting of everyone. Guess I'm just not a good judge of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I suppose someday I will learn how to do it. Such is life.
Generally yes. But this latest instance is especially hurtful. Turns out it was just a well executed plan to use me to get back on their feet. Now that they are there it is obvious she cared nothing for me at all and has no further use. I don't want to become cynical or distrusting of everyone. Guess I'm just not a good judge of character when it comes to the opposite sex. I suppose someday I will learn how to do it. Such is life.
well - it's always easier to be used when you are geniunely a good guy. I know that doesn't help matters at the moment but at least you get to walk away knowing that you didn't do anything wrong - other then being a trusting person
Thanks. Yes it does hurt, this time quite a bit. Meg, there is some solace in knowing I did some good things for someone that needed it. Whether they appreciate it or not is on them and their conscience.
this is the 3rd time he's been arrested and been in jail. ugh
All I can say is that you should think about whether or not you want to have someone in you life that will likely be making return trips to jail. Is this the situation that you envision yourself living in the future? Think about people you have met, likely you have met others you thread their lives through the legal system and jail. If you are comfortable with this then stand by your man. If not, make it clear to him what you want in you life. Figure out the important goals, deals, lifestyles you want for yourself.
I have had to distance myself from people who just don't seem to mind getting arrested, going to jail, dealing with the legal system. Not my cup of tea.
this is the 3rd time he's been arrested and been in jail. ugh
All I can say is that you should think about whether or not you want to have someone in you life that will likely be making return trips to jail. Is this the situation that you envision yourself living in the future? Think about people you have met, likely you have met others you thread their lives through the legal system and jail. If you are comfortable with this then stand by your man. If not, make it clear to him what you want in you life. Figure out the important goals, deals, lifestyles you want for yourself.
I have had to distance myself from people who just don't seem to mind getting arrested, going to jail, dealing with the legal system. Not my cup of tea.
Good luck lady.
I wanted to say something like this, but could not think of how to put it.
I'm sooooo tired of being used, lied too, and manipulated. I suppose at some point the later is my fault for being so blind. I don't want to change who I am. So I suppose I have to make a decision at some point. I guess it's a run of bad luck because it's not the same person over and over. WTF! Do I have it written on my forehead?
So weird, I opened up this thread to bitch about always seeming to end up with guys who only want to use, manipulate, and take advantage of me. I can't understand why I only seem to be attracted to people who always turn out to be the same exact way, every time. Even when I'm really careful and watch for signs of it early on, it doesn't make a fuck's difference. But then when they start using me I convince myself that they're just having a hard time and they need me to be there for them and help them out in any way possible. Pfffft, yeah right.
It looks like someone stole his bank card - one day he had 1800 usd and the next -1500 usd and he would have had to have been taking $200 a day for it to be gone at that rate and he says he knows he didn't - so grrr because he might have to come home earlier then planned
^^ I was upset about that, too. Totally ruined my day. But he's been in touch with his parents and they've helped him out for the time being, I believe, so hopefully he can get this mess figured out and go on with his trip. I'm sending good vibes his way
I went to the gym after work yesterday then slept on my couch for 14 hours. This wouldnt bother me except that I had tickets to go see Diplo and I left the windows open while I slept. So it was 65 when I went to bed and 32 outside when I woke up. Im sure my gas bill is going to suck
I talked to Jacob and I'm not so mad now, but we still have a bunch of stuff to talk about in person rather than on the phone. 
