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Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 14, 2008 17:13:23 GMT -5
shhhhh said:
It all depends on the trust in the relationship...
One of my closest friends is one of my ex-girlfriend's ex boyfriends. I wouldn't have met him if I didn't trust her to hang out with an ex.
On the other hand... "Hi honey...I'm gonna hang out alone with my ex on Valentines Day" ...does seem like it's pushing the envelope a bit too far.
Ive made some good friends by hanging out with ex girlfriends ex boyfriends. Theres something about this dude that tells me he's a dooshburger. He has good taste in music, but he has a thing for me girlfriend. Thats another thing that quirks me, I know he's still in love with her. He's admitted to her
Post by mulcherry0420 on Feb 14, 2008 17:25:56 GMT -5
lol. i dont care about her past. but i considering cheating anything involving what you know you shouldnt be doing ie telling old boyfriends you miss old times, while your still with someone else. I always tell her if something has happened, just be honest about it. That would make it a lot easier on me. and her because if i knew she cheated she would pretty much would "become dead to me".
I'll punch her in the eye if she has actually physically "cheated" on me.
and i'm glad everyone enjoyed the lyrics. Warren is an underrated song writer. FO SHO
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Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 14, 2008 17:41:27 GMT -5
sik7716 said:
it would depend on the circumstances. but i would definetly be biting my tounge.
Ive talked to her about it. She said she was curious as to how I would respond to it. She knows I dont really care too much for the holiday and shes off todayand she thought it be nice to hang out with him today. Hes still kinda stuck on her, I told her that hanging out with him on Vday isnt the best thing for him, but she said its far better than him being alone all day. So I concur with her on that. We're getting together later tonight so I dont feel so awkward now that we've talkecd about it.
Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 14, 2008 17:50:52 GMT -5
shhhhh said:
You know...instead of talkin to us about this....you should really be taking an ex out to lunch.
I already had a fat email exchange during the whole beginning of mine and her deal. It ended up with me thinking dude is ok and he will respect what we have but progressively over the past 3 months he's been getting strange. With late calls to her, guilt tripping her, things like this. And now he half begs her to see him on Vday while Im at work.
oh wait do you mean one of my exes...as in revenge type deal...if so no...
Darth, have you told her how you feel about him? and the things you've noticed? she might not be seeing the same things you're seeing... afterall, you're both guys.
Post by mulcherry0420 on Feb 14, 2008 17:57:50 GMT -5
Dont let her make you feel stupid for how you feel man. When i confronted Rachel she tried to make me feel like I WAS the ass for going through her phone. When SHE was saying the things she shouldnt.
Post by mulcherry0420 on Feb 14, 2008 17:59:48 GMT -5
squid said:
alyroo said:
and he'll keep working that "feel bad for me" angle until it's clear it won't work or... it works.
Its that kind of thinking thats kicking my ass
lol, same here bro. I told her if she lied to me about about anything. No matter if its what she had for lunch or what she did the night before. It was over. I dont understand why peoples think they have to lie about the smallest things.
Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 14, 2008 18:00:32 GMT -5
Well the girl is up front witth me. Everytime he sends a flirty email or drunk dials her randomly she tells me about it. So shes not hiding anything from me. Im just not sure how I should feel about it. I know how I feel about it...strange.
Its bad to look through your other's phone or email without permission, but it doesnt change what you find either. If you find solid proof without a warrant in a relationship it isnt inadmissable
You shouldn't apologize for your feelings -- and there's no way you should (or shouldn't) feel. Let her know it makes you uncomfortable and see how she responds.
And I agree that it's not cool to sleuth...but I understand how it happens.
Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 14, 2008 18:12:26 GMT -5
Truth all around...I appreciate the overall positive reponse everyone has ahd with this. message communities are great for getting feedback on certain situations.
