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Post by shakedownree on Feb 15, 2008 16:56:25 GMT -5
asdoye111 said:
shakedownree said:
i love him. what am i supposed to do? nothing has ever been this real for me.
not to play devil's advocate, but what has mulchy done wrong... until proven guilty, i would find him innocent and you the opposite...
please take no offense... and please try to understand, that we have what facts we have, and we are making no judgements until we have ALL the facts...
...that being said Roger Clemens is a guilty douchebag
well no offense to you sir but this whole thing should have never been publicly displayed as it has been. and no offense but its none of your business what he has done. i would never deface his wonderful name on a damn internet forum.
Post by shakedownree on Feb 15, 2008 16:57:54 GMT -5
sparklybecca said:
sorry.
im gonna not post here for a few days i think i need a break.
i apologize becca.
this thread was brought to my attention and it just kinda got the best of me. it angered me. but i shouldnt have said anything to you. you guys do talk a lot though makes me glad youre in ny sometimes.
OK guys I was gone for awhile and trying to catch up. You guys have said some things that I'm sure we've all said before, but I think are a little f*ed up. When it comes down to it cheating doesn't require sex. Cheating emotionally hurts just as bad if not worse than cheating physically. So sending late night text telling you're ex you miss them is cheating. Hanging out with your ex who is still in love with you because it feels good to be around someone who loves you is cheating.
In an attempt to be the quintessential Virgo I am and risk crossing some boundaries I have something to say
Clarity your post /response speaks loudly of the astute level of emotional IQ you posses. Karma 4 u and hugs
Clarity's view about what is cheating can be applied to every socialistic matter. To me I look at it as a question of decency. Decency to yourself and others-it truly goes hand in hand in order for the act to be decent, otherwise it is half hearted. Half hearted to me is an omission(half) and omissions can be viewed as a lie. Why? would you lie to yourself? I think you get the point decency is an inward introspection AND outward perspective.
Cheating, NOT being decent -the act it self affects three people in the immediate and all in everyones life in the end.1.) Yourself, as you are telling yourself it is OK or find some justification to be in-decent. 2.) Your mate, for obvious and collateral reasons 3.) That guy/ girl you think deserves to be so lucky to be a part of the indecency you employ, whether or not they are getting nookie or not. If they are are in it for the nookie then that speaks for the self respect you have for yourself.
Everyone else well look at this community of inofroo...we are all affected by the in-decency apparently Mulch is feeling. It is simple, try not to be upset at the people who chose to be valiant by being decent and consoling/advising Mulch, instead TRY to be one of those people after all he is your mate.
As for as his devotion to inforoo maybe you need to give him other reasons to make you feel decent and not cheated on by with his participation with decent people.
You MAY want to try and correlate with your mate's likes and dislikes and expound on your commonality as a relationship. If the relationship has gone past the point of decency to never return to decency, then you both will be destined for the obvious end. Will the end be decent? who knows thats up to the TWO of YOU.
Personally it sounds like you guys are just In a state of a -LONG GOODBYE.
not to play devil's advocate, but what has mulchy done wrong... until proven guilty, i would find him innocent and you the opposite...
please take no offense... and please try to understand, that we have what facts we have, and we are making no judgements until we have ALL the facts...
...that being said Roger Clemens is a guilty douchebag
well no offense to you sir but this whole thing should have never been publicly displayed as it has been. and no offense but its none of your business what he has done. i would never deface his wonderful name on a damn internet forum.
no offense inforoo...i love you haha
on that note... i'm done with this thread... good luck w/ this situation guys...
well no offense to you sir but this whole thing should have never been publicly displayed as it has been. and no offense but its none of your business what he has done. i would never deface his wonderful name on a damn internet forum.
no offense inforoo...i love you haha
on that note... i'm done with this thread... good luck w/ this situation guys...
agree with you - enough stress in my life without it interfereing with my Inforoo
Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 15, 2008 17:11:36 GMT -5
triptoy said:
clairearoo said:
OK guys I was gone for awhile and trying to catch up. You guys have said some things that I'm sure we've all said before, but I think are a little f*ed up. When it comes down to it cheating doesn't require sex. Cheating emotionally hurts just as bad if not worse than cheating physically. So sending late night text telling you're ex you miss them is cheating. Hanging out with your ex who is still in love with you because it feels good to be around someone who loves you is cheating.
In an attempt to be the quintessential Virgo I am and risk crossing some boundaries I have something to say
Clarity your post /response speaks loudly of the astute level of emotional IQ you posses. Karma 4 u and hugs
Clarity's view about what is cheating can be applied to every socialistic matter. To me I look at it as a question of decency. Decency to yourself and others-it truly goes hand in hand in order for the act to be decent, otherwise it is half hearted. Half hearted to me is an omission(half) and omissions can be viewed as a lie. Why? would you lie to yourself? I think you get the point decency is an inward introspection AND outward perspective.
Cheating, NOT being decent -the act it self affects three people in the immediate and all in everyones life in the end.1.) Yourself, as you are telling yourself it is OK or find some justification to be in-decent. 2.) Your mate, for obvious and collateral reasons 3.) That guy/ girl you think deserves to be so lucky to be a part of the indecency you employ, whether or not they are getting nookie or not. If they are are in it for the nookie then that speaks for the self respect you have for yourself.
Everyone else well look at this community of inofroo...we are all affected by the in-decency apparently Mulch is feeling. It is simple, try not to be upset at the people who chose to be valiant by being decent and consoling/advising Mulch, instead TRY to be one of those people after all he is your mate.
As for as his devotion to inforoo maybe you need to give him other reasons to make you feel decent and not cheated on by with his participation with decent people.
You MAY want to try and correlate with your mate's likes and dislikes and expound on your commonality as a relationship. If the relationship has gone past the point of decency to never return to decency, then you both will be destined for the obvious end. Will the end be decent? who knows thats up to the TWO of YOU.
Personally it sounds like you guys are just In a state of a -LONG GOODBYE.
*Now everyone hug!!!*
As the mushroom grows, Trip
"I think I'd rather you just wash the fucking dishes and and shut the fuck up! Fucking psychobabble-bullshit asshole!"
I dont mean that. I just keep thinking of the movie waiting.
Post by sparklybecca on Feb 15, 2008 17:14:31 GMT -5
its cool.. maybe you guys should talk to eachother. thats a good idea.
and we are friends, and friends give friends advice, ive never once talked to you, didnt even know u had a inforoo login actually..so you gotta look at it from my perspective.
Ok, I'll admit, I have not read this entire thread. I just ate a really wonderful steak dinner, and I'm in a great mood. So, I'll ask the opinions of you folks.. Is this a conversation that needs to continue, or should I lock this up?
Post by shakedownree on Feb 15, 2008 17:19:36 GMT -5
sparklybecca said:
its cool.. maybe you guys should talk to eachother. thats a good idea.
and we are friends, and friends give friends advice, ive never once talked to you, didnt even know u had a inforoo login actually..so you gotta look at it from my perspective.
anyways im done. and its cool.
well now you know that im here.
maybe if you ever need a girl to talk to you can talk to me lol
Post by shakedownree on Feb 15, 2008 17:20:10 GMT -5
wooz said:
Ok, I'll admit, I have not read this entire thread. I just ate a really wonderful steak dinner, and I'm in a great mood. So, I'll ask the opinions of you folks.. Is this a conversation that needs to continue, or should I lock this up?
Post by jm.squared on Feb 15, 2008 17:20:29 GMT -5
ummm... wow, i was going to post on this thread last night, got distracted and just saw all the recent revelations...
so for my 2 cents... i've been the cheater and the cheated... i don't think it's fair to make a judgment based on one side of the story, ever. shakedownree, also knows what it feels like when your friends don't like your S.O.... that blows too but if they blow you off because of who you are with, the friendship prob doesn't mean as much to them as it does to you...
personally, i believe you have to go with your heart and your instinct... i've been screwed over, lied to, etc. and kept going back for more, believing the person wasn't a bad guy... when my gut was telling me to run, i should have and not looked back... i've also been in a situation where i hurt someone that i really cared about, it was a huge mistake and i deeply regretted it... also been the one hurt and i was somehow able to trust the person again and i haven't regretted it.... so i guess what i'm saying is everyone is different, every situation is different, but do yourselves both a favor and have the sense to see when it really is a "long goodbye" situation... when that happens, you're only prolonging the inevitable and while that person was probably put in your life for a reason ("it's never been this real for me") that doesn't necessarily mean they are supposed to stay there... ok, i'm rambling now... it's 5 o'clock somewhere and i'm ready for a drink!! i wish you guys the best though... just be honest with yourselves and each other...
Post by Christopher Shawn on Feb 15, 2008 17:22:30 GMT -5
Id say the conflict has been resolved for the most part....a threads a thread and Ive personally gotten what I needed out of it> Kind of went somewhere else. Id say let it live.
Post by shakedownree on Feb 15, 2008 17:22:31 GMT -5
buchaje said:
ummm... wow, i was going to post on this thread last night, got distracted and just saw all the recent revelations...
so for my 2 cents... i've been the cheater and the cheated... i don't think it's fair to make a judgment based on one side of the story, ever. shakedownree, also knows what it feels like when your friends don't like your S.O.... that blows too but if they blow you off because of who you are with, the friendship prob doesn't mean as much to them as it does to you...
personally, i believe you have to go with your heart and your instinct... i've been screwed over, lied to, etc. and kept going back for more, believing the person wasn't a bad guy... when my gut was telling me to run, i should have and not looked back... i've also been in a situation where i hurt someone that i really cared about, it was a huge mistake and i deeply regretted it... also been the one hurt and i was somehow able to trust the person again and i haven't regretted it.... so i guess what i'm saying is everyone is different, every situation is different, but do yourselves both a favor and have the sense to see when it really is a "long goodbye" situation... when that happens, you're only prolonging the inevitable and while that person was probably put in your life for a reason ("it's never been this real for me") that doesn't necessarily mean they are supposed to stay there... ok, i'm rambling now... it's 5 o'clock somewhere and i'm ready for a drink!! i wish you guys the best though... just be honest with yourselves and each other...
makes me glad youre in ny sometimes.
i wish you guys the best though... just be honest with yourselves and each other...