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I don't consider myself paranoid, but if I didn't know the guy, and he asked me to come to his house and watch a movie for our "first date", I would decline. Public place first, and then if he's cool, we can go watch a movie.
I don't consider myself paranoid, but if I didn't know the guy, and he asked me to come to his house and watch a movie for our "first date", I would decline. Public place first, and then if he's cool, we can go watch a movie.
I met her in class so its not a blind date or anything. I see what you are saying though.
In my experience you should never take a girl out on a formal date for the "first date".
So what do you do instead for a "first date"?
hanging out at the apartment works well. (at least for the very 1st)
a good follow-up is the informal group-outing (her friends and his friends), but this can easily backfire because of "the overly-opinionated biotch that doesn't approve" or "the guy that gets too fired up when surrounded by beautiful women and makes an arse of himself"
I guess college is different... I have met some super creepy ass dudes since I graduated, but in college, I never met one (ok, I never hung out with a creepy one). Hmm.
have a date with a religious girl tonight... should be interesting atleast.
I went on a date with a very religious woman once. Pro tip: Don't start a conversation, at any point, with "hey, so do you believe in the big bang theory or are you under the assumption that Jesus rode a velociraptor?"
And probably leave out the part about how the Devil is your favorite character from Paradise Lost (even though it damn well should be, the Devil was awesome in Paradise Lost).
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Post by funkybuttlovin on Jan 20, 2012 16:44:56 GMT -5
Helped a blind girl on campus today. She was confused because the walk way wasn't plowed. She was calling out for help and it was obvious that she didn't know where she was going. On a small campus people see her a lot but no one helped her until I came along. Turns out she lives across the hall from me after I walked her into the dorm. Maybe I was supposed to help her or why didn't anyone else help?
Helped a blind girl on campus today. She was confused because the walk way wasn't plowed. She was calling out for help and it was obvious that she didn't know where she was going. On a small campus people see her a lot but no one helped her until I came along. Turns out she lives across the hall from me after I walked her into the dorm. Maybe I was supposed to help her or why didn't anyone else help?
I don't know what to say to that, sda. People suck. I've never gotten why people don't help at all.
Kudo's to you, sir. Seriously a good thing you did there.
1. Am I the only one here that has zero interest in tattoos? Just don't really like them. 2. Hartford is a terrible city with very little going for it 3. I think I need to drink...
1. Am I the only one here that has zero interest in tattoos? Just don't really like them. 2. Hartford is a terrible city with very little going for it 3. I think I need to drink...
Post by ziggyandthemonkeys on Jan 21, 2012 2:59:29 GMT -5
As far as I'm concerned if we didn't talk about dinosaurs on a first date, don't expect a call back for a second.
To LD, yes to 1. I find most people usually are really interested in them, or are really interested in them and think they're the worstideaintheworldomgwhathaveyoudonewhataboutwhenyou'reold. Not many people with total disinterest towards them .
In my experience you should never take a girl out on a formal date for the "first date". Twice in a row the girl got a free meal and drinks and then immediately afterwards spilled the "I'm kinda already seeing someone" or the "You're nice, but I'd rather just be friends." Not saying ALL women use men for free stuff, but wait until the 2nd or 3rd date for monetary chivalry.
Truth. And there is a much more fundamental reason why busting out a benny on a first date is a VERY BAD IDEA.
oh, and "Im kinda already seeing someone" is a lie. Not that women lie or anything...
In my experience you should never take a girl out on a formal date for the "first date".
So what do you do instead for a "first date"?
do something cheap/fun/original. Something where it is easy to share the cost of the date, and it might cost each one of you 20$. Very easy.
NO MOVIES, TV, NOTHING WHERE YOU ARE PAYING ATTENTION TO SOMETHING ELSE. A first date is to figure out where it can go from there. You can't do that by staring at a television.
1. Am I the only one here that has zero interest in tattoos? Just don't really like them. 2. Hartford is a terrible city with very little going for it 3. I think I need to drink...
1) whats wrong with you? 2) its not all bad, take a ride down scenic Albany Avenue. 3) 'I think' needs to come out for it to be totally correct.
First dates are horrible. At least for me they are always so awkward and nerve racking! I would much rather invite the female over to my loft and cook her dinner/drink wine/watch a sporting event or movie.
In my experience you should never take a girl out on a formal date for the "first date". Twice in a row the girl got a free meal and drinks and then immediately afterwards spilled the "I'm kinda already seeing someone" or the "You're nice, but I'd rather just be friends." Not saying ALL women use men for free stuff, but wait until the 2nd or 3rd date for monetary chivalry.
Truth. And there is a much more fundamental reason why busting out a benny on a first date is a VERY BAD IDEA.
oh, and "Im kinda already seeing someone" is a lie. Not that women lie or anything...
In my case it wasn't a lie. She really was seeing someone else, but did use me to get a free meal and drinks. I called her out on it and it was a quiet ride home with the thick stench of shame. Funny thing is yesterday on facebook she posted a meme/bumper sticker thing that said "FLIRT SHAMELESSLY. GET FREE DRINKS."
do something cheap/fun/original. Something where it is easy to share the cost of the date, and it might cost each one of you 20$. Very easy.
NO MOVIES, TV, NOTHING WHERE YOU ARE PAYING ATTENTION TO SOMETHING ELSE. A first date is to figure out where it can go from there. You can't do that by staring at a television.
Movies/TV at the apartment can work if you are trying to get the cuddle/makeout thing going, but you must exercise discretion (she might not be that kinda woman). Definitely do NOT go see a movie in Theaters on the 1st date though.