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It was a hard thing to do--to let my guard down and completely rely on someone--but it has really powerful and amazing results.
Amen, brother Zapp. I think we had been together for 4 or so years when Abra told me that she didn't really know much about me. She said I was super guarded when it comes to expressing emotions and such. I probably still am more than most people, but I think that I have improved some.
^This. Until you let someone else in, it's all surface. And if you open yourself up for someone, and they never do for you? It's never going to work. Lived through that one. Zapp and Dave have blown the lid of the "secret to relationship success" right here IMO.
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So, after zero activity on my online dating profile junk for a couple of months, I just got asked out on Match.com and OK Cupid. And neither of them appear have shirtless redneck photos! Excitement!
Yeah, DNA! My good friend, after a long period of.. promiscuity and such, finally decided this week that she wants a boyfriend (it wasn't even an option for her before) and joined match.com. I've been happily single, yet not opposed to the idea of a relationship, for a long, long time. Now she has me thinking...
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
^This. Until you let someone else in, it's all surface. And if you open yourself up for someone, and they never do for you? It's never going to work. Lived through that one. Zapp and Dave have blown the lid of the "secret to relationship success" right here IMO.
^This. Until you let someone else in, it's all surface. And if you open yourself up for someone, and they never do for you? It's never going to work. Lived through that one. Zapp and Dave have blown the lid of the "secret to relationship success" right here IMO.
So, after zero activity on my online dating profile junk for a couple of months, I just got asked out on Match.com and OK Cupid. And neither of them appear have shirtless redneck photos! Excitement!
Yeah, DNA! My good friend, after a long period of.. promiscuity and such, finally decided this week that she wants a boyfriend (it wasn't even an option for her before) and joined match.com. I've been happily single, yet not opposed to the idea of a relationship, for a long, long time. Now she has me thinking...
GOOD. You already know how I feel about your "I just hate dating" stance. Don't make me say it again, punk! I will. I'll say it in public in here in front of all of your friends. I'll do it.
My fwb is pregnant... We disagree on what we should do with it. How do I handle this
Ohh dear.. sounds like you guys need to have a serious sit down and discuss the options that you have. Make sure to Consider BOTH of your feelings, and BOTH of your opinions. It's a hard thing to do(decide whats best) but it needs done.. DEFINITELY don't wait to make a decision.
My fwb is pregnant... We disagree on what we should do with it. How do I handle this
Whoa, dude. That's some big news.
Bottom line: it's her body. What she does with it is, well...her decision. It might not make you happy, but the BEST THING you can do is to be supportive of whatever she decides. She has to live with the consequences, both physically and emotionally.
My fwb is pregnant... We disagree on what we should do with it. How do I handle this
One moment at a time.
Had very close friends in the exact same situation: I talked alot with both of them about what to do. I never once tried to sway them one way or the other. I just listened and offered support for whatever they decided to do.
They, like you and your's, ultimately had to make this decision on their own. It seemed every few hours their minds would change about what to do, that's why I said handle it one moment at a time. Go slow (you have some time, depends on how far along she is of course), and only listen to those closest to you. Family is where you should turn if you can.
My fwb is pregnant... We disagree on what we should do with it. How do I handle this
Ohh dear.. sounds like you guys need to have a serious sit down and discuss the options that you have. Make sure to Consider BOTH of your feelings, and BOTH of your opinions. It's a hard thing to do(decide whats best) but it needs done.. DEFINITELY don't wait to make a decision.
Well she wants an abortion and I was raised getting one was wrong except for a few scenarios and us being stupid was one of the ones I've always been against. I've got no problem with adoption but she flat out doesn't want it at all.
My fwb is pregnant... We disagree on what we should do with it. How do I handle this
Did you use any kind of protection/contraceptive?
Nope :/. And I know it's our fault and I had a bad feeling since that night. It felt way too good to not come with a price. Well I'm gonna be payin for a min.
If she doesn't want to carry the baby don't pressure her to (and vice versa, of course).
I still get upset from my unwanted baby drama if it's brought up, and my kiddo is six now. I had mental issues fo' sho'. Support her and whatever decision she may or may not make. Giving birth/having an abortion/whatever by yourself is the shittiest feeling I have ever felt (mine was the former, but I'm sure the later is just as bad or worse) and the feelings still come back so quickly after all this time. So, uh, basically just be there for her.
If she doesn't want to carry the baby don't pressure her to (and vice versa, of course).
I still get upset from my unwanted baby drama if it's brought up, and my kiddo is six now. I had mental issues fo' sho'. Support her and whatever decision she may or may not make. Giving birth/having an abortion/whatever by yourself is the shittiest feeling I have ever felt (mine was the former, but I'm sure the later is just as bad or worse) and the feelings still come back so quickly after all this time. So, uh, basically just be there for her.
I'm gonna be there for her no matter what we decide. I love this girl with all my heart and I'd never let her go through something like this on her own. But I'm so adimently against it and shes determined to not have it and I know if she doesn't want it she won't have it. Oh and she wants me to pay for it :/
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
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(p.s. don't let the dr who avatar fool you, i'm %100 girl. hahahahah)
oh my goshh!! I'm sorry! I did put "he" didn't I? I'm so unobservant.. wait- unobservant? nonobservant.. inobservant? lol, I don't observe things very well.
AG: I'm too much of an jerkstore to give my honest opinion on this matter. I will say though, just be there for her and be supportive and what all the ladies above here said. It's the best situation out there.
I know of a guy who got a girl preggo. She didn't want the kid, he did. Big fight ensued, ended up in court. He ended up keeping her from getting an abortion and she ended up winning the daughter just to spite him. Or the mother kidnapped her, I forget what. Maybe it was both. Regardless, it was an ugly situation for a while there.
Bonnie: I think it was Kate. Blonde with darker roots, was sitting next to me by the end of the night. On the quieter side. There was another one who was single and decent, but Kate IIRC (please post pics k thx bye) was drawing all my attention that night.
Not that this really matters, as things are better between me and RI Gal.
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If she doesn't want to carry the baby don't pressure her to (and vice versa, of course).
I still get upset from my unwanted baby drama if it's brought up, and my kiddo is six now. I had mental issues fo' sho'. Support her and whatever decision she may or may not make. Giving birth/having an abortion/whatever by yourself is the shittiest feeling I have ever felt (mine was the former, but I'm sure the later is just as bad or worse) and the feelings still come back so quickly after all this time. So, uh, basically just be there for her.
I'm gonna be there for her no matter what we decide. I love this girl with all my heart and I'd never let her go through something like this on her own. But I'm so adimently against it and shes determined to not have it and I know if she doesn't want it she won't have it. Oh and she wants me to pay for it :/
I can't imagine being in this situation. I am prochoice because it is a female's body. To carry the baby and then nurse and care for the child is a huge burden but also a joy as well. She will have to be supported physically, financially, and emotionally if she decides to have the baby for a long time. The same goes for if she has an abortion. I have someone close to me who decided to have one and 20 years later she is still feeling horrible guilt and depression over it. I could never have an abortion especially after having children, for myself. This is, for the most part, very out of your hands. You can give her the reasons you want her to continue the pregnancy and ways in which you will support her but basically it's not up to you. Sorry you are dealing with his very tough issue.
Post by Adultishgambino on Apr 15, 2012 16:39:18 GMT -5
She was in a car accident today. Can y'all plz pray for her, her mom, and our unborn child. I won't be on for awhile. Gonna go help take care of her. Y'all take it easy and if I don't get back on b4 I'll c y'all at the farm
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but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal. 
I will. I'll say it in public in here in front of all of your friends. I'll do it.
