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So back in high school i was in a relationship. Ended up lasting 5 years, up until last year actually. She broke up with me once, then we got back together, and last year i broke up with her. She wasn't too happy about that. But recently i think she is somewhat getting over it. There is a lot more to it, but thats a summary.
Yesterday as i walking to my one class, i see her walking the other direction. Somewhat awkward banter back and forth (fairly friendly). But then as i was walking away i realized we had just basically talked about me, and i felt bad about it because i think she might have thought i was showing off (talked about job title and traveling and junk). Don't know why i felt bad, but thats just me.
Anyway, i think because we were together for so long it kind of screwed me up with meeting new girls. It's not that i can't talk to girls or haven't been with anyone since then, i just haven't been in a relationship. It's annoying because i like being in one/know I am awesome at being in one, and now like most people probably realize when they're single, all of my friends are in one.
I want to think it is because I was in a good relationship for sooo long, that i know what that feeling is like, and i haven't really experienced it with any girls i've been with since then.
I met one girl that i had the STRONGEST connection with, it was insane. Met her on a business internship conference strangely, unfortunately she lives in Florida and i in jersey. She came up to my college last semester and it was awesome, highlight of the entire semester. Unfortunately she doesn't really believe in long distance and i don't blame her, so we kind of just are staying friends and letting whatever happens happen. But damn i wish she wanted to be more.
Anyway, i feel like this whole girl thing has been kind of bumming me out recently, mainly because if i lived in florida it would be different, but whatever, thought i'd rant for a little.
Hit the wrong button. My point is, if it is meant to be, you will know. Don't let it drift away if you want to make it work, but give the relationship the space it needs to grow.
My husband has no desire to go to Bonnaroo. But he encourages and facilitates my participation. He even packs my car. That's so he has 4 days to himself to eat Krystal's and play on the computer.
My husband has no desire to go to Bonnaroo. But he encourages and facilitates my participation. He even packs my car. That's so he has 4 days to himself to eat Krystal's and play on the computer.
Nice, that would be better than her coming. That way I can still go buck wild and corn out.
So back in high school i was in a relationship. Ended up lasting 5 years, up until last year actually. She broke up with me once, then we got back together, and last year i broke up with her. She wasn't too happy about that. But recently i think she is somewhat getting over it. There is a lot more to it, but thats a summary.
Yesterday as i walking to my one class, i see her walking the other direction. Somewhat awkward banter back and forth (fairly friendly). But then as i was walking away i realized we had just basically talked about me, and i felt bad about it because i think she might have thought i was showing off (talked about job title and traveling and junk). Don't know why i felt bad, but thats just me.
Anyway, i think because we were together for so long it kind of screwed me up with meeting new girls. It's not that i can't talk to girls or haven't been with anyone since then, i just haven't been in a relationship. It's annoying because i like being in one/know I am awesome at being in one, and now like most people probably realize when they're single, all of my friends are in one.
I want to think it is because I was in a good relationship for sooo long, that i know what that feeling is like, and i haven't really experienced it with any girls i've been with since then.
I met one girl that i had the STRONGEST connection with, it was insane. Met her on a business internship conference strangely, unfortunately she lives in Florida and i in jersey. She came up to my college last semester and it was awesome, highlight of the entire semester. Unfortunately she doesn't really believe in long distance and i don't blame her, so we kind of just are staying friends and letting whatever happens happen. But damn i wish she wanted to be more.
Anyway, i feel like this whole girl thing has been kind of bumming me out recently, mainly because if i lived in florida it would be different, but whatever, thought i'd rant for a little.
Hit the wrong button. My point is, if it is meant to be, you will know. Don't let it drift away if you want to make it work, but give the relationship the space it needs to grow.
Yeah i know. I mean we still talk alot. It's weird though because sometimes this chick is real flirty and then others time just short. She's invited me down to florida but work has been preventing that so far.
But yeah i'm not a big religious guy, but i do think the universe provides what we need. So i figure it'll happen when it happens and i'll hopefully recognize it.
Been frustrating living at home though because my freaking parents are used to me being in a relationship and just keep bringing it up. They honestly think they should be setting something up for me. Like seriously?!?!?!
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
Post by cwatudidthere on Mar 23, 2012 13:54:54 GMT -5
I wouldn't mind dating someone who didn't want to go to roo (Although why the hell wouldn't you?!) as long as she didn't become bored of me regaling her with tales of my experience when I got back, or as long as she didn't make me feel bad about having fun without her. (Definitely dated someone like the latter there)
Post by dreamingtree on Mar 23, 2012 13:59:23 GMT -5
My hubby has been to Roo with me twice and he was pretty miserable most of the time (he hates the crowds and the heat), so I am fine with going with my girl friends and telling him all about it later. He is in the entertainment industry and although he loves music, he is very jaded and doesn't really love seeing bands live, because all he does is look at it from the sound side of things and sometimes the sound at Roo isn't pretty......
This is not only the most tragic thing you could hear from an otherwise interesting person, but something I just don't get... I seem to chat with a lot of these people... THIS kind of exchange is a dealbreaker for me...
Me: What kind of music are you into? Guy: Rock, classical, techno. Me: Right on. What are some of your favorite artists? Guy: I don't know. I don't know bands. Me: ...Songs? Guy: I'm not good with names but if I heard it I'd like it.
Or even worse
Me: What are you into for music? Guy: Everything. Me: Right on! What do you like the best? Guy: All of it. Me: ...What do you hate? Guy: Country.
PLEASE CARE ABOUT MUSIC EVEN IN A NEGATIVE FASHION!! Even if you hate a particular band that's better than not caring at all... just can't wrap my head around it... it'd be like dating an alien.
Post by sleepyjean on Mar 23, 2012 17:08:34 GMT -5
I wish I had a recent relationship to whine about but I haven't dated anyone for...6 years? Ugh, that's depressing. The last guy I dated I ended up dumping then going back to later only to be dumped for a good friend of mine. Those two are now married and we're all still friends but sometimes I don't even know how I've managed that because it was/is a really weird situation.
I wish I had a recent relationship to whine about but I haven't dated anyone for...6 years? Ugh, that's depressing. The last guy I dated I ended up dumping then going back to later only to be dumped for a good friend of mine. Those two are now married and we're all still friends but sometimes I don't even know how I've managed that because it was/is a really weird situation.
I was dating a girl a lonnnnnnng time ago who dumped me for one of my best friends. I didn't sweat it. Their oldest son is my godson. True story.
My boyfriend before the one that married my friend said I wasn't "Christian enough" because I was a Catholic. He also told me I was going to hell just because I was Catholic.
Glad this thread opened up, I guess I just haven't been paying much attention. Gotta be better about that.
I have been pretty much single since 2006, and have a very active dating/sex life, but only really felt something solid for 3 girls in that time. 1 was batshyt crazy, 1 dumped me for a better guy for her (no kids, her age - 28 - never married) and 1 went back to her ex. Other than that, I have made TONS of good friends with women I have either dated and more than likely slept with at some point.
I don't have much to whine about either, and any angst that comes my way I deserve, as I am seeing a married woman.
Im not really sure what is better. Waiting for 'it' to happen, or making it happen. I see plusses and minuses in both.
My boyfriend before the one that married my friend said I wasn't "Christian enough" because I was a Catholic. He also told me I was going to hell just because I was Catholic.
Yeah...I don't have much luck, haha.
As a fellow catholic, that's real disappointing news for me. Damn, I really don't want to go to hell.
My boyfriend before the one that married my friend said I wasn't "Christian enough" because I was a Catholic. He also told me I was going to hell just because I was Catholic.
Heck, my grandfather told me (I guess I would have been around 10) that I was going to hell because I wasn't Church of Christ....whew, pressure is off....party on....
Idiots come in all shapes, colors, ages, and religions!
My boyfriend before the one that married my friend said I wasn't "Christian enough" because I was a Catholic. He also told me I was going to hell just because I was Catholic.
Heck, my grandfather told me (I guess I would have been around 10) that I was going to hell because I wasn't Church of Christ....whew, pressure is off....party on....
Idiots come in all shapes, colors, ages, and religions!
Happy roo
Didn't think of it that way. Time to put the Roman back in Roman Catholic. Roman orgies for everyone this roo!
My boyfriend before the one that married my friend said I wasn't "Christian enough" because I was a Catholic. He also told me I was going to hell just because I was Catholic.
Yeah...I don't have much luck, haha.
As a fellow catholic, that's real disappointing news for me. Damn, I really don't want to go to hell.
Sometimes I feel like the fundamentalist Christians just don't understand what Catholicism is and they just don't care to educate themselves even the tiniest bit.
But really, the way I see it, if I'm already damned to hell because I'm Catholic, at least nothing else I could do could really make it all that much worse! So like rvicke said, party on!
In my mind, its pretty simple. Be a good person and believe in a higher power - you go to the right place. Be a shyttie person and live with no regard for the universe, burn.
If there is an afterlife, that is.
Simple. No reason to kill hundreds of millions of people over how to warship.
In my mind, its pretty simple. Be a good person and believe in a higher power - you go to the right place. Be a shyttie person and live with no regard for the universe, burn.
If there is an afterlife, that is.
Simple. No reason to kill hundreds of millions of people over how to warship.
Me. We were engaged and he said he didn't think it was God's plan for us to get married. We had the most amazing sex...but he thought he should marry a virgin.?
He did. And I married a Muslim. (not devout) Funny how things turn out.
but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal. 
