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I have a date in 90 minutes and I can't stop farting.
Please don't lock this thread, mods! I have zero prospects but I lurk a lot and live vicariously through your experiences - be they butterflies, obsessions or pre-date farts.
Went on a date today with a girl I met on Tinder - it went very well. She's been to several Bonnaroos as well, so we spent the majority of our time talking about music and fests and such; it was pretty great to have substantive music-based conversation, because I don't get too much of that outside of Inforoo. She also has a deep understanding of the fact that pizza = love, so I don't anticipate any religious incompatibility issues, which is important.
We met up at a Barnes & Noble in Philly, and upon leaving I realized that in my infinite lack of observational skills, I neglected to notice that there was no parking after 3:30 in the space in which I was parked. So my jawn got towed. She walked with me to the Parking Authority office so I could pay my towing fee before she Ubered off to meet with her friends for happy hour. Even with the annoying (and expensive) car debacle, overall I still had a very pleasant afternoon. She's cute and easy to talk to, and I plan on seeing her again soon. I admittedly didn't feel any sparky butterflies, but I haven't really felt them for anyone in years so I've kinda stopped taking stock in that. I've just considered that to be a symptom of getting older, though the Elders have told me that sometimes those things take time to develop. We will see.
Went on a date today with a girl I met on Tinder - it went very well. She's been to several Bonnaroos as well, so we spent the majority of our time talking about music and fests and such; it was pretty great to have substantive music-based conversation, because I don't get too much of that outside of Inforoo. She also has a deep understanding of the fact that pizza = love, so I don't anticipate any religious incompatibility issues, which is important.
We met up at a Barnes & Noble in Philly, and upon leaving I realized that in my infinite lack of observational skills, I neglected to notice that there was no parking after 3:30 in the space in which I was parked. So my jawn got towed. She walked with me to the Parking Authority office so I could pay my towing fee before she Ubered off to meet with her friends for happy hour. Even with the annoying (and expensive) car debacle, overall I still had a very pleasant afternoon. She's cute and easy to talk to, and I plan on seeing her again soon. I admittedly didn't feel any sparky butterflies, but I haven't really felt them for anyone in years so I've kinda stopped taking stock in that. I've just considered that to be a symptom of getting older, though the Elders have told me that sometimes those things take time to develop. We will see.
Excellent that it went well. I was planning on asking about it tonight.
Re: the sparks, it really doesn't happen instantly all the time. They might show up soon. Even if they don't, it's always nice to have another person around who you enjoy spending time with even it's just a friendship.
P.S. Now that I've been nice, I have to say I'm personally excited that someone else may have to listen to your terrible opinions on music aside from us.
Went on a date today with a girl I met on Tinder - it went very well. She's been to several Bonnaroos as well, so we spent the majority of our time talking about music and fests and such; it was pretty great to have substantive music-based conversation, because I don't get too much of that outside of Inforoo. She also has a deep understanding of the fact that pizza = love, so I don't anticipate any religious incompatibility issues, which is important.
We met up at a Barnes & Noble in Philly, and upon leaving I realized that in my infinite lack of observational skills, I neglected to notice that there was no parking after 3:30 in the space in which I was parked. So my jawn got towed. She walked with me to the Parking Authority office so I could pay my towing fee before she Ubered off to meet with her friends for happy hour. Even with the annoying (and expensive) car debacle, overall I still had a very pleasant afternoon. She's cute and easy to talk to, and I plan on seeing her again soon. I admittedly didn't feel any sparky butterflies, but I haven't really felt them for anyone in years so I've kinda stopped taking stock in that. I've just considered that to be a symptom of getting older, though the Elders have told me that sometimes those things take time to develop. We will see.
Excellent that it went well. I was planning on asking about it tonight.
Re: the sparks, it really doesn't happen instantly all the time. They might show up soon. Even if they don't, it's always nice to have another person around who you enjoy spending time with even it's just a friendship.
P.S. Now that I've been nice, I have to say I'm personally excited that someone else may have to listen to your terrible opinions on music aside from us.
Yeah, she's definitely someone that I could see myself being friends with regardless of how things turn out.
And you'll be happy to hear that her favorite band is Mumford & Sons, which bodes well for us. And for you, apparently.
Excellent that it went well. I was planning on asking about it tonight.
Re: the sparks, it really doesn't happen instantly all the time. They might show up soon. Even if they don't, it's always nice to have another person around who you enjoy spending time with even it's just a friendship.
P.S. Now that I've been nice, I have to say I'm personally excited that someone else may have to listen to your terrible opinions on music aside from us.
Yeah, she's definitely someone that I could see myself being friends with regardless of how things turn out.
And you'll be happy to hear that her favorite band is Mumford & Sons, which bodes well for us. And for you, apparently.
Haha. Fun fact: the lady went to bed early every night at Bonnaroo last year except for the night Mumfords played.
I admittedly didn't feel any sparky butterflies, but I haven't really felt them for anyone in years so I've kinda stopped taking stock in that. I've just considered that to be a symptom of getting older, though the Elders have told me that sometimes those things take time to develop. We will see.
The whole butterflies/obsessing thing isn't necessarily a good thing. Speaking from my own experiences, often times I would catch the feels based on her physical appearance, or a false interpretation of her personality based on what I wanted it to be rather than what it actually was.
She's cute and easy to talk to, and I plan on seeing her again soon. I admittedly didn't feel any sparky butterflies, but I haven't really felt them for anyone in years so I've kinda stopped taking stock in that. I've just considered that to be a symptom of getting older, though the Elders have told me that sometimes those things take time to develop. We will see.
I get that immediate intense butterflies-in-stomach attraction very rarely; with two past lovers, those quick and overwhelming butterflies turned into real relationships and increased more and more rather than losing spark. One ended poorly, the other didn't. A few of the other butterfly-people (lol, new term!) didn't end up turning into anything serious at all, though. It definitely doesn't need to be a precursor to a healthy, fun relationship - especially if you aren't looking for your ~soulmate~ ( or whatever) right now.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Or she could have kept the conversation light because she was focusing on the final stages of construction of her shrine to you. Either one.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Or she could have kept the conversation light because she was focusing on the final stages of construction of her shrine to you. Either one.
I mean, that generally IS the natural reaction to meeting me, so it could go either way really.
Post by PrometheYeezus on Mar 29, 2016 8:08:06 GMT -5
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
So you soberly took advantage of your drunk friend even after explicitly saying that you wouldn't? That's beyond disgusting and you don't deserve her friendship.
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
LOL I've popped a boner at inopportune times before, but never had someone catch me on it. That's terrible. To me, your mistake was committing to the Archer episodes. You just have to avoid the situation altogether. Once you were in bed it was over.
Are you complaining about the no cuddling? That's fantastic imo. Seems like she was holding up to her end of it not meaning shit.
If I were you, I would just carry on as if nothing happened. And if it remains awkward, just recommend to her that you don't do it again.
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
So you soberly took advantage of your drunk friend even after explicitly saying that you wouldn't? That's beyond disgusting and you don't deserve her friendship.
Woah woah woah, I did no such thing. That's quite the assumption to make. I would never do that. She wasn't blackout, just a little tipsy and I don't let my friends drive drunk so I told her to sleep over like not with me but either in the guestroom or in my bed and I'll take the guest room or couch whichever she chose. I even asked her before we did anything as to whether or not she was too drunk because I don't do that.
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
LOL I've popped a boner at inopportune times before, but never had someone catch me on it. That's terrible. To me, your mistake was committing to the Archer episodes. You just have to avoid the situation altogether. Once you were in bed it was over.
Are you complaining about the no cuddling? That's fantastic imo. Seems like she was holding up to her end of it not meaning shit.
If I were you, I would just carry on as if nothing happened. And if it remains awkward, just recommend to her that you don't do it again.
I like a little bit of pillow talk lying in the euphoria of busting my nut is all. The Archer episodes were definitely the mistake, but I wasn't tired, and when we were in my room she did one of those testing the beds out moves, so she was busting the moves on me. The thing is I'm trying to carry on as if nothing happened, shes being weird via text. We had plans to watch Archer Season 6 this saturday as well as the next episode, if she declines to that then I'll know shit is up. Thanks for the advice brah
So I hooked up with my good friend who was an ex from like 6 years ago. We've become really good friends as of late and I am obviously still attracted to her, as she is to me, but having her as a friend and someone to talk to has been the best part of my relationship with her. Me, her and some of my friends all decided to go to a devils game St. Paddys day, and it got to the point where there was a lot of sexual tension, and shes fresh out of a relationship, so I talked to her about it while she drove to drop me off. I was straight forward with her, asking her if she just wanted to be friends or if she wanted to hook up with me, because our interactions were way past "just friends" shiet. We agreed we would back off one another because shes got some shit to figure out since she bounces from relationship to relationship and has never really had time alone to get to know herself or what she wants.
So this weekend I hit her up to go out and watch some of march madness games with me and a buddy. And we're all hanging out having a blast and a good laugh about shiet. Me and her are not being obvious with flirtatiousness but definitely some undertones are there. So after a couple hours we decide to leave that bar and hit up another, we play darts, and we're in that "in-your-face" shit talking banter because we're competitive as shiet. Still nothing drastic. We hit up Red Tower after which is a diner that serves shots of Henny after 2 AM. So my friend and her get some more dranks and I just continue to be the responsible DD that I always am. That ends, we drop my buddy off, I tell her she probably shouldn't drive home, if she wants she can stay in my guest room or my bed and I'll sleep elsewhere. I'm trying to be straight-forward with her that we're not hooking up, and that I'm only doing this for her safety. We get to my house, she says she aint tired, neither am I so I say lets catch up on Archer episodes since the new seasons about to start, so we watch that in my bed. Problem is, I'm a dude and when girl is next to me in bed, boner comes out. I try and do the two finger-tuck, but she asks me what I'm doing, and then some shit happened. Before anything happened, I asked her if we'd still be friends after, to which she said ye, so we did the do. Bitch wouldn't even cuddle with me after like what? So she wakes up early it's easter and shes gotta be with the fam, so she leaves.
She's acting weird as shiet right now though, and I'm worried as shiet that shes not gonna be my friend anymore after this. She's too cool of a person to not have my life even if just as platonic friends. Shiet sucks.
Sounds like you want to get back together with her, and are afraid of losing her completely. You're not really doing yourself a favor by leaving yourself in limbo.
The good news is, she at least is OK with you as a fuck buddy. The bad news it's on you to ask her what she wants between you two. Even if you get an answer you don't like, you hit a point where you should do something to clarify.
So you soberly took advantage of your drunk friend even after explicitly saying that you wouldn't? That's beyond disgusting and you don't deserve her friendship.
Woah woah woah, I did no such thing. That's quite the assumption to make. I would never do that. She wasn't blackout, just a little tipsy and I don't let my friends drive drunk so I told her to sleep over like not with me but either in the guestroom or in my bed and I'll take the guest room or couch whichever she chose. I even asked her before we did anything as to whether or not she was too drunk because I don't do that.
I think the bigger point is that you said that you wouldn't hook up with her and then did when the opportunity presented itself. Drunk or not. You said one thing then did the opposite.
Sounds like you want to get back together with her, and are afraid of losing her completely. You're not really doing yourself a favor by leaving yourself in limbo.
The good news is, she at least is OK with you as a fuck buddy. The bad news it's on you to ask her what she wants between you two. Even if you get an answer you don't like, you hit a point where you should do something to clarify.
Meh, I don't want to get back together with her, she just got out of a relationship and needs to work on herself. We definitely agreed to being just fuck-buddies for the short moment we talked after it happened. I might in the future want to get back together with her like for real depending on certain circumstances. She's a great girl who likes things straight forward so having that conversation shouldn't be difficult. We just usually send random texts to eachother about funny shit thats happening or jokes throughout the day and she aint doing none of that.
Woah woah woah, I did no such thing. That's quite the assumption to make. I would never do that. She wasn't blackout, just a little tipsy and I don't let my friends drive drunk so I told her to sleep over like not with me but either in the guestroom or in my bed and I'll take the guest room or couch whichever she chose. I even asked her before we did anything as to whether or not she was too drunk because I don't do that.
I think the bigger point is that you said that you wouldn't hook up with her and then did when the opportunity presented itself. Drunk or not. You said one thing then did the opposite.
I agree, that's why I was kinda beating myself up over it. I'm not proud of the fact that we hooked up, but I'm also not regretting it because it was something we both wanted in the moment and it was a lot of fucking fun. Heck maybe nothing will change about it and we'll still continue being friends and might even get to have some fun casual hookups. I'll know more as the week goes by. I'm only sharing it on here because she doesn't want me to share it with any of our mutual friends and it helps me to talk about these things. I honestly feel better already after posting it.
I think the bigger point is that you said that you wouldn't hook up with her and then did when the opportunity presented itself. Drunk or not. You said one thing then did the opposite.
I agree, that's why I was kinda beating myself up over it. I'm not proud of the fact that we hooked up, but I'm also not regretting it because it was something we both wanted in the moment and it was a lot of fucking fun. Heck maybe nothing will change about it and we'll still continue being friends and might even get to have some fun casual hookups. I'll know more as the week goes by. I'm only sharing it on here because she doesn't want me to share it with any of our mutual friends and it helps me to talk about these things. I honestly feel better already after posting it.
i don't think it's anything to beat yourself up too badly over. Definitely learn and grow from it.
Give her a day or so. If she's in a weird head space already, she's probably feeling pretty bad too. If I were her, seeing a text or receiving a phone call from you saying you were feeling pretty similarly would go a long way. That's just me though. You know her and the situation a whole lot better.
So you soberly took advantage of your drunk friend even after explicitly saying that you wouldn't? That's beyond disgusting and you don't deserve her friendship.
Woah woah woah, I did no such thing. That's quite the assumption to make. I would never do that. She wasn't blackout, just a little tipsy and I don't let my friends drive drunk so I told her to sleep over like not with me but either in the guestroom or in my bed and I'll take the guest room or couch whichever she chose. I even asked her before we did anything as to whether or not she was too drunk because I don't do that.
Sorry, I've had a lot of caffeine this morning, so I prob overreacted. =P That was just how your story read.
