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I agree, that's why I was kinda beating myself up over it. I'm not proud of the fact that we hooked up, but I'm also not regretting it because it was something we both wanted in the moment and it was a lot of fucking fun. Heck maybe nothing will change about it and we'll still continue being friends and might even get to have some fun casual hookups. I'll know more as the week goes by. I'm only sharing it on here because she doesn't want me to share it with any of our mutual friends and it helps me to talk about these things. I honestly feel better already after posting it.
i don't think it's anything to beat yourself up too badly over. Definitely learn and grow from it.
Give her a day or so. If she's in a weird head space already, she's probably feeling pretty bad too. If I were her, seeing a text or receiving a phone call from you saying you were feeling pretty similarly would go a long way. That's just me though. You know her and the situation a whole lot better.
This is actually the best advice, you're right, thanks!
LOL I've popped a boner at inopportune times before, but never had someone catch me on it. That's terrible. To me, your mistake was committing to the Archer episodes. You just have to avoid the situation altogether. Once you were in bed it was over.
Are you complaining about the no cuddling? That's fantastic imo. Seems like she was holding up to her end of it not meaning shit.
If I were you, I would just carry on as if nothing happened. And if it remains awkward, just recommend to her that you don't do it again.
I like a little bit of pillow talk lying in the euphoria of busting my nut is all. The Archer episodes were definitely the mistake, but I wasn't tired, and when we were in my room she did one of those testing the beds out moves, so she was busting the moves on me. The thing is I'm trying to carry on as if nothing happened, shes being weird via text. We had plans to watch Archer Season 6 this saturday as well as the next episode, if she declines to that then I'll know shit is up. Thanks for the advice brah
I've moved on from telling girls things like, "I promise we won't hook up." Just take the attitude like, "I don't care about having sex with you. I never think about it, but I do like sex. If you get in bed with me late at night, there's no telling what I'll be down for. I also am not down for anything serious, so if any of this is a problem for you, stay very far away so we can just be friends."
Because you always knew deep down you weren't going to resist that shit in the moment.
I'd rather hear, "Don't flatter yourself. We were never going to have sex anyways." Than have shit be awkward with a good friend for some amount of time.
I like a little bit of pillow talk lying in the euphoria of busting my nut is all. The Archer episodes were definitely the mistake, but I wasn't tired, and when we were in my room she did one of those testing the beds out moves, so she was busting the moves on me. The thing is I'm trying to carry on as if nothing happened, shes being weird via text. We had plans to watch Archer Season 6 this saturday as well as the next episode, if she declines to that then I'll know shit is up. Thanks for the advice brah
I've moved on from telling girls things like, "I promise we won't hook up." Just take the attitude like, "I don't care about having sex with you. I never think about it, but I do like sex. If you get in bed with me late at night, there's no telling what I'll be down for. I also am not down for anything serious, so if any of this is a problem for you, stay very far away so we can just be friends."
Because you always knew deep down you weren't going to resist that shit in the moment.
I'd rather hear, "Don't flatter yourself. We were never going to have sex anyways." Than have shit be awkward with a good friend for some amount of time.
Not a bad way to go about it. That's honestly how I felt about it when we started watching Archer. It was like, "I didn't try for this, but I'm a dude and want it as bad as you do right now," and it probably would have been more awkward had it not happened come to think of it.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
It is a girl thing, seriously. I call all sorts of people "babe" - friends, lovers, even acquaintances who I don't know very well but have already established a comfortable, jokey vibe with.
Babe babe babe.
In fact, I'm pretty sure I've called youuuu babe before in chat or in a post here. I know, different context, but point still remains: it definitely can be used casually. I wouldn't sweat it.
EDIT: But it is also of course entirely possible that she does turn out to be a total clinger. And those are the worst
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Yeah, totally. I call all sorts of people babe, honey, sugar, hottie, hotstuff,etc. It doesn't mean I want to cling to you, fuck you or even see you romantically. It means I think that you are alright. Nothing more. Stop over thinking and things just move along naturally.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I call Angie sexier things all the time.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
Yeah, totally. I call all sorts of people babe, honey, sugar, hottie, hotstuff,etc. It doesn't mean I want to cling to you, fuck you or even see you romantically. It means I think that you are alright. Nothing more. Stop over thinking and things just move along naturally.
PrometheYeezus My advice is this: If you feel like she is acting weird on text, make sure that you also aren't acting weird. Are you sure that you're acting the same with her? Are you maybe talking to her more often now, or being more serious in your conversation? It's possible that she is afraid you are acting weird. If you haven't done anything or said anything out of the ordinary, then I would suggest either giving her a few days to process things and see if she starts a dialogue, or just be upfront and say "hey, you got a minute to talk about the other night?" I'm sure everything is going to be fine.
Jaz Someone calling you babe on text is not worth wondering about. Does she say anything else differently lately? Does she text more often or try to keep up the conversation when it's obviously not going anywhere at the moment? Is she trying to hang out with you often? Is she consistently asking you to come see her? "Babe" is nothing to think twice about
I had quite the interesting two weeks. As a few of you in the Church is Weird thread have seen, I was recently hanging out with a girl for a little under a month. We had a few significant differences of opinion on religion and kids, but 98% of the time we had a great time together. She was incredibly sweet and fun to be around. However, she didn't want to go past heavy petting and in general was a little too straight-laced for me. I could tell it wasn't a match, as badly as I wanted to able to adapt to be with her and as badly as she wanted me to magically become religious. I knew it was over when one night I was at a dj show and ended up going home with a 21 year old (I'm 31, so her being 21 was pretty cool). Obviously, I had to call things off at that point.
So I started hooking up with the 21 year old. It was purely a physical thing. This girl was aggressive sexually, though. I would always leave with bruises, cuts, and scrapes. Badges of honor.
On Friday, I went to a crawfish boil with a lot of my friends. It started at 2 pm, and many of us went to the bars afterwards. By 3 am, only myself and two of my closest friends (a married couple) were left awake in the house they are renovating. The plan was for us to sleep on air mattresses. I'm no idiot. The three of us have had sexual tension for months. This was a long time coming. There was only one air mattress in that house. After the last person left (at 3 am), we went upstairs and they asked me if I wanted to take a bath while they took a shower. You can see where this is going. I lounged in my hot bath facing directly into their open shower as they started making out, touching each other, and generally getting worked up. We dried off and all went to the room with the mattress (funny enough, it was the room their daughter will eventually live in). From there I had an amazing experience. It was totally one of those situations where the two guys give all attention to the girl, there was no male on male action. We've honestly acted completely normal around each other since. It may happen again in the future, but regardless I have some great memories.
And lastly, on Sunday, I went on a great first date with a new girl I met. We went out again on Monday, where things got pretty heated up in her car, and I'm seeing her again in a few hours. Not too shabby two weeks
I overthink things; point taken. I do actually know lots of people that use names like that for friends and acquaintances and such - I do it myself - I just wouldn't with someone I'm going on dates with. But that's me. I appreciate yallses input.
I overthink things; point taken. I do actually know lots of people that use names like that for friends and acquaintances and such - I do it myself - I just wouldn't with someone I'm going on dates with. But that's me. I appreciate yallses input.
You may be over thinking it, but I think that's a good point. If I'm "talking" to someone then I generally am very self aware of using terms like that so as not to give a wrong impression. However, she could sit be saying it to be cute and flirty. Not like overly serious. That's how I'd take it. She's flirting with you, not trying to be official, overly attached or anything like that.
I had quite the interesting two weeks. As a few of you in the Church is Weird thread have seen, I was recently hanging out with a girl for a little under a month. We had a few significant differences of opinion on religion and kids, but 98% of the time we had a great time together. She was incredibly sweet and fun to be around. However, she didn't want to go past heavy petting and in general was a little too straight-laced for me. I could tell it wasn't a match, as badly as I wanted to able to adapt to be with her and as badly as she wanted me to magically become religious. I knew it was over when one night I was at a dj show and ended up going home with a 21 year old (I'm 31, so her being 21 was pretty cool). Obviously, I had to call things off at that point.
So I started hooking up with the 21 year old. It was purely a physical thing. This girl was aggressive sexually, though. I would always leave with bruises, cuts, and scrapes. Badges of honor.
On Friday, I went to a crawfish boil with a lot of my friends. It started at 2 pm, and many of us went to the bars afterwards. By 3 am, only myself and two of my closest friends (a married couple) were left awake in the house they are renovating. The plan was for us to sleep on air mattresses. I'm no idiot. The three of us have had sexual tension for months. This was a long time coming. There was only one air mattress in that house. After the last person left (at 3 am), we went upstairs and they asked me if I wanted to take a bath while they took a shower. You can see where this is going. I lounged in my hot bath facing directly into their open shower as they started making out, touching each other, and generally getting worked up. We dried off and all went to the room with the mattress (funny enough, it was the room their daughter will eventually live in). From there I had an amazing experience. It was totally one of those situations where the two guys give all attention to the girl, there was no male on male action. We've honestly acted completely normal around each other since. It may happen again in the future, but regardless I have some great memories.
And lastly, on Sunday, I went on a great first date with a new girl I met. We went out again on Monday, where things got pretty heated up in her car, and I'm seeing her again in a few hours. Not too shabby two weeks
This thread is to discuss failing crushes and awkward dating. Way to come in here with your awesome sex life and make us all realize we've spent more hours alone on the Internet than with other people at night.
I had quite the interesting two weeks. As a few of you in the Church is Weird thread have seen, I was recently hanging out with a girl for a little under a month. We had a few significant differences of opinion on religion and kids, but 98% of the time we had a great time together. She was incredibly sweet and fun to be around. However, she didn't want to go past heavy petting and in general was a little too straight-laced for me. I could tell it wasn't a match, as badly as I wanted to able to adapt to be with her and as badly as she wanted me to magically become religious. I knew it was over when one night I was at a dj show and ended up going home with a 21 year old (I'm 31, so her being 21 was pretty cool). Obviously, I had to call things off at that point.
So I started hooking up with the 21 year old. It was purely a physical thing. This girl was aggressive sexually, though. I would always leave with bruises, cuts, and scrapes. Badges of honor.
On Friday, I went to a crawfish boil with a lot of my friends. It started at 2 pm, and many of us went to the bars afterwards. By 3 am, only myself and two of my closest friends (a married couple) were left awake in the house they are renovating. The plan was for us to sleep on air mattresses. I'm no idiot. The three of us have had sexual tension for months. This was a long time coming. There was only one air mattress in that house. After the last person left (at 3 am), we went upstairs and they asked me if I wanted to take a bath while they took a shower. You can see where this is going. I lounged in my hot bath facing directly into their open shower as they started making out, touching each other, and generally getting worked up. We dried off and all went to the room with the mattress (funny enough, it was the room their daughter will eventually live in). From there I had an amazing experience. It was totally one of those situations where the two guys give all attention to the girl, there was no male on male action. We've honestly acted completely normal around each other since. It may happen again in the future, but regardless I have some great memories.
And lastly, on Sunday, I went on a great first date with a new girl I met. We went out again on Monday, where things got pretty heated up in her car, and I'm seeing her again in a few hours. Not too shabby two weeks
This thread is to discuss failing crushes and awkward dating. Way to come in here with your awesome sex life and make us all realize we've spent more hours alone on the Internet than with other people at night.
I overthink things; point taken. I do actually know lots of people that use names like that for friends and acquaintances and such - I do it myself - I just wouldn't with someone I'm going on dates with. But that's me. I appreciate yallses input.
If I were in your shoes, and it was early on, I'd probably also notice the "babe" and at least think about it for a minute. But she was probably just being flirty. It's all good
I had quite the interesting two weeks. As a few of you in the Church is Weird thread have seen, I was recently hanging out with a girl for a little under a month. We had a few significant differences of opinion on religion and kids, but 98% of the time we had a great time together. She was incredibly sweet and fun to be around. However, she didn't want to go past heavy petting and in general was a little too straight-laced for me. I could tell it wasn't a match, as badly as I wanted to able to adapt to be with her and as badly as she wanted me to magically become religious. I knew it was over when one night I was at a dj show and ended up going home with a 21 year old (I'm 31, so her being 21 was pretty cool). Obviously, I had to call things off at that point.
So I started hooking up with the 21 year old. It was purely a physical thing. This girl was aggressive sexually, though. I would always leave with bruises, cuts, and scrapes. Badges of honor.
On Friday, I went to a crawfish boil with a lot of my friends. It started at 2 pm, and many of us went to the bars afterwards. By 3 am, only myself and two of my closest friends (a married couple) were left awake in the house they are renovating. The plan was for us to sleep on air mattresses. I'm no idiot. The three of us have had sexual tension for months. This was a long time coming. There was only one air mattress in that house. After the last person left (at 3 am), we went upstairs and they asked me if I wanted to take a bath while they took a shower. You can see where this is going. I lounged in my hot bath facing directly into their open shower as they started making out, touching each other, and generally getting worked up. We dried off and all went to the room with the mattress (funny enough, it was the room their daughter will eventually live in). From there I had an amazing experience. It was totally one of those situations where the two guys give all attention to the girl, there was no male on male action. We've honestly acted completely normal around each other since. It may happen again in the future, but regardless I have some great memories.
And lastly, on Sunday, I went on a great first date with a new girl I met. We went out again on Monday, where things got pretty heated up in her car, and I'm seeing her again in a few hours. Not too shabby two weeks
This thread is to discuss failing crushes and awkward dating. Way to come in here with your awesome sex life and make us all realize we've spent more hours alone on the Internet than with other people at night.
I feel like if you found some of the things I posted in here months ago, you'd see a gradual improvement in my love life since last year. This time last year I had decided it was for real time to move on with my life and get over my ex wife (still married but separated at the time).
I still wish that I could find someone I connect with to settle down, but I'm trying to enjoy things along the way.
Also, the deal was sealed tonight with the new girl in case anyone was wondering.
This thread is to discuss failing crushes and awkward dating. Way to come in here with your awesome sex life and make us all realize we've spent more hours alone on the Internet than with other people at night.
I feel like if you found some of the things I posted in here months ago, you'd see a gradual improvement in my love life since last year. This time last year I had decided it was for real time to move on with my life and get over my ex wife (still married but separated at the time).
I still wish that I could find someone I connect with to settle down, but I'm trying to enjoy things along the way.
Also, the deal was sealed tonight with the new girl in case anyone was wondering.
I vaguely recall that. Enjoy yourself. Practice safe sex. Keep making us jealous. Just stop reminding me how much I miss sex.
Anyone want to share about some terrible sex they've had lately? Get this thing back on track?
(I kid, jak, I'm really happy for you. I was in a long term relationship, 7 years- but never married, and when it was FINALLY over I had my fun. It's freeing and you seem right on track. Just practice safe sex and don't get trick bagged!)
I feel like if you found some of the things I posted in here months ago, you'd see a gradual improvement in my love life since last year. This time last year I had decided it was for real time to move on with my life and get over my ex wife (still married but separated at the time).
I still wish that I could find someone I connect with to settle down, but I'm trying to enjoy things along the way.
Also, the deal was sealed tonight with the new girl in case anyone was wondering.
I vaguely recall that. Enjoy yourself. Practice safe sex. Keep making us jealous. Just stop reminding me how much I miss sex.
Anyone want to share about some terrible sex they've had lately? Get this thing back on track?
(I kid, jak, I'm really happy for you. I was in a long term relationship, 7 years- but never married, and when it was FINALLY over I had my fun. It's freeing and you seem right on track. Just practice safe sex and don't get trick bagged!)
Rummy 500 gets the assist tonight. She helped me edit my OKC profile months back
I vaguely recall that. Enjoy yourself. Practice safe sex. Keep making us jealous. Just stop reminding me how much I miss sex.
Anyone want to share about some terrible sex they've had lately? Get this thing back on track?
(I kid, jak, I'm really happy for you. I was in a long term relationship, 7 years- but never married, and when it was FINALLY over I had my fun. It's freeing and you seem right on track. Just practice safe sex and don't get trick bagged!)
@rummy gets the assist tonight. She helped me edit my OKC profile months back
Yaaaaaas. So glad it helped ya. Thanks for the shouts
Also ummm. Threesomes/group sex are gross. I don't approve of your behavior. If you're looking for references in regards to my piousness, I recommend you turn to g a b f r a b
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
so i just recently moved to st. louis and even tho it's a pretty small city, it's worlds better than the isolated towns of ~20,000 that i've lived in the entire 26 years of my life so far.
i've been on my tinder and okcupid grind but have pretty much only been offered "incredible blowjobs" by transgenders and bi couples. not really my thing, but it doesn't really matter because somehow i've been laid twice in the same number of weeks irl, AND i have a double date set for sunday with my best bud and his wife, who works at hooters, and one of her coworkers. i don't know how this is happening or if i've always had some latent mad game which is suddenly manifesting, but i'm gonna ride it out and see where it goes.
i'm not trying to brag. i've had three major relationships in my super long and experienced life which have all ended absolutely horribly each in their own unique ways. it's opened a whole can of self esteem issues and other problems and until just recently had started to really weigh me down.
so i guess the point of all this is for anyone else suffering out there... i know it fucking sucks and can be really, REALLY hard sometimes but jus' keep on doin' yo thang and someone will take notice. that kind of attention is what you want imo and will be an excellent platform for whatever comes next. your day will come.
I had quite the interesting two weeks. As a few of you in the Church is Weird thread have seen, I was recently hanging out with a girl for a little under a month. We had a few significant differences of opinion on religion and kids, but 98% of the time we had a great time together. She was incredibly sweet and fun to be around. However, she didn't want to go past heavy petting and in general was a little too straight-laced for me. I could tell it wasn't a match, as badly as I wanted to able to adapt to be with her and as badly as she wanted me to magically become religious. I knew it was over when one night I was at a dj show and ended up going home with a 21 year old (I'm 31, so her being 21 was pretty cool). Obviously, I had to call things off at that point.
So I started hooking up with the 21 year old. It was purely a physical thing. This girl was aggressive sexually, though. I would always leave with bruises, cuts, and scrapes. Badges of honor.
On Friday, I went to a crawfish boil with a lot of my friends. It started at 2 pm, and many of us went to the bars afterwards. By 3 am, only myself and two of my closest friends (a married couple) were left awake in the house they are renovating. The plan was for us to sleep on air mattresses. I'm no idiot. The three of us have had sexual tension for months. This was a long time coming. There was only one air mattress in that house. After the last person left (at 3 am), we went upstairs and they asked me if I wanted to take a bath while they took a shower. You can see where this is going. I lounged in my hot bath facing directly into their open shower as they started making out, touching each other, and generally getting worked up. We dried off and all went to the room with the mattress (funny enough, it was the room their daughter will eventually live in). From there I had an amazing experience. It was totally one of those situations where the two guys give all attention to the girl, there was no male on male action. We've honestly acted completely normal around each other since. It may happen again in the future, but regardless I have some great memories.
And lastly, on Sunday, I went on a great first date with a new girl I met. We went out again on Monday, where things got pretty heated up in her car, and I'm seeing her again in a few hours. Not too shabby two weeks
and make us all realize we've spent more hours alone on the Internet than with other people at night.
Wow....that hit really close to home...oh well no shame. The internet is a wonderful place
I miss my soulmate that I met at Buku Fest....she was perfect. She lives in Louisiana so it's not like anything was ever going to happen. But damn I'd love to be in a relationship with someone like her. This OutKast song pretty much sums it up
I miss my soulmate that I met at Buku Fest....she was perfect. She lives in Louisiana so it's not like anything was ever going to happen. But damn I'd love to be in a relationship with someone like her. This OutKast song pretty much sums it up
Okay so I've still been talking to the lady I mentioned in my previous post; we've still only seen each other the one time and have been talking overall for about two weeks. The convo hasn't been incredibly deep. Last night I said goodnight and she hit me back with "Thanks babe you too".
Babe.
Babe.
Babe.
I have a tendency to attract women who get way too attached too quickly, so now I'm trying to convince myself that "babe" is just a casual thing that some people say and it's not indicative of anything else. That's possible, right?
I miss my soulmate that I met at Buku Fest....she was perfect. She lives in Louisiana so it's not like anything was ever going to happen. But damn I'd love to be in a relationship with someone like her. This OutKast song pretty much sums it up
I miss my soulmate that I met at Buku Fest....she was perfect. She lives in Louisiana so it's not like anything was ever going to happen. But damn I'd love to be in a relationship with someone like her. This OutKast song pretty much sums it up
