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Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
prediction: this is gonna be an easy "yeah of course" for most men (not all, but most) and a lot more complicated to determine answer for most female identifying folks
not because men are more "sex-minded" or anything like that. it is just that, candidly speaking, a lot of dudes' worst sexual encounter was really bad/awkward sex or maybe with someone they weren't at all attracted to...whereas a lot of women's worst is like, traumatizing
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
It's borderline hypocritical, because some things like herpes or hpv are so freaking common that it's like if you're really that worried about it you probably shouldn't even engage.
With HPV 80% of sexually active people get it at some point, and most never even know it. Just a reminder men can't be tested for it and can only learn about it from having visible warts, which never may occur.
Keep it wrapped, gents.
HPV is a little different as some of the strains can cause throat cancers as well as cancer in female parts. It may be everywhere but if I was 20 or more years younger, there’s literally no chance I wouldn’t get the HPV vaccine.
Yes the cancer possibility with HPV is very real, and I wasn't trying to undermine the seriousness.
Only to align with what Rummy was saying that the array of treatment options is very wide these days, that a positive diagnosis doesn't mean a death sentence to your sex life.
A hiking buddy of mine from the AT contracted HIV in recent years and his treatment keeps the infected cell count so low that he wouldn't even test positive on rapid HIV testing and can still engage in sex with his partner without fear of transmitting it. He said the hardest part is just the stigma, and he has to be very careful with who he discloses it to.
The stigma is really bad with any STI because it causes people to either a) be too afraid of getting regularly tested because it's easier and more convenient to ignore or b) lie about their positive diagnosis and knowingly spread because they think it means no one will want to come near them anymore.
Both of these things could be solved if people were better educated and less judgmental, but it's too taboo to talk about sex in many circles in America still.
Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
ha… I need to lay out a fat disclaimer here because the question is asking if I’d go to great lengths to bang a specific person. I don’t actually want to bang anyone other than my current partner right now.
That said, not only is the answer yes… If single, I’d prob bang my worst again without any reward involved.
Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
ha… I need to lay out a fat disclaimer here because the question is asking if I’d go to great lengths to bang a specific person. I don’t actually want to bang anyone other than my current partner right now.
That said, not only is the answer yes… If single, I’d prob bang my worst again without any reward involved.
Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
ha… I need to lay out a fat disclaimer here because the question is asking if I’d go to great lengths to bang a specific person. I don’t actually want to bang anyone other than my current partner right now.
That said, not only is the answer yes… If single, I’d prob bang my worst again without any reward involved.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
For sure, since my worst was most def also my first, and hers aswell. I would've loved it to have been better but more for her than for me, but y'know you gotta start somewhere and get better I guess?
Last Edit: Apr 18, 2022 14:19:37 GMT -5 by Bing - Back to Top
Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
prediction: this is gonna be an easy "yeah of course" for most men (not all, but most) and a lot more complicated to determine answer for most female identifying folks
not because men are more "sex-minded" or anything like that. it is just that, candidly speaking, a lot of dudes' worst sexual encounter was really bad/awkward sex or maybe with someone they weren't at all attracted to...whereas a lot of women's worst is like, traumatizing
Post by Mr.BelgianAmbers on Apr 18, 2022 14:32:35 GMT -5
Well I'm not sleeping with the worst again, she snapped my dick basically in half, couldn't walk straight for a week. Kicked her out of the house because she had no respect, just laughing in my face when I was obviously in a lot of pain.
That being said, there are others I'd go back to that I can tell would be a mistake. But not for a reward.
Sleeping with the best again can't be a reward, it wouldn't be the same either way. So no, let it be the best you had.
Depends on what you'd define as worst sexual partner.
If it was someone where the sex was lazy and unstimulating, I'd for sure, even as Jortles said, with no reward because a lay is a lay.
But if it was with someone who made me fear for my safety and left me with some trauma, no. Not at all.
I'll be honest there are people in the "this was ok, but... why did I just do this" list; especially a rando hook up or two, where I wouldn't even trade that off for my best sex partner.
unfortunately one of my very best in terms of sexual compatibility and chemistry is also the only ex of mine who i genuinely would fear being around again in terms of safety (emotionally - no physical abuse occurred but emotional/psychological, 100%)
i'd rather fuck my worst lay in terms of "oof that just wasn't good" again than ^^ that guy, for obvious self-protection reasons.
which all kind of lends itself to what i originally posited, that for a lot of women this is going to be a complex answer haha.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
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Would you hook up with the worst sexual partner you’ve had if it meant you could hook up with the best again? Interested in Jake Jortles answer
ha… I need to lay out a fat disclaimer here because the question is asking if I’d go to great lengths to bang a specific person. I don’t actually want to bang anyone other than my current partner right now.
That said, not only is the answer yes… If single, I’d prob bang my worst again without any reward involved.
I thought you were about to say something about fat girls and I feared for your safety.
Well I'm not sleeping with the worst again, she snapped my dick basically in half, couldn't walk straight for a week. Kicked her out of the house because she had no respect, just laughing in my face when I was obviously in a lot of pain.
That being said, there are others I'd go back to that I can tell would be a mistake. But not for a reward.
Sleeping with the best again can't be a reward, it wouldn't be the same either way. So no, let it be the best you had.
That's so messed up, I can't imagine laughing the pain of somebody I've been intimate with/want to be intimate with
Well I'm not sleeping with the worst again, she snapped my dick basically in half, couldn't walk straight for a week. Kicked her out of the house because she had no respect, just laughing in my face when I was obviously in a lot of pain.
That being said, there are others I'd go back to that I can tell would be a mistake. But not for a reward.
Sleeping with the best again can't be a reward, it wouldn't be the same either way. So no, let it be the best you had.
That's so messed up, I can't imagine laughing the pain of somebody I've been intimate with/want to be intimate with
I don't mind laughing while getting intimate, most of my best experiences were a lot of fun and very playful.
Laughing at someone is just not okay, especially since she was the one who hurted me. If it's self inflicted by accident, I can see why it could be funny.
Post by man1cpixiedreamgirl on Apr 18, 2022 15:00:58 GMT -5
Had to skip today's first question, but this one's great.
I don't like sleeping with people again who aren't totally compatible. I'm a real quality over quantity girl. Luckily I happen to have both lately, but that took years. I'd never even sleep with a mediocre-level person again. I love sex too much for it to ever be boring or just "fine".
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Nope, my best lay broke me heart...so I don't even want it.
I had the same narrative for years. It gets better. Just took waaaaaaaay longer than I wanted it to. I literally remember crying thinking "no one will ever match up to her" and then a couple years later, it happened. And now I've had even better. Keep at it. <3
Had to skip today's first question, but this one's great.
I don't like sleeping with people again who aren't totally compatible. I'm a real quality over quantity girl. Luckily I happen to have both lately, but that took years. I'd never even sleep with a mediocre-level person again. I love sex too much for it to ever be boring or just "fine".
Definitely with you on the quality over quantity thing.
The flip side though is that it can be hard to be on your A game 100% of the time, especially with someone new. I usually reach my full potential on round 2 or 3. When I go to bed with someone who's obviously got high sexual expectations I can sometimes cave under the pressure.
I'm always up for a second chance cause I'd hope they'd be willing to do the same for me!
Had to skip today's first question, but this one's great.
I don't like sleeping with people again who aren't totally compatible. I'm a real quality over quantity girl. Luckily I happen to have both lately, but that took years. I'd never even sleep with a mediocre-level person again. I love sex too much for it to ever be boring or just "fine".
Definitely with you on the quality over quantity thing.
The flip side though is that it can be hard to be on your A game 100% of the time, especially with someone new. I usually reach my full potential on round 2 or 3. When I go to bed with someone who's obviously got high sexual expectations I can sometimes cave under the pressure.
I'm always up for a second chance cause I'd hope they'd be willing to do the same for me!
Do you ever know when you're on your A game before you even started?
Definitely with you on the quality over quantity thing.
The flip side though is that it can be hard to be on your A game 100% of the time, especially with someone new. I usually reach my full potential on round 2 or 3. When I go to bed with someone who's obviously got high sexual expectations I can sometimes cave under the pressure.
I'm always up for a second chance cause I'd hope they'd be willing to do the same for me!
Do you ever know when you're on your A game before you even started?
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