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Banged a 42 year old when I was 24. It was pretty cool. Widest gap in the other direction is my current relationship that I mentioned (6 years).
My understanding of it has always been that girls in their early 20s are more likely to be attracted to older guys because guys of the same age are less mature than girls of the same age. They’re tryna date and fuck a man not some lil college frat boi. If a 35 year old guy is out here scouring exclusively for 18-22 years olds that’s weird, but almost anything shy of that creepy of a situation is fine. I would guess that if you made some sort of cutoff at 25, you’d find people at 26 making a lot of stupid decisions 18 year olds currently make. Full brain or not full brain at some point people have to start freely navigating life and the range of maturity that exists between people on a case by case basis makes me ok with the 18 cutoff.
When I banged that 42 year old I can confirm that there was no shot in hell that there was anything wrong with what she did. If an outside observer wanted to look at the power dynamics of that one, I think you’d still easily conclude they were in my favor.
Having a consensual sexual encounter that would constitute as “banging” is not the same as having a relationship in terms of potential harms that come out of it.
I had sex with someone who was 51 when I was 30 and it was fine. But if I had dated her it would’ve been a whole other story.
trying to keep myself in that situation is hard but I feel pretty confident that if I could have dated a 38 year old when I was 23-24 without too many additional issues. May have been less burdensome than the similar aged girl I dated at the time.
I do want to plant a flag though and say I do agree with something somewhere in your point. My age gap in my current relationship was always a red flag for me and the primary reason that I didn’t take my relationship seriously at first.
I think what your saying is a good general thought and like with anything there are a ton of exceptions based on other variables in the mix.
Post by Jake Jortles on Apr 21, 2022 8:43:48 GMT -5
Also why are we back talking about relationships. Should def be talking about fucking. That’s why I was thinking we’d be talking about 22 year olds banging 29 year olds.
Don't remember if I told this story here before. A woman was hitting on me and wanted to hook up, but she was married and had five kids so I said no. I was 24, she was 41. She ended up leaving her husband for a 28 year old.
While I'm thinking of that board...
Back in 2008, some girl from PA wanted to come up to MA to hook up. She was married and had a kid. I knew another guy who ran bustos on her out in Illinois. I said no. She shortly after moved to Michigan and was dating a guy there for 8 months, where his friends ran bustos on her and he sent her back to PA.
Statutorily raped each other unless they were in Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont. West Virginia or Washington state per Google. I guess there’s a 35-40% chance that hookup was not illegal.
Post by LoveLuckLaughter on Apr 21, 2022 10:02:52 GMT -5
I would say 16 is going to be a pretty common age for first consensual penetrative experiences. Would also wonder how long after that first experience most women were able to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
I would say 16 is going to be a pretty common age for first consensual penetrative experiences. Would also wonder how long after that first experience most women were able to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex.
Something like only 10% of women can orgasm from penetration alone, so most are probably still waiting
I would say 16 is going to be a pretty common age for first consensual penetrative experiences. Would also wonder how long after that first experience most women were able to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex.
Something like only 10% of women can orgasm from penetration alone, so most are probably still waiting
I don't think my grandma (mom's mom) has ever had an orgasm.
What's the coolest or strangest place you've ever boinked? Bonus points if it's been in a sex dungeon obviously
In a boxcar, on train track rocks and best of all a downtown hotel tour of several pool sides after convincing her that you could only see inside hotel windows and not out so we were cool. Still not sure how I pulled that off. Haha.
I would say 16 is going to be a pretty common age for first consensual penetrative experiences. Would also wonder how long after that first experience most women were able to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex.
Something like only 10% of women can orgasm from penetration alone, so most are probably still waiting
Exactly. The moment one becomes comfortable enough with that. I was still trying to talk a friend at age 24 into just touching herself or pulling out a vibrator because she had never had an orgasm during sex.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
I’ve been searching my memories and realized I’m exceedingly boring when it comes boning locations. I don’t think I’ve ever done it outdoors or anywhere even semi public minus road head once when I was like 17.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
What's the coolest or strangest place you've ever boinked? Bonus points if it's been in a sex dungeon obviously
El Retiro in Madrid was pretty cool.
(Fun fact: I'm not sure how it is now, but back in the late '90s, most Madrlieños lived with their parents pretty much until they got married - so, it was totally the norm to be in your mid-to-late 20s and living at home with the folks. This did make it harder for people to get it on at home, though, so PDA was NUTS. El Retiro is basically Madrid's version of Central Park, and you'd have whole fields of people snogging in the middle of the day, although we had to get creative to go the distance without being seen at it)
What's the coolest or strangest place you've ever boinked? Bonus points if it's been in a sex dungeon obviously
El Retiro in Madrid was pretty cool.
(Fun fact: I'm not sure how it is now, but back in the late '90s, most Madrlieños lived with their parents pretty much until they got married - so, it was totally the norm to be in your mid-to-late 20s and living at home with the folks. This did make it harder for people to get it on at home, though, so PDA was NUTS. El Retiro is basically Madrid's version of Central Park, and you'd have whole fields of people snogging in the middle of the day, although we had to get creative to go the distance without being seen at it)
I have had lots of outdoor/public places sex (parks, football fields, cemeteries, alleyways, someone's front lawn), on a bear skin rug, and in a van in my parent's front yard. IDK or think any of that is cool/weird or salacious.
I’ve been searching my memories and realized I’m exceedingly boring when it comes boning locations. I don’t think I’ve ever done it outdoors or anywhere even semi public minus road head once when I was like 17.
(Fun fact: I'm not sure how it is now, but back in the late '90s, most Madrlieños lived with their parents pretty much until they got married - so, it was totally the norm to be in your mid-to-late 20s and living at home with the folks. This did make it harder for people to get it on at home, though, so PDA was NUTS. El Retiro is basically Madrid's version of Central Park, and you'd have whole fields of people snogging in the middle of the day, although we had to get creative to go the distance without being seen at it)
Wait are you British?
Nah, I grew up in Kentucky. I did a semester abroad in Madrid, so I lived there for 8 months.
And I just picked up "snogging" somewhere along the way.
Post by man1cpixiedreamgirl on Apr 21, 2022 10:37:53 GMT -5
For me, obviously been to a ton of sex dungeons (favorite one is in Bushwick) and play parties (prefer Williamsburg to FiDi but there's one in Ridgewood that's great) which are consensually public. I've had sex in most popular Hudson Valley trails, especially when it was 2020 pandemic and hardly anyone was out.
But I think fucking at midnight in a Brooklyn playground after a concert may have been the craziest. It was like right near the venue so it was essentially public.
For me, obviously been to a ton of sex dungeons (favorite one is in Bushwick) and play parties (prefer Williamsburg to FiDi but there's one in Ridgewood that's great) which are consensually public. I've had sex in most popular Hudson Valley trails, especially when it was 2020 pandemic and hardly anyone was out.
But I think fucking at midnight in a Brooklyn playground after a concert may have been the craziest. It was like right near the venue so it was essentially public.
Team Brooklyn playground FTW, although mine was after playing in the band for an off-off-Broadway musical in Williamsburg.
For me, obviously been to a ton of sex dungeons (favorite one is in Bushwick) and play parties (prefer Williamsburg to FiDi but there's one in Ridgewood that's great)
For me, obviously been to a ton of sex dungeons (favorite one is in Bushwick) and play parties (prefer Williamsburg to FiDi but there's one in Ridgewood that's great) which are consensually public. I've had sex in most popular Hudson Valley trails, especially when it was 2020 pandemic and hardly anyone was out.
But I think fucking at midnight in a Brooklyn playground after a concert may have been the craziest. It was like right near the venue so it was essentially public.
So we might have been friends if the pandemic didn't land on top of us... I mean it sucks being a bi-curious straight man in this area for realz though
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