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Definitely sleeves. Have had great experiences with those. I’m a fan of vibrating cock rings, but YMMV using that in an oral situation. Of course, there’s also vibrating stuff for the prostate, but that’s a tougher sell for a lot of dudes.
Of course this is all useless for me, but hopefully some less experienced Roo’ers can heed your advice!
lol yes i definitelyyyy already use the mouth-hand combo y'all haha this ain't my first rodeo.
that angle you're describing still really makes my neck hurt after a while if done regularly enough though! guess i just need to get a chiropractor or something lol
You are going to have to show me what you are doing (not creepy at all) bc you really don't need to move your neck much at all if you are using hands (two hands depending on length). Moving hands in opposite directions, up and down, with lots of spit, and mostly just using your mouth to for ball attention and focus on the head. Neck movement mostly only for when you go deep and you could grab their ass and move them to you, instead of you to them.
If that's not helpful Adrianne's neck/shoulder yoga might be useful.
Yes to all of this except coconut oil instead of spit. Such a great running start to the hand sliding and because weed can enhance the sexual experience but also causes cotton mouth. Plus it puts a nice little taste in the mouth so makes it easier when the finale comes at ya.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Post by LoveLuckLaughter on May 26, 2022 2:05:13 GMT -5
Coconut oil for the face, for lubrication, for my legs and arms, in my deodorant, for my hair, for my teeth, for cooking. I should invest in coconut oil.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Coconut oil for the face, for lubrication, for my legs and arms, in my deodorant, for my hair, for my teeth, for cooking. I should invest in coconut oil.
huge proponent of coconut oil too!!
I appreciate yalls thoughts most of it I do already know/employ so I think the issue is just… finding ways to relieve the tension in my neck regularly. And probably book a massage or chiropractor appointment haha
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Speaking of injuries, who here is an impact person? Marks & bruises are the good kind of “sex injury” IMHO.
110% yes. Impact play was my first love in terms of kink exploration & still one of my fave things to do. Currently have a very cute purple-ish bruise on my upper right leg from some thigh caning (those leave such pretty marks)
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Coconut oil for the face, for lubrication, for my legs and arms, in my deodorant, for my hair, for my teeth, for cooking. I should invest in coconut oil.
huge proponent of coconut oil too!!
I appreciate yalls thoughts most of it I do already know/employ so I think the issue is just… finding ways to relieve the tension in my neck regularly. And probably book a massage or chiropractor appointment haha
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
You are going to have to show me what you are doing (not creepy at all) bc you really don't need to move your neck much at all if you are using hands (two hands depending on length). Moving hands in opposite directions, up and down, with lots of spit, and mostly just using your mouth to for ball attention and focus on the head. Neck movement mostly only for when you go deep and you could grab their ass and move them to you, instead of you to them.
If that's not helpful Adrianne's neck/shoulder yoga might be useful.
Yes to all of this except coconut oil instead of spit. Such a great running start to the hand sliding and because weed can enhance the sexual experience but also causes cotton mouth. Plus it puts a nice little taste in the mouth so makes it easier when the finale comes at ya.
Did you know that to mimic cum dripping from mouths (or wherever) you can mix coconut oil with water (much easier to just let it melt in your mouth since oil and water mixing can be difficult) and it looks the same.
For anyone else who may be reading this know that oil breaks down latex so keep that in mind if you will be doing other activities that need barriers.
Yes to all of this except coconut oil instead of spit. Such a great running start to the hand sliding and because weed can enhance the sexual experience but also causes cotton mouth. Plus it puts a nice little taste in the mouth so makes it easier when the finale comes at ya.
Did you know that to mimic cum dripping from mouths (or wherever) you can mix coconut oil with water (much easier to just let it melt in your mouth since oil and water mixing can be difficult) and it looks the same.
For anyone else who may be reading this know that oil breaks down latex so keep that in mind if you will be doing other activities that need barriers.
yes yes! Only use coconut oil with non latex condoms or if fluid bonded with that partner/forgoing condoms
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
Speaking of injuries, who here is an impact person? Marks & bruises are the good kind of “sex injury” IMHO.
110% yes. Impact play was my first love in terms of kink exploration & still one of my fave things to do. Currently have a very cute purple-ish bruise on my upper right leg from some thigh caning (those leave such pretty marks)
I haaaaaate caning. I'm more about paddles, and I also love rope marks.
What are everyone's favorite products/toys etc and the sites you purchase from?
I super loyal to sliquid's blue label lube H2o and just bought the "organics" for the first time. I'm pretty disappointed in this product.
For sites, I've used Adam and Eve since back when Laci Green first started having promo codes, but I'm sure there are better out there.
Looking for input on all things you all love but specifically toy cleaners and affordable but sturdy bondage wear.
I love Spectrum Boutique - it's a women-owned small business and costs less than Babeland. For bondage wear, I love Purple Passion (I think you can buy their stuff online) and reputable Etsy stores.
What are everyone's favorite products/toys etc and the sites you purchase from?
I super loyal to sliquid's blue label lube H2o and just bought the "organics" for the first time. I'm pretty disappointed in this product.
For sites, I've used Adam and Eve since back when Laci Green first started having promo codes, but I'm sure there are better out there.
Looking for input on all things you all love but specifically toy cleaners and affordable but sturdy bondage wear.
Whatever toys “XTC Video” in Akron, OH has. Lol.
Although I wore one of mine out recently and wasn’t going to be able to go because of work, so I ordered one off of Amazon in a pinch. I forgot that my dad is linked to my Amazon account, and he gets the messages that notify about shipping. He always comments about the things I buy, “Did you get your bodysuit today?” “How did you like those glow sticks you got yesterday?” Didn’t hear a peep about that vibrator.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
“Fluid bonded”. Lol. I’ve never heard that before. Those are my favorites I guess.
haha so i thiiiink it might be more poly/ENM-centric language? because if you've got multiple regular partners, clarifying which (if any) you might plan to fluid bond with, how you're going to be super safe in protection with others etc. is imperative
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
110% yes. Impact play was my first love in terms of kink exploration & still one of my fave things to do. Currently have a very cute purple-ish bruise on my upper right leg from some thigh caning (those leave such pretty marks)
I haaaaaate caning. I'm more about paddles, and I also love rope marks.
sooo you're more Team Thuddy than Stingy?
although paddles can be hella stingy. is it more that you prefer the spread-out sensation of a paddle compared to the localized pain of canes?
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
I haaaaaate caning. I'm more about paddles, and I also love rope marks.
sooo you're more Team Thuddy than Stingy?
although paddles can be hella stingy. is it more that you prefer the spread-out sensation of a paddle compared to the localized pain of canes?
(i like both)
Yah I like all pain but I hate small focused pains. That's also why I don't do electro-play or blood play. Paddles are great because they're spread-out stingy, like you say, and they're just hella fun to use both ways haha
What are everyone's favorite products/toys etc and the sites you purchase from?
I super loyal to sliquid's blue label lube H2o and just bought the "organics" for the first time. I'm pretty disappointed in this product.
For sites, I've used Adam and Eve since back when Laci Green first started having promo codes, but I'm sure there are better out there.
Looking for input on all things you all love but specifically toy cleaners and affordable but sturdy bondage wear.
lovehoney is my partner and I’s go to, they enjoy their toys a lot. also their bondage stuff is high quality and made w nice materials. personally have not used any of their toys for amabs bc i dont really enjoy rings or anything to that effect but yea.
to add to last pages conversation i just dislike the sensation of toys, and dont need them for orgasm personally. i prefer to use them on my partner
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although paddles can be hella stingy. is it more that you prefer the spread-out sensation of a paddle compared to the localized pain of canes?
(i like both)
Yah I like all pain but I hate small focused pains. That's also why I don't do electro-play or blood play. Paddles are great because they're spread-out stingy, like you say, and they're just hella fun to use both ways haha
v interesting because im totally with you on electro play and i'm quite meh on needles/cutting, but i loooove canes. not so much for pickup play though (which i hardly ever do anymore, but back when i more regularly did)--but because they are stingy and do hurt me beyond the this-is-great-and-enjoyable kind of pain that i experience from thuddier things, it can be an intimate way to suffer for a partner within more of a power exchange sort of relationship. i feel the same about whips.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Anyone else *use to have a partner you were expanding your sexuality around, and now don't feel secure buying bondage, ropes, etc because it'll never get used? I'm just whining, but then again I really miss learning knots - and feel so out of experience right now
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Anyone else *use to have a partner you were expanding your sexuality around, and now don't feel secure buying bondage, ropes, etc because it'll never get used? I'm just whining, but then again I really miss learning knots - and feel so out of experience right now
you should check out rope share/rope practice events in the City! they are totally non-sexual spaces where people are just practicing their rope tying skills in a casual learning environment. i bet you could easily find a bottom to work with on some basic ties, etc.
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
Anyone else *use to have a partner you were expanding your sexuality around, and now don't feel secure buying bondage, ropes, etc because it'll never get used? I'm just whining, but then again I really miss learning knots - and feel so out of experience right now
you should check out rope share/rope practice events in the City! they are totally non-sexual spaces where people are just practicing their rope tying skills in a casual learning environment. i bet you could easily find a bottom to work with on some basic ties, etc.
I hear you, and I'll be honest I need some help on this. These types of spaces are not presented to me by others, and I really don't have a lot of friends here in NYC so I'm kinda a 36 year old newb. I know they exist, but I don't know where or who to talk to about like events. My roommate was part of that culture, but COVID, took a LOT of wind out of those poly situations and they are now more mentally concentrated on their farm upstate and fostering their partnership. They knew I was a little queer before I did, so it's tough knowing how to even take the next step
Um, also... it's not like kink is accepted vocally by my community. In fact it is one of those things that they demonize heavily. So I'm still trying to get those Christian vibe energies off me to this day
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you should check out rope share/rope practice events in the City! they are totally non-sexual spaces where people are just practicing their rope tying skills in a casual learning environment. i bet you could easily find a bottom to work with on some basic ties, etc.
I hear you, and I'll be honest I need some help on this. These types of spaces are not presented to me by others, and I really don't have a lot of friends here in NYC so I'm kinda a 36 year old newb. I know they exist, but I don't know where or who to talk to about like events. My roommate was part of that culture, but COVID, took a LOT of wind out of those poly situations and they are now more mentally concentrated on their farm upstate and fostering their partnership. They knew I was a little queer before I did, so it's tough knowing how to even take the next step
gonna PM ya but the answer is FL - in NYC there are likely other ways to keep abreast of kink events, but where i live, FL is the way (outside of private invite-only things but you gotta get to know people first in order to get invited to those, naturally)
Considering you've found the need to respond to my threads as if you are threatened by me I offer you some peace my confused counterpart. May you find peace in your restless soul.
you should check out rope share/rope practice events in the City! they are totally non-sexual spaces where people are just practicing their rope tying skills in a casual learning environment. i bet you could easily find a bottom to work with on some basic ties, etc.
I hear you, and I'll be honest I need some help on this. These types of spaces are not presented to me by others, and I really don't have a lot of friends here in NYC so I'm kinda a 36 year old newb. I know they exist, but I don't know where or who to talk to about like events. My roommate was part of that culture, but COVID, took a LOT of wind out of those poly situations and they are now more mentally concentrated on their farm upstate and fostering their partnership. They knew I was a little queer before I did, so it's tough knowing how to even take the next step
Um, also... it's not like kink is accepted vocally by my community. In fact it is one of those things that they demonize heavily. So I'm still trying to get those Christian vibe energies off me to this day
I'm sure if you ask your roomie in an effective and straight-forward way, they would help! The hardest part in any problem is asking for help.
There's a place called Temple that does a lot of suspension and rope workshops.
“Fluid bonded”. Lol. I’ve never heard that before. Those are my favorites I guess.
haha so i thiiiink it might be more poly/ENM-centric language? because if you've got multiple regular partners, clarifying which (if any) you might plan to fluid bond with, how you're going to be super safe in protection with others etc. is imperative
Gotcha. Yeah I’ve only had 5 partners in the last 10 years or so, so I guess I’m low on fluid or something.
We're all a mess of paradoxes. Believing in things we know can't be true. We walk around carrying feelings too complicated and contradictory to express. But when it all becomes too big, and words aren't enough to help get it all out, there's always music.
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most of it I do already know/employ so I think the issue is just… finding ways to relieve the tension in my neck regularly. And probably book a massage or chiropractor appointment haha
most of it I do already know/employ so I think the issue is just… finding ways to relieve the tension in my neck regularly. And probably book a massage or chiropractor appointment haha
