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My question is, for the ones in the higher brackets - how do y'all even get so many partners in the first place?
This isn't a very tactful answer, but honestly just being a relatively confident woman. That's all it takes, if you want to have sex, be a woman and it's 10000x easier.
have that relationship go down in flames along with the last shred of your self-affirmable self esteem, decide that the only way you can feel at all good about yourself is if other people desire you and so engage in a campaign of consensually casual encounters that are fun and make you feel good about yourself temporarily but aren’t a substitute for real self-worth
nine years married, 4 years separated. just filed my divorce paperwork yesterday! woot!
Congratulations?
Yea it’s a good thing. We have a good parenting relationship and friendship, we talk just about everyday, but a romantic relationship just ain’t there anymore. Time to move on.
Yea it’s a good thing. We have a good parenting relationship and friendship, we talk just about everyday, but a romantic relationship just ain’t there anymore. Time to move on.
Good for you. That sounds like such a challenging decision to make and it's great that you and your almost ex were clear eyed about it.
My question is, for the ones in the higher brackets - how do y'all even get so many partners in the first place?
Dating apps became a thing right when I hit my mid 20s, and I was living in Asia where I had the exotic foreigner thing going for me. Once I started learning the language it was almost too easy. 2016 and 2018 were very huge slut years for me.
My question is, for the ones in the higher brackets - how do y'all even get so many partners in the first place?
This isn't a very tactful answer, but honestly just being a relatively confident woman. That's all it takes, if you want to have sex, be a woman and it's 10000x easier.
I've been working on that whole confidence thing lately. For the hell of it, I slid into the DM's of an old crush and asked her out. It was a no, but 2011 me would be super proud of 2022 me for at least trying.
I mean the answer to the last question for me was, as a single person (not now), getting into unreal physical shape, going to bars and forcing myself to become charismatic, and swiping on apps to find someone who is also only interested in having sex with nothing more.
Yup... I'm screwed.
lol what the hell? I know if you were with me at the bars in the summer of 2016 you would have cleaned up and my number would be a lot lower.
I think a lot of you are ignoring the fact that in simplest terms, sex is when the in penis out of down a against the hole sideways back to from the back vagina with out of again.
My question is, for the ones in the higher brackets - how do y'all even get so many partners in the first place?
Until I got married, my average relationship was around 3 months. The longest was like 8. In the most unhealthy way I was dependent on partnering for happiness. I bounced around and bounced around doing a few months here and a few months there, never fully being alone or figuring out what I wanted out of a relationship.
When the last relationship I had was ending, she told me that “I bring out the mother in women” and I’d have a girlfriend in weeks “because you look like you need someone to take care of you”.
It wasn’t as mean spirited as it was blunt. It hurt but forced me to look at myself and how I come across to other people. I’d wager that’s how I jumped around so much.
tl;dr Congrats on being more confident. Continue down that road. It’s way more sexy.
I think a lot of you are ignoring the fact that in simplest terms, sex is when the in penis out of down a against the hole sideways back to from the back vagina with out of again.
Yea it’s a good thing. We have a good parenting relationship and friendship, we talk just about everyday, but a romantic relationship just ain’t there anymore. Time to move on.
Welcome to the divorce club. It sucks and then it doesn’t!
There is nothing to be embarrassed about, there is no choice on this poll that is inherently better than another.
From a different perspective -
I'm definitely in the 1-5 category, and the count itself isn't a problem for me.
There's the times from before, and since, that 9.5 year relationship where I would of liked to have had more partners. The droughts aren't fun.
My question is, for the ones in the higher brackets - how do y'all even get so many partners in the first place?
I was a little slutty before I met my (ex) wife, who I married when I was 25. She was older than me and we had lesbian bed death pretty quickly. I went into grad school right after and she was traveling a lot and/or really depressed, and all the other grad students were hot and single or polyamorous, and I was like “oh no I locked it down before I even knew who I was.” I started sleeping with someone who was a friend of a friend (I know not great) and it confirmed I needed to be non-monogamous. But she freaked when I asked about it, and I kept seeing the other person for a long time because I knew my life was about to blow up - I was sort of just waiting for it to happen. Eventually I couldn’t take it anymore, and after graduation I told her about the affair, and she kicked me out. I didn’t know what I didn’t know. I’d navigate things a lot better as a woman in my 30’s in the 2020s.
Anyway so then I was pretty slutty for a while, happily single for a while, met my GF 3 years ago at a pride event (guess almost 4 now), and now we have a relationship that’s non monogamous but not polyamorous. We sleep with other people but it’s usually together or people we know from events we both go to. So yah, it adds up!
Does anyone who voted wish their number was different? If so, why? And what number do you wish you were at?
I regret pretending to myself that I was monogamous since senior year of college, because the term poly wasn't used at all during 03-07 at a college campus in NJ. Making me feel like an utter whore while now I feel utterly vanilla. I wish my number was higher because I feel like I have been very flirtatious but maybe it's something that can't/won't be reciprocated.
I wasn't ignoring your other quote of me, I just was in a mono relationship in 2016 that is well noted via pictures and facebook feels it necessary to remind me often. I lost all sense of self worth in 2017 after the relationship broke apart and I would have been utterly worthless as a bar mate at that point
One time I did shrooms and thought about how silly it is that we're constantly obsessed with how much we're fucking or not fucking. Then I just felt really detached from it all and I wasn't horny for like three months after that.
One time I did shrooms and thought about how silly it is that we're constantly obsessed with how much we're fucking or not fucking. Then I just felt really detached from it all and I wasn't horny for like three months after that.
but seriously psychedelics and powder have both put me in this cycle before, and I wonder why we don't on a psych standpoint, have more therapists focused on sexual therapy? It should be covered because you can find out both physical issues with self and where people fall into different psychological trappings -- droogs or not
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Post by piggy pablo on Apr 8, 2022 14:36:54 GMT -5
Every number between 0 and 100 should have been a selectable answer. I want to know the real numbers. Not only that, I want to see someone climbing those rungs in real time. "Oh, they were 33 yesterday, now they're 34. Good for them."
Every number between 0 and 100 should have been a selectable answer. I want to know the real numbers. Not only that, I want to see someone climbing those rungs in real time. "Oh, they were 33 yesterday, now they're 34. Good for them."
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